pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

[jazzlawyer]

May scarcity kasi ng straight men kaya maraming girls ang di naliligawan. LOL 

[shurumi]

lol. natawa naman ako dito. nasa personality siguro ng girl to. may mga girls naman na hindi kagandahan pero naliligawan at may boyfriend.

pwdeng:
1. yung  girl maganDA NGA, hindi naman approachable, natatakot yung mga lalake
2. yung  girl maganda nga, pero maganda lang. baka mukang boring or salamin lang lage nakikita kase laging nagsasalamin.
yan lang sabi ng bro ko.
i know marami pang ibang reason. 

[JakeTheDog]

Hindi naman pangit, baka siguro masyadong intimidating or hindi approachable yung girl.

[JakeTheDog]

I have three girl friends na wala paring suitor hanggang ngayon. These are some of my theories.

Girl 1: Sobrang boyish and intimidating (pero maganda siya pramis). I think big factor to pag di approachable yung girl.
Girl 2: Boyish dati na naconvert ko to be girly. Feeling ko dahil alam ng mga lalaki yung past niya na siya yung nanliligaw sa mga babae, ayaw nila subukan. Baka feeling nila hindi sila talo with girl2. Am I saying this right boys?
Girl 3: Super brainy, presidente type na intimidating. And she always requires boys to be a "gentleman" around her. May mga lalaki ba na gusto yung bossy type? I'm just wondering.

for girl 3. Wala ata,ng guy na gusto ng boss. Parang pagtatawanan ka ng friends and relatives mo pag under ka ng girl 

[tey_roch19]

di naman siguro. baka nga di approachable or sadyang di pa right time. nakarelate ako. hehe weird din kasi nakakamiss yung feeling  na may bf or you have that special someone pero pag nanjan na parang ayoko muna. nagsusungit ako. naku baka maging matandang dalaga ako nito.

[jendan03]

wala namang pangit talaga... dahil ginawa tayo ng kawangis NYA. siguro kung paano mo na lang dalhin ang sarili mo... or minsan swertihan lang talaga. ako never naligawan till college... well, boyish, low self esteem, not very sociable, approachable naman pero mahiyain kasi ako at feeling ko hindi talaga ako ma appeal sa boys. hehe! pero a guy friend once told me na i'm not a girl friend material but i'm the marrying type of girl. tipong seryosohang relasyon... masasabi ko na tama siya kasi I'm married with my first & only BF.

[molybdenumstudios]

I think if a girl does not have a suitor, then she must be a domineer. Usually, if a girl is domineering, intimidating talaga ang impression sa kanya. Another thing is, being "mataray" as a first impression may seem to intimidate the guys, but once you know "her," maybe she's OK naman. May mga girls na sadyang mataas talaga ang standards. Also, in my PSYCH classes, when a person hits the 20's, it's not about the good looks. It's all about diskarte.

[Observer54]

minsan pag sobrang ganda nakaka ilang na rin lapitan. kaya tuloy minsan yung mga pangit na malalakas ang loob ang nakikinabang! 

[@JLO]

minsan pag sobrang ganda nakaka ilang na rin lapitan. kaya tuloy minsan yung mga pangit na malalakas ang loob ang nakikinabang! 

nakakatawa

[CebuGem]

it could be she is not friendly and suplada to the nth level, hehe.

[@JLO]

question: smiling face ba kayo like nakangiti sa stranger gann??? ako kasi hindi lol

[twelvth_goddess]

Pangit na ba kagad? Hinde ba pwedeng baka nai-intimidate lang guys sa kanya?

[molybdenumstudios]

^ korek ka dyan!

[iwannabeasupermodel]

question: smiling face ba kayo like nakangiti sa stranger gann??? ako kasi hindi lol

hmm, ganun ako ngayon pag asa mood. lalo na pag tinititigan na ako. just to ward off the awkwardness and for the person to stop looking. pero i do this more often with girls. actually i really like it when girls stare at me (in a good way). nakakablooming.

[jazzlawyer]

^ can you easily notice if a girl is really staring at you?

[twelvth_goddess]

question: smiling face ba kayo like nakangiti sa stranger gann??? ako kasi hindi lol

I find it rude to stare, kaya i dont like being stared at. When I was still single, I was ok pag gwapo naman hehe. Now, when I feel someone's staring or just looking, sumisimangot ako and tinitignan ko ng masama para tumigil.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ can you easily notice if a girl is really staring at you?

yes sis. staring and if i know that the girl has homo tendencies. malakas ang pilantik ng radar ko sa mga ganung girls.  very entertaining and accommodating sila. maasikaso.

I find it rude to stare, kaya i dont like being stared at. When I was still single, I was ok pag gwapo naman hehe. Now, when I feel someone's staring or just looking, sumisimangot ako and tinitignan ko ng masama para tumigil.

wow sis buti ka pa ang lakas ng loob mo na sumimangot at tumingin ng masama. ako di ko ata kaya yun. baka ano pa gawin sa akin.

[@JLO]

sa girl no prob, i can easily smile at them,,, but with boys staring a u? do u smile at them..?

[summersong]

Hehe hindi naman siguro. I know beautiful, brilliant, talented, kind-hearted women who rarely have suitors. Why? They're perceived as high-maintenance women with no vulnerabilities. Lesser men feel emasculated or can't keep up or feel they have to be constantly on their toes, na-stress ang mga lolo. Minsang may naglalakas loob, pero obviously kapal muks at gold digger ang peg lol, one just can't take these guys seriously. Bihira ang tunay na katapat nila.

So there may be a few reasons why a woman does not have suitors:
1. Underexposed -- masyadong homebody, hindi socially active. minsan introvert lang sila but they tend to be perceived as aloof or suplada.
2. Picky -- unrealistic ang hinahanap. they see themselves as almost perfect beings deserving almost perfect demigod-like men. That's almost impossible to find. Good luck to them.
3. Boring personality -- maganda nga, pero clueless/no sense of humor/no originality. A boring personality often also translates to a generic/boring appearance.
4. Prudes -- maganda at may sense kausap pero manang. they badly need a 21st century makeover.
5. Masama ang ugali
6. Too much alpha female-ness -- They don't know when to turn the alpha switch off and just enjoy being a carefree happy woman who's a delight to be with.
7. Ugly -- not necessarily a limitation. There are lots of ugly girls who lead great lovelives. It will have to be combined with the other factors above.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

@sisJLO

if the guy looks kind and nice and well, not hard on the eyes, i smile.

sometimes you need to smile, i mean if lagi ka nakasimangot talagang walang lalapit sayo.

tulad ng sis ko, she rarely smiles, tapos we're at a bar then nagsmile siya about something, sabi ng friends niya "ui smile ka nga ulit, alam mo daming nagtatanong about you pero di mo kasi pinapansin or ini-is-smile-an kaya ayan nagmomove on na lang".

then nanotice ko nga parang nakasimangot ang default ng sis ko. she's very pretty though and nagkakaboyfriend naman. hahaha.