pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

[spartan]

^I know, right?

Baka nga intimidating sila but in denial na they're also not pretty enough?

Eto simple math:

Intimidating + maganda = magkakaroon parin ng suitor

Intimidating + panget = forever alone

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[TheGoat]

Kahit gano pa ka-intimidating ang girl basta talagang maganda sya, meron manliligaw.

also vice versa

tapos ang usapan! True toh! Wag ng mag explain pa na dahil mataray or anuman. pag may itsura meron yahn! Timing lang!

Pasensya na medyo malabo sa akin eh.  Are you two implying na "pangit nga ang isang girl na walang suitor"?

[viellemacey]

@spartan

hindi naman siguro forever alone.. besides hindi naman pare-pareho ang pamantayan natin ng maganda di ba. 

[bettylafea]

tapos ang usapan! True toh! Wag ng mag explain pa na dahil mataray or anuman. pag may itsura meron yahn! Timing lang!

Pasensya na medyo malabo sa akin eh.  Are you two implying na "pangit nga ang isang girl na walang suitor"?

imposible lang ang walang suitor kahit isang beses sa tana ng buhay nya kung talagang maganda sya. Regarding sa number ng manliligaw/ sa frquency ng panliligaw, that's another matter, may ibang factors pa dun.

[spartan]

@spartan

hindi naman siguro forever alone.. besides hindi naman pare-pareho ang pamantayan natin ng maganda di ba. 

Ya exaggeration yung "forever alone", internet joke yun. True, iba-iba pamantayan ng ganda. Some might think that a cow in a dress is maganda but I'm using the world's standards (beauty contest, models, moviestars etc...).

What's driving me crazy is that 9 out of 10 answers here say they are just intimidating, mataray, tahimik, di marunong mag-ayos, mali location, too successful yada-yada-yada...

NOBODY wants to admit they might just be, you know - lacking in the looks department.

Believe me, if you're really HOT, i don't care how high you are up the ladder or if you're a child of the devil, there will ALWAYS be a guy who will try to get you. A few will be scared away, like low confidence men, which you don't want to end up with anyways.

No need to complicate and over analyze. You are not the exception. Men are stupid visual creatures. The simplest and most honest answer coming from an average guys POV is, "You're just not pretty enough".

[abuanddiego]

Marami rin akong kilala na hindi maganda pero ligawin at marami ng naging bf. Ang tanong pa nga samin, bakit kung sino pa ang panget sa inyo, siya pa yung may bf? Di ko alam kung compliment ba yun o ano natawa na lang kami kasi nakakatawa talaga haha! Mind you, hindi panget ang naging bf nila.

[mackygurl]

Parang hindi naman ako naniniwala na PAG WALANG SUITOR ANG ISANG GIRL, IBIG SABIHIN PANGIT SYA? Kasi bakit ganun yung kasam-bahay namin sa bahay may manliligaw at mag BF na. Bakit ako wala? E di naman sa pagmamayabang syempre mas may hitsura naman ako sa kasam-bahay namin. Saka take note hindi din naman mahilig lumabas si kasambahay. BAKIT GANON? Unfair talaga ang buhay. 

[faithful and loyal]

hmm,d [textspeak!] satisfied sa questi0n.panu if crush ka lang nya..hindi ba counted un? Kelangn [textspeak!] magbase sa dame ng suitors ang ganda? Tingin ko, hindi..hindi naman lahat ng nagkakagusto sayo e lahat un gusto ka ligawan..db? End may mga tao talaga na PANGET pero bkt maapeel, may MAGANDA,na tama lang..minsan p nga walang dating [textspeak!] GANDA nila.. May ibang girls kc tingin ko na marami nangliligaw kasi mukhang easy-to-get! And other girls na matatakot kang ligawan kasi,hindi sya basta basta..un lang naman observation ko so far..

[faithful and loyal]

hmm,d [textspeak!] satisfied sa questi0n.panu if crush ka lang nya..hindi ba counted un? Kelangn [textspeak!] magbase sa dame ng suitors ang ganda? Tingin ko, hindi..hindi naman lahat ng nagkakagusto sayo e lahat un gusto ka ligawan..db? End may mga tao talaga na PANGET pero bkt maapeel, may MAGANDA,na tama lang..minsan p nga walang dating [textspeak!] GANDA nila.. May ibang girls kc tingin ko na marami nangliligaw kasi mukhang easy-to-get! And other girls na matatakot kang ligawan kasi,hindi sya basta basta..un lang naman observation ko so far..!

[aliamoj]

hi sis,, absoulutely no.. sa panahon ngayon kung pangit ka u can either flaunt ur other assets. pero the best way is accept ur self, including ur flaws, love them as part of ur body, dahil ang pinakaimportante is u love urself first diba.

i used to think this way before since ang taba taba ko walang nangliligaw sakin. pero un pala its not because im fat at all its because i dont love myself, i was so hard on my self pero when i learned to love who i am and i was not always particular in hating each flaws i have ayun naging happy ang pagkikitungo ko sa life, naging ma-aliwalas ang personality ko, dami na kong suitors at lahat naman sila attracted sa personality ko magaan ang loob nila pag kasama ako at top it off with enhancing ur assets diba perfect=)

[samsonknight]

hindi eh, maybe its more on sa ugali... you need to love yourself first, if you can't love yourself how can somebody love you. accept who you are and how you are and what you are..

[kuliglig^^]

~Intimidating si girl?

~Pangit yung ugali nung girl?

~Di siya gf material?

~Shallow ang pag-iisip ng boys around him?

Maraming reasons eh. Pero it doesn't mean na panget siya. Kasi kahit panget nga may suitors eh.  There must be some other reason... pero wag din sana magmadali si girl, kasi pag lalo siya naghanap, lalo lang siya ma-disappoint dun sa quality of guys na lalapit. But that's just my point of view. Peace!

[Rheine]

Kulang sa landi. hehe Joke 

[superdaisy]

1. mahiyain?
2. suplada..
3. pihikan
4. right guy sa right time daw.

[aezle_marie]

siguro hindi naman.. baka masungit or maganda nga pero kulang sa hygiene..baka naman masyado matalino,mataas personality kaya intimidated ang mga guys. hindi rin naman dahil  nililigawan eh maganda na.

[Superjoie]

Hindi naman.. baka hindi lang masyado attractive yung girl.. meron kasi magaganda naman tlaga.. kaso walang dating. parang ganun.

[Viridian]

sis, wala nang pangit sa panahon ngayon meron lang hindi marunong magayos ng sarili

in case of not having suitors, baka naman hindi palalabas or medyo hindi approachable minsan kasi if you act na parang may wall in between you and people, malabo talagang lapitan ka ng tao kasi siyempre may fear yan na mareject eh

and i disagree with spartan dun sa kahit gaano pa ka intimidating basta maganda may manliligaw :p kasi i know this girl na maputi, maganda, matangkad, former model siya pero kung anong ikinaganda niya siya namang ikinapangit ng ugali niya :p lol.. sobrang mapanghamak at sosyalera, mahilig sa mayaman.. at one point, nakipagblind date siya tapos sobra niyang nilait yung kotse ng kadate niya kasi in her words "bulok".. ayun awa ng diyos ininanakan lang siya at iniwan ng bf na manloloko tapos nakiaffair sa may asawa ang rason kesyo magulo yung relationship nung magasawa ang akala niya yata pipiliin siya, eh pinili yung asawa :p ayan magisa siya habang tumatanda at unti unting nagwiwither ang ganda niya kaya matakot lahat tayo sa karma :p lol.. hmmm.. on second thoughts, siguro nga liligawan.. pero i doubt na seseryosohin

[Mr.Punch]

^ So wala ring kuwenta yung pag-disagree mo kay Spartan.    Pinatunayan mong tama siya eh.

[swt_fem]

For me, it depends.

If a girl NEVER had a suitor her entire life, baka nga may problem dun sa girl. Pero kung hindi lang sabay-sabay or marami, that's okay..

My hubby and I talk about different things, share ko lang, mahilig kasi yun sa maputi at magaganda (may itsura mga ex nya). I asked him one time, "Mahilig ka ba talaga sa maputi? Hindi naman ako maputi ah?" He replied, "Nagkataon lang yun. Tsaka hindi "lang" naman ako sa mukha tumitingin, aanhin ko naman ang magandang mukha kung wala namang laman ang utak!"

[stacies83221]

Not necessarily na pangit ka. Walang babaeng pangit... if you watch shows, there are dwarves, amputees, etc. who find themselves a partner. So looks is out of the question...My theory is that a girl is lacking the skills to market herself to the guys. Let's face it, the competition is VERY STIFF among women today. (Agree ba kayo,mga guys?) Nagkalat ang mga hot,pretty and confident girls all over.

Hypothetically, you are a 7 sa looks, but mataray and mapili. Of course, guys will be drawn to a 6 who is good in carrying herself plus she is accomodating. Make sense di ba?

I had the same thought once, way back during my teen years. I had no suitor, yet all of my girl friends had one or two. I was like, am i panget or gosh,do i have B.O.? hahaha Turns out, they were intimidated by me. ( I dont consider myself mataray that time but I was probably assertive and was engaged in almost every school activity there was. PLus, not to toot my own horns, I was one of the smarter kids among our batch) You should also learn to pace yourself a bit to notice that maybe there are guys who like you but you are just too busy with your own stuff that they miss an opportunity to introduce themselves to you and find out what you're really made of.

And I have to agree, once you learn to love yourself, you are sending a message to the universe na you deserve to be loved and adored. And before you know it, guys are lining up on your door.

I found out that there are 3 things that will attract suitors, namely, timing and opportunity, proper marketing of yourself and of course, learning to love yourself more.