pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

[Cocoyow]

Hindi lahat ng di naliligawan is panget, i know someone na ok naman , un nga lang talakerA. Ayaw siguro ng guys ng ganun? Haha

[anirazc anasor]

Ako din hndi [textspeak!] ligawin.i dont know why, lapitin ako ng guy pero friends lang.madalang yung manliligaw. No one has ever joke or told me that im ugly or even my pictures and mirror tells me that im quiet pretty.d rin naman masama ugali ko for i have lots of friends,palaayos naman ako in a way that very natural powder and nars blush lang.un.im more into keeping my skin healthy than tadtarin ng founda. Di rin naman ako t**** or bobo for im a CPA naman,so erase na yun.my sense of humor naman ako.. Maliit nga lang ako,i dont know baka un deperensya tee hee!..

[kettlekorn28]

I agree with Cocoyow: hindi lahat ng hindi nililigawan ay panget. And to add to this statement: hindi lahat ng ligawin ay maganda. 

i have a friend from high school. she's tall, beautiful (hawig ni iza calzado), smart (a med tech & a nurse at the same time), at higit sa lahat mabait at maka-Diyos. high school pa lang kami, her name became prominent kasi lahat ng beauty contest sa school na salihan nya eh sya ang nananalo.

pero kahit na ganun, ni isa man sa campus (magkasama ang high school at college) walang nanligaw sa kanya. may magilan-ngilan kaming nababalitaan na may crush sa kanya pero never naman nanligaw. i think guys were intimidated by her o siguro natatakot na mareject dahil na rin sa conservative itong friend ko. nagkaroon lang sya ng boyfriend nung nagtatrabaho na sya as a med tech. doctor ang naging bf nya, ang kaisa-isang bf nya.

[anirazc anasor]

Ako din hndi [textspeak!] ligawin.i dont know why, lapitin ako ng guy pero friends lang.madalang yung manliligaw. No one has ever joke or told me that im ugly or even my pictures and mirror tells me that im quiet pretty.d rin naman masama ugali ko for i have lots of friends,palaayos naman ako in a way that very natural powder and nars blush lang.un.im more into keeping my skin healthy than tadtarin ng founda. Di rin naman ako t**** or bobo for im a CPA naman,so erase na yun.my sense of humor naman ako.. Maliit nga lang ako,i dont know baka un deperensya tee hee!..

As i review my post i realize [textspeak!] ang downside saken. Ang pagiging mayabang!hahahaha..but then d [textspeak!] ako ganyan personally, written kc ang gt so need ko sabihin kasi di nyo naman makikita ako

[aliceofwonder]

Ibig sabihin di ka nila mareach....... mataas ang tingin sayo ng mga guys or tingin nila wala silang pagasa sayo.

[paper_doll]

hindi din ako ligawin. Pero lahat ng tao sinasabi na cute at pretty naman ako. Pero lahat din ng tao sinasabi na mataray, suplada at isnabera ako. I think base sa mga sinabi nyo yun ang reason bakit di ako ligawin although may ilan na nanligaw. Pero di ko naman yan problema ngayon kasi may boyfriend na ko.

[Mr.ree_guy]

hindi din ako ligawin. Pero lahat ng tao sinasabi na cute at pretty naman ako. Pero lahat din ng tao sinasabi na mataray, suplada at isnabera ako. I think base sa mga sinabi nyo yun ang reason bakit di ako ligawin although may ilan na nanligaw. Pero di ko naman yan problema ngayon kasi may boyfriend na ko.

may point si ma'm paper_doll^^ baka naman yung girl ay intimidating

[emiii]

uhm... anti-social, wala masyadong friends, o parang may image na na ganun?
suplada daw pero mahiyain/tahimik naman talaga haha

[Lovester]

Hindi ako ligawin when I was in highschool kasi super duper grabe lang ang katarayan ko! I scare them away cuz I don't think they're worth my time :p

College.. Konti lang naglakas ng loob.. Si Mr. Commerce, Mr. Engineering title holders.. 2 in 4 years! Napakapili ko kasi saka mataray talaga. Basta, maldita talaga. These 2 guys nga I had to hand it to them.. Lakas din ng fighting spirit e lol

Ganito din ako sis. LOL! My bestfriend told me na when we were in hs daw may mga gusto kaya lang takot sa kin.

[Paulo]

The problem with the common "Trade" is that women aren't as free to do the courting. So they rely on the guys to make the move. Now not having suitors doesn't necessarily mean the girl is ugly nor does it mean that she isn't worth courting. Sometimes, it all boils down to exposure and opportunity. There is also a lot of "Timing" involved.

All in all, Ugly is Ugly. It's easy to know. All you have to do is look into a mirror and you'll know kung Pangit ka nga talaga .... Teka, wala akong pinatatamaan ha. Ang pangit na tumingin sa salamin tapos nabasag, siya may kasalanan hindi ako.

All in all, I subscribe to what Mooncake and Leaves said at the earlier part of this thread. That it all boils down to "how you market yourself".

.... I also subscribe to "Pangit is Pangit".

[akthung]

there are girls naman na sobrang "goodie goodie".

they don't know how to "show their colorful feathers" to their prospect. sometimes they unknowingly send out mixed signals or misinterpret signals, like one time this good friend of mine out of the blue told me "kelan mo ako liligawan?" wtf? hindi siya lasing nun ha. mabait akong tao, pero hindi porket mabait ka sa isang tao, may gusto ka na.

we've remained good friends for 13 years now.

[lil_mango]

not true! dahil hindi naman ako pangit!pero konti lang nanligaw sakin compared so "for me" not so pretty na friends ko. lol.. haha

i read an article somewhere, drop-dead gorgeous girls don't have suitors coz they're too high-end. that guys are "intimidated" or girls possess this "just friends" aura.

I think im a combination of both. I look way too young for my age, which i find as a disadvantage. I dated some men but we ended up just becoming friends

[fashionablypink]

haha grabe naman kayo.. d naman siguro ganun. pag bad breath pwede pa! pero kung sakali nga.. e d mag toothbrush! tamang tama meron na bagong fire freeze ng closeup.. kita mo naman sa commercial madali lang maka attract ng ibang tao.. haha sana ganun nga lang talaga kadali..

[camscams]

it could be, the girl is too intimidating.

[sistah_mom]

hindi rin kasi minsan intimidated yung mga guys sa girl kaya wlang lumiligaw

[inkslinger]

Ika nga ni Vic Sotto, baka kasi parang Bouganvilla: Wala na ngang amoy, matinik pa 

Kidding aside, it's a fallacy. Sweeping Generalization.

[spartan]

Kahit gano pa ka-intimidating ang girl basta talagang maganda sya, meron manliligaw.

also vice versa

[TheGoat]

pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

Hmmm. Lumalabas ba siya ng bahay?

[bettylafea]

Kahit gano pa ka-intimidating ang girl basta talagang maganda sya, meron manliligaw.

also vice versa

tapos ang usapan! True toh! Wag ng mag explain pa na dahil mataray or anuman. pag may itsura meron yahn! Timing lang!

[viellemacey]

hindi naman siguro.. baka kasi nagpaparamdam pa lang itinataboy na.