Is it true ? Shaky years of a relationship are 2-4-8

[yengyeng]

May sumpa nga ba ang 2- 4 - 8 years? kasi dapat even na ang labanan nyo palagi? ayaw magpapatalo ng isa dapat? pero baka naman kasi may mga hinahanap hanap na pag ganon na katagal, nawawala ang kilig. kaya eventually nagiging shaky..

[mhy_pie03]

^ Pag uber tagal kasi nawawala na yung gana for commitment. Kasi ang dating parang wala kayong plano lumagay sa tahimik which should be the future of every relationship.

[yengyeng]

^ tama ka dyan. nakakalungkot naman kung after all those years ending wala rin pala kayo..

[tifay]

I think it really depends on what your plans are. I am in a 4 year relationship and this year I can say we really didn't have much progress in pushing towards getting married cause his sisters are still in med school, he just got annulled and they're family is having financial problems. So in short I have to be understanding. Ang tanong hangang kyan?!lol
I'm actually giving myself a deadline since next year one of his sisters will be a resident Na maybe we will get some time to talk about where we really are heading. I can say its not as sweeter or as fun as the 1st few years but we've become more of friends na in the long run we learn to understand each other more di na pa sweet palagi. Pero sana naman wag na umabot more than 5years before ikasal, Baka di ko kayanin. I'm not getting any younger. 

[mhy_pie03]

^I feel you

[tifay]

diba sis, it's like nag hihintay nalang ako for god knows what to happen  eh ayoko nang ganoon pati ako kylangan intindihin problems nang family nila before mine. Di pa man kami kasala and all.
I'm turning 30 next year kaya nako all my friends know I'm really begging someone/anyone to get down in one knee na lol di naman Sa atat ako pero next year talaga whatever comes first tatangapin ko nang buo baby man or marriage. I need to move on. And future sayang if nag hihintay sa wala hehe

[yengyeng]

^ sure ka na dun sis? Hehe. Do you have a bf ngayon?

[tifay]

Yes sis pero not so ready pa sha, I don't wana be forcing him naman if di pa ready. Sad lang kase were going on 5 years this feb Waley pa din plans kaya I'm having second thoughts if worth the wait ba talaga.

[yengyeng]

^ so sad nga.. Ang hirap naman magwait na lang forever..

[Serena.]

Wala naman sa taon yan, nasa maturity ng lovers yan.



xxx

[Amina777]

I heard 3 years but I think the years don't matter.

[klengmorales]

I broke up with him last christmas! i know, inaantay nya lang ako sumuko.
Kami nga mag 9 years na kami dapat eh... he first cheated on me before our 8th year, tapos ngayon... "friend" lang daw nya yung office mate nya... just imagine sis... 27 sya nakagraduate ng college. he got a work with the help of our friend pa (managerial na kasi ng engineering)
now, nagloko....  tapos pnagreresign na sya ng friend namin.. because of trust issues (syempre, alam ng lahat ng office mate nya na gf ako.. tapos biglang may "friend" sya sa office. To the point na na admin sila kasi nagtetext sila ng girl) ngayon.. last day nya sa January 22 pero our friend is willing to withdraw the resignation, if he will promise to be honest sa lahat ng bagay.. he's just waiting my ex to talk to him. pero until now wala pa din.

Parang talagang pinili ni ex yung girl kesa sa, akin (ex gf), bestfriend/boss at work nya.

Note: Voted as pinkamalanding guy si ex bf sa office (6mos palang) at si girl ay P*k2 ang tawag.

I'm really devastated. Imaginin niu mga sis.. i'm 28 na! first bf and almost 9 years na kami dapat.
ang hirap maka move on! d ko alam kung pano magsisimula

[mhy_pie03]

^Isipin mo nalang kapatid, mas mahirap kung ginawa niya yan kung magasawa na kayo at may anak. At least you can still give yourself a favor. 

[yengyeng]

^^ Grabe!! sobra ang ex bf mo. Pero better now than later sister. Move on ka na lang.. sayang ang iyak sa mga impaktong lalaki.

[anetdin]

3 years na kami ang pinakashaky namin ay yung 7th month muntik na talaga kami magbreak...

[jaymejorrol]

hindi naman siguro totoo yun. talagang hindi maiiwasan ang problema sa isang relasyon pero wala naman siguro kinalaman sa tao yun. kame kasi sa 1st and 3rd year nagkaproblema eh. siguro wag na lang natin i-set yung utak ng magkakaproblema tayo the following years. ang isipin natin, maraming years pa ang i-eenjoy natin with our partner.

[heaven_charm]

i have a habit of breaking up with my bfs a month after the first anniversary kasi after 1 year ko naiisip kung husband material ba talaga si bf.

first anniv na namin ng current bf ko sa 25th and i am happy to say that i think i found a husband material. sana di naman kame magbreak on our second year lalo na LDR kame saka we have a lot of plans for our future.

[jaymejorrol]

^ wow.. congrats sis! just be positive.. kinaya nyo nga umabot ng anniv habang magkalayo kayo eh.. basta wag lang talaga mawawala ang communication.. kung sya na talaga yung hinahanap mong husband material, i-continue mo lang pagpapakita mo ng love sa kanya tiwala lang ang kelangan since LDR kayo.. wag ka maniwala na magkakaproblem kayo sa years 2,4,8 or 1,3,5 or kahit anong year pa yan.. hindi po year ang nagcocontrol ng lovelife nyo kundi kayo..

[pumpkin13]

Personally I think nagkakataon lang. Yun first two years naniniwala ako na shaky yan kasi adjustment period yan. Then once you surpass that, the relationship must be stronger to face any challenge.

In my experience, my first relationship became shaky on our 2nd year and we broke up on our 3rd year, my 2nd relationship ended on our 7th month (and it was the most painful of all), next lasted for 2 years and the last one lasted for 4 years. Pero I don't believe that those relationships ended dahil sa 2-4-8 shaky years. Nagkataon lang talaga that things didn't work out.

[jaymejorrol]

^ yeah.. i agree.. talagang nagkakataon lang.. and depende din kasi kung paano nyo i-handle ang problem nyo..