"sa larangan ng relasyon, dominante kaba or sunudsunuran"

[caloy168]

siguro i agree with the one who posted here, the guy is the king and the girl is the queen. let the guy do the major decisions and the petty things should be left to the wife. if the girl, wants to help then give her full support to his spouse. though the guy should also put into consideration the voice of her partner and weigh things over.

[ana mimi]

my BF says he is sunud sunuran daw..

I think this is only applicable kapag mabait ako sa kanya

[Patren]

it depends really. pero mapagbigay ako for the sake of love. 

[cheverlou]

mapagpasensya lang siguro, mahirap kc magpaliwanag pag LDR kaya pasencia na lang muna pansamantala, pag nasa iisang bubong na lang kami saka ako bubuwelta hehe

[choco_pie]

balance lang

[Bubblin]

somewhere in the middle.ayoko ng palaging ako ang nagde-decide,ayoko naman din na ako ang laging sunod-sunuran.

[nikpam]

when it comes to decision making we always consult each other, we share our opinions then decide. it depends on the situation. pero minsan mas dominante si bf. haha.

[tokong]

dominante - i have to. pero i prefer to be the supporter lang sana.

once in a while say my side lang

[ilove15]

Bossy ako eh, pero my times talaga na natatakot din ako sa kanya not in a bad way ha. Swerte talaga ko na may nakakaintindi sa ganito kong ugali kaya naman ang hirap ng pakawalan eh!

[chang0505]

ako [textspeak!] sumusunod palagi, d naman siya bossy, kaya lang siya kasi ang nagdedesisyon sa kung ano ang mga desisyon na dapat naming gawin, lahat ikino consult ko muna, sabagay mas maganda na yun, lahat alam niya,

[FoxyPhoenix]

nung nanliligaw sya under sya sakin, 4 years syang sunud-sunuran (yes 4 years syang nanligay). nung naging kami na, i realized that in a relationship, men should lead and women support. besides i have full trust in my man kaya alam ko whatever decision he has, para sa ikabubuti namin yon.

kaya masarap man na may bf kang under, i prefer not. he should know whats best for us. pero syempre kinukunsulta nya parin sakin mga desisyon nya. and if i disagree, then thats the time i speak up.

[sxymnky]

alipin ng pag-ibig 

[cosmochick]

Im dominant but I want a man na kaya akong pasunurin.

Sabi ko nga palagi sa kanya, he is the head of the family but I'm the neck which can turn the head exactly the way I want.

[tabbru]

Dominant hehe. Sobrang bait kasi siya, lahat ng gusto ko binibigay. Sabi ko nga, he created a monster gf. Pero superficial lang naman ang pagiging dominante ko, parang more on lambing ko lang. 

By the way, dahil usapin ito ng power, may term dito si Peter Blau (a Sociologist) - "principle of least interest." Sa isang relasyon daw, merong MAS nagmamahal. At syempre, mas capable i-exploit ng least na nagmamahal ang mas nagmamahal na ito dahil takot ang latter na mawala yung former. Hindi totoo na parehas ang level ng love ng couple sa bawat isa. Hindi pwede ang 50-50 love input sa relationship. Maaaring 49-51, but never 50-50. 

[trishpassing]

Dominante. That's why mom always tells me to be somehow submissive kasi men doesn't like a woman who's always aggressive (with what she wants) and dominante. But I prove her wrong kasi, kasi the reason why men take women for granted is because women tend to be submissive with their men. Na parang sa kanila lang dapat decision.

[Pinkishcheeks]

ako [textspeak!] both pero mas lamang na ako ang nasusunod but i hate that kasi feeling ko ako ang nagdadala ng relasyon namin.. mas gusto ko na ako ang sumusunod sa knya.

[babyjapnurse01]

i love the title, ang lalim! hahaha!

seriously, medyo oldschool ang belief ko eh, the Guy still has the last say and its not "yes hon" haha! I usually let my partner make the major decisions but we make sure naman na we make both ends meet, lagi kaming naguusap about things na kailangan ng decision namin parehas, if we're on opposing sides, we try to make ends meet and meet each other halfway.

In that way mas naiiwasan yung conflict and naiiwasan yung feeling na merong dominante at sunudsunuran sa relationship, madalas kasi nagiging cause pa ng away yan eh or ng sumbatan when someone thinks na sunod nalang nga sya ng sunod sa gusto ng isa.

[wanderlust2011]

depende. when it involves financial matters, he is the king.
pero everyday matters, of course ako and reyna. 

[spartan]

alipin ng pag-ibig 

Drama ka talaga sxymnky!

[sweet.trish]

si bf laging sunod and bigay ang gusto ko. pero hindi naman yun nakakabawas sa pagkalalaki nya. hindi ko naman kasi sya inuutusan eh. kusa nyang ginagawa.