paano ba magkaroon ng best friend na guy?

[pumpkin13]

Mas madami ako guy friends than girls kasi mas comfortable ako. Medyo natrauma kasi ako when I was betrayed by a girl friend dahil sa inggit na di ko malaman anong nakakainggit. Pag guy kasi cool lang, parang wala masyado issue. Tsaka mas madali kaladkarin. Haha! And the conversations are different. Yung POV tsaka yun mga kulitan. But other sisses are correct, it happens naturally. Basta maging friend ka lang then marerealize mo na lang na sya na pala ang best friend mo.

[Miss Taken]

I have a lot of guy friends na kilala ko na since elementary days and yung iba naman churchmates. Sobrang saya nila kasama lalo na pagdating sa kalokohan You just have to be casual with them sis, kwentuhan lang kayo at para saken ang mga guys hindi naman mapili yan pagdating sa kung sino ang kakaibiganin eh. Kausapin mo lang sila lagi at maging interested sa mga hilig nila. Us, girls, are more picky since may iba talaga na may "attitude" eh hehe

[edaganda]

Yung ex (first boyfriend) ko, for a while naging magbestfriend kami one year after the relationship had ended. Hindi kami nagkabalikan. Pero naging complicated kasi while he was thinking everything was platonic, ako naman ay umaasa haha! So nung hindi ko na kaya, I told him na we can no longer be friends haha! Pero time heals all wounds talaga. So dumating yung time na friends ulit kami. Although hindi na super close pero we attend each other baby's bday parties ganon. Just sharing...

[kikaygirl5810]

I have a lot of guy friends na kilala ko na since elementary days and yung iba naman churchmates. Sobrang saya nila kasama lalo na pagdating sa kalokohan You just have to be casual with them sis, kwentuhan lang kayo at para saken ang mga guys hindi naman mapili yan pagdating sa kung sino ang kakaibiganin eh. Kausapin mo lang sila lagi at maging interested sa mga hilig nila. Us, girls, are more picky since may iba talaga na may "attitude" eh hehe

True and i agree with matching MAY TAMA TAYONG MGA GIRLS hehe

[Miss Taken]

^ Hahaha may mga times kasi na pag hindi natin feel yung isang tao, deadma na agad lol pero nakakatuwa lang saten mga girls eh super supportive and loyal pag naging kaclose na talaga

Most guys are drama-free. They see things in black and white kaya ang dali nilang kaibiganin.

[Senorita fifi]

Mukhang impossible ata ito for me...parang lahat naman sila may maitim na balak hahaha

[theshopaholicprincess]

It just happened pero he was my bff nung college pa kami. My hubby used to tease me na yun daw yung one that got away ko. Actually nung college kami inseperable kami and sometimes we were mistaken as gf/bf pero wala talagang anything romantic na nangyari. Super tandem kami during software defense and projects. Sometimes nag sstay out late pa ako sa bahay nila pero his aunts and late lola likes me naman kaya may liberty ako mag stay ng late sa kanila plus hatid pa ako nya ako at brother nya sa bahay. My parents knew him and ganun ako sa kanila tapos everyone was expecting na we will gonna end up din after college graduation kaso di nangyari. Hubby knows about him, sometime he still teases me pero siguro fate has different way of showing kung sino talaga yung makakatuluyan namin. Basta after graduation we went separate ways and 12 years na wala kami communication. I didn't even know na nga rin yung whereabouts nya.

[Cheesecak3]

When I was in college, I have 3 guy bestfriends. Now na may mga asawa na kami nakakatuwa kasi close ko din asawa nila. Hindi ko naman plan na guy ang bestfriends ko pero parang don mas click ang personality ko.

[sarsingkit]

I have a few guy bestfriends before (1 HS and 2 College) kaso they developed feelings for me pala.  Unfortunately I did not develop the same kind of feelings they have for me. Kaya after the 3rd time, hindi na ako nakkikipagbestfriends sa guy. Kung barkada lang, ok lang. Tipong marami kayo in a circle na both girls and boys. Pero kung tipong kami lang lagi magkasama, hindi na.

[ckt_lei]

i used to have a guy bestfriend when i was in highschool napagkakamalan pa na mag jowa kami. He went to another University kaya yun naputol communication namin   i only know he is in Malaysia now friend ko sya sa FB but once in a blue moon lang syang online.

[mindiegirl]

In my point of view lang ito, kung guy friends, pwede sya but best friends na kayong dalawa lag together, I don't think so. Dadating at dadating kasi yung time na may magchange yung feelings eh. Umamin man or hindi. That's just the nature of a guy and a girl that's so compatible with each other (I mean you cant be best friends if you're not comfortable, enjoying your time with each other diba). kaya nga madalas may nagkakatuluyan na dati nang mag bestfriends. Yung boyfriend mo nalang ang gawin mong best friend.

[chuy]

It depends kung at ease ka ba sa guys. Kasi kung hindi, hindi ka talaga magkakaroon ng guy best friend. Atsaka yung iba kasi pag sinabing guy best friend, iniisip nila may possibility na maging sila. Madalas nakakasira ng friendship ang ganun kapag hindi na-reciprocate yung feelings, but if you really value your friendship o yung samahan niyo, posible maging best friends lang talaga and nothing more.

Sa case ko, I enjoy the company of guys more than girls kasi madali sila pakisamahan. Walang inggitan, insecurities, o mababaw na samaan ng loob. Anytime pwede mo sila ayain (as long as single sila).

I have a lot of guy friends na mas ka-close ko kesa sa girl friends. Yung iba come and go dahil iba na yung feelings at di na naayos ang friendship pero meron din nag-stay pa rin and just accepted what I can give. I have 2 guy friends na I've known for almost 15 years. I can say na sila ang best friends ko dahil sa dami na ng pinagdaanan namin bumabalik pa rin talaga yung samahan namin. Sad to say, ngayon may family na ako, yung isa meron na din, tapos yung isa engaged na. Hindi na kami kagaya ng dati na nag-uusap lagi sa landline o kaya nagkikita lagi inaabot ng umaga sa labas, o magkatext lagi. Pero when we see each other, walang naman nabago. We talk about everything - mapa-usapan sa trabaho, sa anak, sa asawa, o kahit sa sex life. Ganun pa rin kami ka-open. Ang maganda sa guy friends, iba yung POV nila sa mga bagay bagay dahil guys sila.

[red_yesha]

So paano magkakaroon ng kaibigang lalake? Hmm actually nangyayare nalang to ng hindi mo inaasahan. Kailangan lang talagaa may common sainyo..interests, hobbies or what have you.
Hindi naman kailangan magpaka trying hard,just  be yourself at wag masyadong mahiya makipag-usap sa mga lalake.. habang tumatagal mapapansin mong nagja-jive na kayo at kumportable na sa isat-isa.

For me, sarap magkaroon ng super close friend na lalake kasi walang arte at straight forward.

[simpleemie]

Iba talaga ang guys sa girls. Pag guy kase walang arte, walang pretensions, direct to the point. Having a guy bestfriend just happen naturally di naman pinipili, you just realized na click kayo. Yun lang most of the time, may nafa fall unexpectedly.

[jazz17]

In my case, nagkaroon ako ng guy best friend kasi si best friend ay classmate ko nung grade school and high school. Though we don't belong to the same barkada, naging close talaga kami nung high school. Then nung college magkapitbahay lang schools namin. May times pa nun hinahatid and sundo niya ko sa house and school kahit na may gf siya nun na naging classmate ko pa. Selosa pa naman yun. Haha. Pero buti na lang mabait sa kin si gf. Then after college, medyo nabawasan ang communication coz he was busy sa law school, ako naman sa work, masteral, and lovelife. But never naging awkward kasi kahit matagal kaming di nagkita, pag nagkita naman, parang walang nagbago. Dumating din ang time na nagkaroon ng "tension" coz we were both single. We both knew something was going on. In the end, nanaig ang friendship. Hahaha. Even if fit na fit siya sa ideal guy ko (as in parang siya ang dinedescribe ko when someone asks me kung ano ang ideal guy ko 😂) it feels more right to have him as a friend. It's really nice to have him in my life kasi he's one of the few people who knows me really well. More than 20 years ba naman kaming magkakilala na. Hehe. And marami na rin kaming pinagdaanan as friends like away-bati, tampuhan, and napagtatawanan na lang namin pag napag-uusapan yung time na may something between us. At least pag nagkikita kami, walang awkwardness kahit na beso and hug to say hello or goodbye. 😄

[iam_me]

gusto ko rin magkaron ng bff na guy.

[RoadrunnerXCX]

my college buddies are 2 guys and 1 gay. we have different personalities pero nag jive kami. we are still friends up to now na married na kami. we were classmates and didn't plan on becoming friends...may common ground lang kami kasi noong college pa kami...tumambay sa bench at magtitingin ng gwapo (for me and sa gay friend ko) at yung maganda (for  my other two guy friends) hahaha. dapat game ka sa asaran saka kapag usapang green na dapat wag kang moralista kundi maasar sila at iiwasan ka na.  Guys will talk about even the grossest thing on Earth kahit nakaharap ka. pero super special ka naman  kahit one of the boys ka may point na alalayan ka nila kapag nasa labas kayo. pagsasabihan ng mga bagay bagay na hindi mo dapat gawin as a girl. dumidistansya din ako kapag may gf na sila respeto lang pero sometimes hinahanap pa din nila ang company mo kaya sila na tatawag sau.  i am thankful to have guy close friends. 

[FayeP]

i've always been one of the boys pero syempre may mga girl-friends din ako, mas trip ko lang kasama mga guys...less kasi un siraan at back stabbing pag guys hehe...until now dito sa office, may mga girl-friends pero ang kasama ko sa galaan mga boys (2 guys and 2 bekis actually)...


sa mga guy friends ko naman from highschool and sa choir at college, bihira ko na lang sila makasama kasi may mga kanya-kanya na kami family...

pero pinaka bestie ko syempre si hubby...sidekick ko siya, wingman nya ako =)

[silver_crescent]

Eto yung matagal ko nang gusto. Bestfriend na guy. Yung tipong platonic talaga. Lahat kasi ng naging close guy friends ko, nagkagusto sa akin in the end. Di ko lam kung curse or blessing yun.   

[sarsingkit]

^I think curse. Haha. Happened to me thrice. Nakakadisappoint.