paano ba magkaroon ng best friend na guy?

[badw33d]

I think its easy if both of you and the guy will think the same "best friend lang". Disadvantage, is if you or he falls first. Advantage when you have one ... you will really have a guy perspective in all scenario.

[silver_crescent]

^I think curse. Haha. Happened to me thrice. Nakakadisappoint.

Same feels sis. The friendship will never be the same again once na may feelings na involved. So in the end, I end up losing the guy bestfriend. Minsan nga naiisip ko na siguro ginagamit lang nilang way yun just to get close then make a move. 

I think its easy if both of you and the guy will think the same "best friend lang". Disadvantage, is if you or he falls first. Advantage when you have one ... you will really have a guy perspective in all scenario.

Ansaya siguro nung ganun. Yung may straight guy friend ka na pedeng takbuhan lalo na kung kelangan mo ng resbak. lol 

So nagkaroon na ako ng gay bestfriend and I guess I get the best of both worlds. hihi

[sarsingkit]

Minsan nga naiisip ko na siguro ginagamit lang nilang way yun just to get close then make a move. 

Some may see this as romantic pero I feel betrayed eh. Mas nagiging open and friends pa ako sa mga taong may malice na to begin with tapos hindi lang kami nagworkout than yung mga friends mo sa simula tapos biglang iba pala yung intention.

I also have a gay bestfriend. We used to be neighbors, as in naghihingian kami ng coffee, kamatis, ulam, kanin. Haha. Ang saya diba.

[px17]

most of my friends are guys. Nasainyo naman yun kung magkakamalisya or what. Ako kasi I treat them and they treat me din na kapatid talaga. Yung course ko ng college palagi kami may fieldwork and kahit pa tabi tabi kami matulog or makita ko sila na nakahubad keber lang, tho hindi ko pa naman sila nakita na walang underwear hahaha. 

[silver_crescent]

Some may see this as romantic pero I feel betrayed eh. Mas nagiging open and friends pa ako sa mga taong may malice na to begin with tapos hindi lang kami nagworkout than yung mga friends mo sa simula tapos biglang iba pala yung intention.

I also have a gay bestfriend. We used to be neighbors, as in naghihingian kami ng coffee, kamatis, ulam, kanin. Haha. Ang saya diba.

>true sis! unless the gay bestfriend turns 180 

most of my friends are guys. Nasainyo naman yun kung magkakamalisya or what. Ako kasi I treat them and they treat me din na kapatid talaga. Yung course ko ng college palagi kami may fieldwork and kahit pa tabi tabi kami matulog or makita ko sila na nakahubad keber lang, tho hindi ko pa naman sila nakita na walang underwear hahaha.

> how do you do it sis? 

[px17]

^paano nga ba? hmm. Siguro sanay lang ako kasi I grew up mostly with guys. Tsaka siguro may borderline na kagad na "hanggang friends lang tayo".

Marami ako nagiging colleagues na kakaibiganin ako tapos after some time ayan na nagpaparamdam na na more than pa gusto, sinasabi ko na agad na friends lang. Nasakanila na yun if they want to stay or hindi.   So far wala pa naman akong friend talaga na nagkagusto sakin.

[chinablue]

I have a guy bestfriend. And I have close male friends na tipong confidante namin ang isa't isa. Like px17, I believe that for these friendships to work, dapat tanggalin ang malisya. Yung clear kayo pareho na walang taluhan. Masarap magkaroon ng friend na guys. Wala silang arte at straight to the point. You'll discover din na not all guys pala are insensitive. May puso din sila, hahaha.

[chichi143]

How to get a male BFF as per your specifications?
You reap what you sow.
Be trustworthy, be stable, be clear headed when everyone is losing theirs, be patient, be forgiving, do not be judgmental, be helpful even when there is no payback... then you will have a male BFF who will trust in you, pour his shucks out for you to share and not judge... etc etc etc.

so true! just like any other bonds/relationships, it takes time and trust.
I have a guy bestfriend which I am thankful for kasi he helps me with my guy problems. lol!

[DalagangPinay]

Masaya magkaroon ng friends na lalake basta walang malisya haha!
sa work ko kadalasan lalake kasama ko.. Ako lang nagiisang babae sa department namin.
Ang nakakatuwa pa nga binebeybi pa ako hehe..
mas ok pa nga kausapin ang lalake kasi walang arte at plastikan. Kahit anong pag usapan na topic ready sila hehe. Pati kalokohan nila nalalaman ko din. Minsan pag humingi ako ng advise direct to the point sila.

[nocturnalnerd]

Srsly tho, pwede maging magbestfriend ang babae at lalake. Actually for me, I consider one of my closest guy friend to be a 'bestfriend' in a way na parang kuya/kapatid na tingin ko sa kanya. I don't know how it happened, nagclique lang siguro kami kasi bibo sya at naging bibo na rin ako, so yeah... You just need to have limitations, and don't get too attached.

[keejac21]

I find it easier to befriend a guy kasi feeling ko walang competition or comparison.
I think it will help if you are interested in the same topics as they are without trying too hard.