8 Reasons Why Guys should not Carry their girlfriend/wife's Purse

[charmed_chic]

I always tell my boyfriend not to carry my bag but he insists. Sabi ko nga, you are my boyfriend and not my alalay. But he always says, I am not bothered carrying your bags so why should them?

[prettykhae]

ako rin, ala sa ugali ko ang ipabitbit ang shoulder bag ko kay bf... kasi nagmumukha syang alalay pag ganun e.. ewww... kahit ba naman kasi di mabigat ipinapabuhat para lang masabi na sweet or gentleman si bf... pag mabigat ok lang... pero pag kaya wag na lang.. kung grocery bag, maleta pwede yun ipahawak.

[Lovester]

I'm appealing to fellow guys in GT.

Please stop carrying your girlfriends/wife's purse. Grocery and shopping bags are fine. I'm talking about the shoulder and handbags they always bring around.

1. this is the final straw to the feminism of men
2. there are countless better ways to be sweet
3. it doesn't make you look more masculine since its only 2-3 pounds
4. It looks ridiculous.
5. You may be mistaken to be gay
6. It is beta male behavior (in contrast to Alpha male behavior)
7. Women who like this gesture actually just like seeing you lose your balls to them
8.  She brought it, let her carry it.

exception:
she needs to free her hands to do something real quick

feel free to add more reasons.

Add ko lang...

Why guys SHOULDN'T:
- It's part of her outfit/porma

Why guys SHOULD:
- If it's her gymbag

[FrogPrincess]

I agree that guys shouldn't carry their girl's handbags, parang ang sakit sa mata 
Nung December I met my brother's gf for the 1st time, nag lunch kami sa mall. My goodness! bitbit ni bro yung bag ng girl! sarap hablutin at ibalik sa girl yung bag, tangerine pa man din ang kulay! 

My bf never volunteered to carry my HANDBAG kahit nung nasa courtship stage pa lang. I never asked him to carry it din kasi di makukumpleto outfit ko, and besides, its my stuff in there so I should be the one carrying it.

[prettykhae]

I agree that guys shouldn't carry their girl's handbags, parang ang sakit sa mata 
Nung December I met my brother's gf for the 1st time, nag lunch kami sa mall. My goodness! bitbit ni bro yung bag ng girl! sarap hablutin at ibalik sa girl yung bag, tangerine pa man din ang kulay! 

My bf never volunteered to carry my HANDBAG kahit nung nasa courtship stage pa lang. I never asked him to carry it din kasi di makukumpleto outfit ko, and besides, its my stuff in there so I should be the one carrying it.

sis, diba ang pangit tignan na bf maghawak ng shoulder bag di ba? heheh... tinanong mo sana bro mo bakit sya ang naghahawak ng bag ni gf nya. hehe.

[choco_pie]

i don't tell to carry my bad and i don't like it even he insist on carrying my bag ipapahawak ko lang sandali pwede pa pero pag siya na ang humawak all the way naiilang ako it makes me feel useless

[FrogPrincess]

^^ang pangit nga sis! lalo na nung nakita ko si brother mismo biktima pala ng kahihiyang ito! nakalimutan ko na rin syant tanungin after kasi na-busy na rin kami sa ibang bagay. In all fairness naman mukhang mabait si girl (sana), yun lang talaga reklamo ko sa ngayon, yung hinahayaan nya si bro magdala ng bag nya.

[prettykhae]

^^ang pangit nga sis! lalo na nung nakita ko si brother mismo biktima pala ng kahihiyang ito! nakalimutan ko na rin syant tanungin after kasi na-busy na rin kami sa ibang bagay. In all fairness naman mukhang mabait si girl (sana), yun lang talaga reklamo ko sa ngayon, yung hinahayaan nya si bro magdala ng bag nya.

may mga ganun lang siguro talaga na boys na ok lang maghawak ng bag ni girl... siguro isip nila na its a way of pampering ur girl? kasi ayaw man lang maghawak ng kahit ganun e... 

[yam05]

ako din i never let my bf and ex-bfs to carry my bag. lalo na sa present ko bf ko, kaya nung college days namen, pag intrams (we both play for our department) sympre us girls madami tayong dala, extra shirt, towel, slippers-everything. he always ask me to put my things in a backpack (w/c is unisex in color) para pag medyo nahihirapan na ko, sya na magbubuhat. i only let him carry my backpack (pag sobrang bigat talaga) but not my handbag nor shoulder bag. i never did, and i never will.

nakakairita pa minsan yung mga guys na bitbit yung pink shoulder bag ng gfs nila. grabe! how could they do that to their bfs.

[JINJIN:*]

This made me think..sino ba sa exes ko ang nagdala ng bag ko?  Hhmm parang wala!! Lol. But sersiously, I don’t like them carrying my bag. My personal stuff is there, so pag me kailangan ako kelangan ko pang kunin sa kanya ang bag ko diba..hassle pa. Chaka haller hindi bagay. My ex is like 5’11 carrying my tote bag? It will make him look funny. Or kahit sa iba kong ex na hindi binayayaan ng tangkad hindi talga. I don’t like people carrying my personal belongings like mobile or my wallet. Siguro kung 2nd bag ko pwede pa diba.

[sxymnky]

...parang OA lang kasi pag nagtagal at nagsama din naman kayo paglalabahin  ka rin  naman lang  ng undies niya 

[nikpam]

nung college pa ako, back pack gamit ko at minsan mas mabigat pa bag ko sa bf ko (nursing student kasi) haha. palit kami ng bag pag magkasama kami. ok naman mga bags namin nun kasi brown sakin green sa kanya.

after college i carry tote bags at hindi talaga yan dinadala ni bf. kung feel ni bf dalhin ayaw ko parin, nandun lahat gamit ko, at mas marunong ako humawak ng bag ko, maraming snatcher sa daan at mangungupit sa jeep delikado. pwera nalang kung kelangan talaga ng free hand pinapahawak ko sandali.

[cosmochick]

My fiancee likes to carry my bag and I don't see anything wrong with it. I find it cute nga eh.. well, thats just me. =)

[margareta]

okay lang bitbitin kung super bigat naman talaga yung bags like shopping bags or backpacks. but i find it cheesy and unnecessary kapag shoulder bags, much more, purse. Kung nagawa nating buhatin ang bag before tayo umalis ng bahay, kaya din natin buhatin yun all through out.

maliban na lang kung mas bagay sa outfit niya yung bag mo. 

[17arci]

This is my bf's pet peeve. Lagi nya sinasabi pag may nakikita syang bf-gf na dala ng bf yung small bag/purse ng gf nya, "dadala-dala ng bag tapos hindi bibitbitin.."

Although sometimes he carries my bag kasi daw "type" nya at bagay daw sa damit nya. LOL.

[sofabyou]

me too! I don't let my bf carry my bag. And good thing he doesn't insist.
kase kahit siya, nasasagwaan sa mga guys who carry their bf/wife's shoulder, sling or clutch bag.

[shenka]

I let my bf carry my handbag pag nagpupunta kami sa matataong lugar (mrt/lrt, malls, etc) . Kakatakot kasi nandun lahat ng atms, phones, minsan nandun din kasi passport ko, di ko na tinatanggal sa bag especially kung weekend lang naman ako uuwi, baka makalimutan ko pa. Mas comfortable din sya pag sya na nagbibitbit kahit kulay pink pa yan. kasi nadukutan na ko dati, nandun yung vpn, ids, and some cash.. mas vigilant kasi sya e.

[babyjapnurse01]

kailangan talaga 8? hehe! theres just 1 good reason na alam ko.

 for the girl : Its YOUR purse, carry it.

if its too heavy, ill leave some of my stuff in the car. the only reason ill let my guy carry my purse is if im going to fix something real quick. after i fix that something, balik na sakin si purse. the purse is a part of my wardrobe, if my feet hurt from walking in heels, di ko naman huhubadin yun and let my hubby wear my shoes for me eh, so ganun din sa purse. nyahehe.

[IronLady]

ako din i don't let my bf carry my handbag.. kahit anong pilit nya.. kasi hindi bagay sa kanya! haha! i only let him carry travel bags, yung malalaki and hindi girly.. sa handbag/purse, i only let him carry it pag madami pa kong ibang dala na ayoko bitiwan at yung handbag ko lang ang gusto ko i-give up.. o kaya kapag magsusukat ng damit tapos walang sabitan sa fitting room.. parang hindi ko yata kaya yung wala kong dala tapos dala dala ng bf ko yung bag ko.. napaka-senyorita ko naman nun at magmumuka syang alalay.. ayoko naman ganun tingin sa bf ko.. hehe!

[FOURever]

Pag sinusundo ako ni bf, automatic kukunin na nya backpack ko. Ang laki kasi ng backpack ko tapos bigat bigat pa.. Sobrang pagod ako pag nagkikita kami. Pero pag gumagala kami at may bag ako, di ko sya pinagdadala lalo na pag girly at magaan lang at maliit yung bag.ü depende sa sitwasyon kung sweet tignan. Kung para tulungan ako dahil sobrang bigat nga naman ng bag ko, aww, ang sweet ng bf ko. :"> pero kung para ipakita lang sa iba na 'gentleman' sya kahit ang liit lang naman ng bag ko, turn off.