8 Reasons Why Guys should not Carry their girlfriend/wife's Purse

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

For me its a no no. If I have a bag, I WILL CARRY IT, and will not let my guy carry it for me. Its such an eyesore to see  a big guy  carry a pink furry bag of her gf.. or a purse that only a lipstick and a cellphone can fit in. OA super! Besides, hindi na dapat pinapada ang girly stuffs nating girls sa guys.

 sabagay, boyfriends naman nila ang lumalabas na katawa tawa sa iba. Sila ang nagmumukhang bakla. Imagine, as big as a football player dala ang evening purse ng gf? ewww! may dalang shining shimmering splendid!

basta guy ko, ayaw kong nagmumukhang alalay ko. I care what others may think of my guy, besides he is my boyfriend and not my BOY, alalay, driver, muchacho, tsimoy, PA, yayo.. or taga dala ng gamit ko.

pag di naman kasi kalakihan ang bag.( purse, evening purse or almost wallet na lang or panyo kalaki ) or di naman mabigat na kasya lang ang isang lipstick, compact powder or cellphone) bakit pa kasi ng taga dala? gawa ba sa 24k gold ang lalagyan ng lipstick? gawa ba sa bakal ang lalagyan ng powder? barbel ba sa kabigat ang isang cellphone para kailangan ng may magdadala ng purse?

[muy003]

He always carry my heavy bags. Hes never bothered, well nagrereklamo na mabigat, lalo na if commute day namen tas we go somewhere after my work, lahat ng papeles nasa bag ko.. Pero di naman sya nadyahe dahil lang its not his. When im tired, the bag goes with him, heavy or not. If the bag does not weigh much, if the bag completes my outfit, if his hands are full... That's the time i have my bag with me.
I rarely use teeny tiny bags din naman. If masyadong kikay and its tiny, i dont let him bring it for me na, masyado na alalay look. To sum it up, he carries it because he's helping me, not because nagpapakatweetums sya.

[SamanthaC]

i selected it, i liked it, why would i let my man carry it?

pero one time on a public place, i have this expensive shoulder bag that my hubby bought me, he said:

"akin na yan, pawis at dugo ko pinangbili nyan baka malaslas pa yan"

[crazycoolchic19]

I'm appealing to fellow guys in GT.

Please stop carrying your girlfriends/wife's purse. Grocery and shopping bags are fine. I'm talking about the shoulder and handbags they always bring around.

1. this is the final straw to the feminism of men
2. there are countless better ways to be sweet
3. it doesn't make you look more masculine since its only 2-3 pounds
4. It looks ridiculous.
5. You may be mistaken to be gay
6. It is beta male behavior (in contrast to Alpha male behavior)
7. Women who like this gesture actually just like seeing you lose your balls to them
8.  She brought it, let her carry it.

exception:
she needs to free her hands to do something real quick

feel free to add more reasons.

I agree ,
Ang kainis lang for me, ang liit na nga ng handbag or shoulder bag ko,yung mga things ni hubby gusto ilagay sa bag ko grrr like wallet and his 3 cellphones, car keys, house keys, yung lalagyanan ng shades, extra shirt  nya kulang na lang pati laptop nya ampnezz!, .. my goodness, sa makeup kikay kit ko di na magkasya ilagay pa gamit nya kaya bumile ako ng bag na malake para isama gamit nya. pag kasama sya or family  sports bag dala ko sya may dala nun, pero meron parin akong kikay bag hehe...and i still remember sya nagdadadala ng big baby bag ng mga anak namin long long time ago, ngayon malalaki na kids ko kanya kanya kaming dala ng bags

[piatos]

hindi ko binibigay kung magaan lang pero minsan makulit din si ex

[sensi]

pag malaki bag ko and mabigat si bf na nagdadala..pero pag purse or wallet ako na syempre;)

[cheekywraps]

Wow! sa bagay totoo. Hindi ko rin kasi pinapadala kay hubby bag/purse ko.

[bluejazbling]

Tumpak..ang pangit talaga tingnan, nag oofer lang ako na dalhin ang bag ni gf kung yun nga may kailangan siyang gawin ng mabilisan at super bigat na talaga ng bag niya to the point na nagmamakaawa na siya na dalhin ko, hahaha..hindi niya rin kasi pinapadala bag niya sa mga ordinary days lang. kung yun nga dinadala ko nman, hindi ko nilalagay sa shoulder ko, kenikiri ko lang na parang grocery bag..ang laswa talagang tingnan..lol,

[klariza_yabu001]

My bags are all unisex and medium sized ever since I was in grade school. I never liked girly bags talaga like mga hand or shoulder bags na may kikay designs or colorful. Nung bago palang kami never ko talaga pinapabuhat sa kanya bag ko kasi I always see couples na ganun ang peg and its irritating and jologs lang hahaha lalo na pag small shoulder bags mukhang ewan lang mga bf nila lol.

But ever sinced I found out I have scoliosis si bf na palagi nagdadala ng bag ko. Unisex and all black naman ang bags ko so keri lang sakin na sya nagbubuhat. Di halata na bag ko yung dala nya.

I guess it's better not to judge kasi minsan may valid reason talaga as to why bf/hubby is carrying the gf/wife's bag.

Of course except nalang kung small kikay shoulder bags or clutch haha! Although funny tignan but I understand naman na it's just a guy's way of showing his affection from small simple things to grand nothings. Ika nga nila, pag inlove ka nagiging corny ka talaga hahaha. But then again, ang corny talaga pag small girly bags ang naka hang sa shoulders ng guy LOL

[magno4]

 


i think that reason will not degrade our manhood naman, kase nag bibitbit din ako bag minsan ng milady ko, pag may naka kita iba lady na ako may hawak ng bag e yung iba lady napapatingin nga tas mag smile tas pag naka lingat si miladay sabay kausap mo sa iba girl mas madali mo sila ma aproach e. it happen to me, pinahawak ni miladay bag nya habang nasa fitting room a nice lady smile at me when carrying the bag. tas yun konte conversation hanggang sa naging milady ko din sya, at dinadala ko din bag nya minsan. 

[iwannabeasupermodel]

i got bags na super heavy and i ask boyfie to carry it. kasi mabagal ako maglakad eh mas lalong bumabagal pag mabigat so he usually willingly obliges haha.

[ri-anne]

8 Reasons Why Guys SHOULD Carry their girlfriend/wife's BAG

1. She's not feeling well
2. It's too heavy
3. It's raining heavily
4. It's too dangerous outside (*snatchers)
5. She have to do something that requires her hand to be free from anything
6. The bag (style) can be worn both by men and women
7. He doesn't mind carrying one
8. It's his diskarte


IMO lang ha.. peace..

Agree....
There are still instances din naman talaga na kelangan buhatin yung bag...... Pero kung ayaw talaga just to protect his pride at pagiging alpha alphahan....bahala sya sa buhay nya! Aba gurl mag-isip isip ka na!

[Janelc]

Couldn't agree more. It is so unmanly for a guy to carry his girl's purse/bag.

[sugardrop]

I don't like doing this either. Sa laptop bag lang ako nagpatulong before kasi mabigat and my back was hurting that time. Pero if kaya ko, I'll carry those myself kahit paperbags pa yan unless my hands are full. Ang weird lang tingnan, I don't find it sweet either. It won't make him less of a man for me but I don't find it appealing at all.

[mebpa]

I don't let hubby carry my bag/purse. I just don't believe that a guy should do that. I find it silly whenever I see a couple walking hand in hand and the guy is carrying a shoulder bag or purse and the girl is carrying nothing. I don't find it sweet or gentlemanly.

Even during our college days, I didn't let him carry my backpack (just imagine how thick allied med books are). Still, I didn't have him carry it. At first he offered, but I refused.

[yankie]

sorry guys..pero parang natatawa ako kapag ang guy ang bumibitbit ng bag ni girl..ang liit lang ng bag tingnan pag sila ang may hawak..esp. pag walang halos laman yong bag parang ang bigat lang.. hehe ..peace!

[j.adore]

I don't like seeing this either lalo na if super kaduper liit ng purse
I only let my husband hold my bag if I need help getting something or bringing a lot of stuff etc.
Other than that, no!

[lovely_carrot]

While it look chivalrous, I'd rather not have him carry my bag, esp if the bag in question is too girly. For me parang nakaka emasculate, i don't know, never ko pa pinasa sa BF ko before yung pagbitbit ng bag ko.

I'd rather have him hold my hand though 😍

[argento]

I saw one sa bus kanina. The guy look like an idiot 

[beigh]

Kami ni hubby, hindi din yan naging uso even nung BF/GF pa kami. Pag lumalabas kami ngayon, pinag-uusapan na namin sino magdadala ng bag, kung siya, ipapalagay ko na lang kung ano man dapat dadalhin ko (usually powder,lipgloss, comb, onti barya and cp). Vice versa naman kung ako magdadala ng bag (ipapalagay nya: CP, Wallet, keys). Ganyan lang kami kasi, hangga't maari, ayaw namin ng madami bitbitin.