8 Reasons Why Guys should not Carry their girlfriend/wife's Purse

[tennisgirl]

my friend's bf always carry not only her shoulder bag but even her wallet...duh?!  palibhasa yung guy not good-looking kaya pa-impressed sya sa friend ko. syempre, para wah syang iwanan! maganda naman kasi yung friend ko, di nga lang marunong pumili ng bf lol

[tunaynalalake]

Poor guys...
One of the misconceptions of being a gentleman is carrying their ladies' bags/purses. I print ko nga yung original post ni spartan at ibibigay ko sa makikita kong gumagawa nito

[purpleshadow]

nope.. i dont let him carry my bag..
i think i just did that once.. and it was a laptop bag..
thats all..

[menice]

makakabawas ba ng kamachohan kung bibitbitin ni guy yung bag? kung mabigat talaga?

or kung gusto ni gurl ipabitbit, may magagawa ba si guy? kase pag hindi nya binitbit, magaglait si gurl.

Tingin ko kase it depends on personality ng tao and sa tumitingin. yung iba uyy sweet yung iba uyy panget. kaya i think wala namang argument na dapat gawin para dito kanya kanyang pananaw lang yan. IMHO.

[Amphitrite]

Noon pinapadala ko kay bf-now-hubby bag ko kasi unisex bagpack naman na puno ng books. Pero kapag purse na kahit gaano kabigat eh hindi ko pinapadala sa kanya. Pwede siguro yung pahawak ng konti kasi may kailangan ako kunin or gawin using my hands.

My reason?
Bag ko yun so responsibilidad ko na bitbitin.

=D

[Alyandra]

Ako nagdadala ng bag ko unless na mabigat. Pero now na buntis ako most of the time si hubby tagadala magaan man o medyo mabigat. Siya kusa na nagbibitbit.

[showermist]

natawa ako dito.

one time while shopping, ang bigat na ng bag ko di man lang nag-ooffer si bf to carry it for me.  panay na parinig ko sa kanya. wala talaga. kelangan ko pa talagang sabihan ng, 'pwede bang kaw muna humawak ng bag ko, ambigat na eh'

sabi nya, 'nabasa ko kasi(o napanood yata) na wag daw bitbitin ang bag ni gf lalo na kung maganda/branded/etc kasi part daw yun ng get-up/porma nila'

nakupoo!  i dont carry mine for that reason alone.  i feel more secure kung ako may hawak talaga ng bag ko.

[blatherina]

I think it looks exceptionally silly.

Ako, di ko kelangan ng tagabitbit ng bag. Malaki na'ko. Retired na si yaya. 

[Sylph]

Guys carrying a lady's bag doesn't look sweet nor gentleman. I personally don't prefer it, unless my back aches that day, I would appreciate a little help. For me, he is not my yayo, he is my bf. 

[dolly]

I have a good friend in college with an embarrassing experience about her school bag and a suitor.  Naglunch sa Mc do, chika chika. Oras na para pumasok, si friend ko, dire-diretso iniwan ang bag, sunod si suitor (classmate din namin). Pag dating sa 3rd floor ng building namin na realize nya walang nag-bitbit ng bag nya. Hanggang ngayon mega inaasar namin sya pag naaalala namin yun. Sabi ko, "friend, assuming ka!"

So ganun ata talaga, some girls just find it sweet pag binibitbit ng guys ang kanilang bags. Naku my hubby hindi rin nagbibitbit unless nagwawala si daughter and gusto magpabuhat sa kin. Nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami, hindi kasi ako mahilig sa bag kaya wala talaga akong bag dala. Ngayon ko lang na-realize oo nga no, mabibilang lang sa daliri ko yung time na nagdala ako ng bag pag umaalis. Simula lang nung nagka-anak ako nagkaron ng dala-dala, well for one, hindi malaki ang bulsa ko para sa bottle ni baby.

[sydxoxo]

shopping bags? yes! but my purse/bag? no way. ladies bags are meant for girls, not for guys. if ayaw magbitbit ng mabigat na bag, edi wag maglagay ng madami. simple.

[iluvmysoldier]

bad nga pero i find it cute pag sinusundo ako ng bf ko ng military vehicle sa airport with all the escort pa tapos he'll let them carry my luggage tapos siya naman yung laptop bag (purple shoulderbag with purple stuffed toy hanging) ko...lahat sila naka military uniform... hehe cute lang...
pero pag sa mall hindi kasi i seldom bring a big bag naman eh..nakakatamad and nakakatakot baka manakawan...

[Bubblin]

my bags are messenger bags because they're convenient for me.even if my bags are quite androgynous,I don't like it if a guy offers to carry my bag for me. shopping bags pwede pa,but please stay away from my messenger bag! it's an extension of myself.when a guy offers to carry my bag,I fee like he is stepping over my personal space and territory.

[iloveshoes88]

OMG! True!!! I hate it when I see guys carrying their girlfriends bags, personally I find them mukhang alalay, sayang naman ang pagkapogi nila  hehe 

Me, I don't make my guy carry my bags except when I go shopping kapag sobrang dami ng bags (shopping/paper bags). I want my guy to look maangas, how can he look that way if he's carrying a bag on his shoulders? LOL. 

[camz_31]

i hate it din kapag may nakikita ako na guys carrying their girlfriend's bag!

backpacks for me / shopping bags are okay. wag lang hand bag!.

[microshoxx]

Tama!!

4. It looks ridiculous. 

exception:
she needs to free her hands to do something real quick!

Up for this!!! Thanks

[gleek]

seeing guys carrying purses or small bag of their gf make me and my bf say,"siguro bago lang sila" (lol)

actually asar si bf pag nakakita ng ganun s mall,pa epal daw yung guy hahaha

i only let my bf carry my bag f i need "to do something real quick"..actually kahit hindi quick,usually pag nagshopping para mkapili ng maayos

but shopping bags,i do let him carry all the way when we get home...
he's proactive w/it pa nga 

[reese**]

i never asked my hubby to carry my bag, kahit mabigat! kaya naman last time na nakita ko sa pics na pinabitbit sa kanya ng officemate nya ang girly shoulder bag (take note, longchamp short handle medium) aba talaga naman halos patayin ko siya sa galit.
i dont like it, sa mga high school girls cute and sweet, but other than those girls of age, its a No-No!

[babymom20]

kahit gustong gusto ni hub na bitbitin, ayaw ko talaga.. nababaduyan ako sa ibang couple na yung guy ang nagdadala ng bags. lalo na yung mga estudyante, nakauniform pero bag ng gf ang dala dala. pag mabigat ang bag ko at pagod nako, kunyari holding hands kami ni hub, pero sya ang may bitbit ng bag ko talaga, para lang kunyari ako pa rin may hawak.. 

[lilmissprettydiva]

I agree! Hindi dapat mga bf/hubby nagbibitbit ng bag ng girls especially pag alam na alam na pang girl yung bag. Ok lang yung backpack, bulky sports bag or shopping bags, pero yung girl's bag or clutch ang panget tingnan.

I always tell my guy barkadas never to carry their gf/wife's purse or bag ang sagwa kasi tingnan. Marami naman ways para ipakita na sweet ka sa girl pero hindi kasama dun yung pagbitbit ng ladies' bags