Pseudo Relationship --> POV's nyo about this girls :)

[einah08]

^ naku sis that's what i do na nga eh.. haha.. iniintindi ko na lang din nga yung situation hoping and praying na everything will be alright soon..

[minikeyklush]

^ naku sis that's what i do na nga eh.. haha.. iniintindi ko na lang din nga yung situation hoping and praying na everything will be alright soon..

AJA sis! kaya mo yan tee hee! 

[silvermist07]

"Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang doon lang siya� almost, but not quite."

never talaga cia nagkakatotoo. I already experienced this but thank God nakarecover & na-end ko na [textspeak!] kabaliwan ko (almost 2yrs). For girls out there if you don't want to be hurt don't settle in this kind of relationship...

[minikeyklush]

never talaga cia nagkakatotoo. I already experienced this but thank God nakarecover & na-end ko na [textspeak!] kabaliwan ko (almost 2yrs). For girls out there if you don't want to be hurt don't settle in this kind of relationship...

tumpak tlaga ito at sis silvermist07.. mahirap makalabas sa ganitong klase ng relationship.. it'll really take a lot of courage and time and determination to get over with this.. 

[sweetsorrow]

lots of courage and determination. Kasi masaya ka minsan, pero minsan sobrang down ka. Kailangan din na sobra kang masasaktan para matauhan. Mahirap talaga makawala, hindi nga ako makabitaw sa kanya ngayon masaya ako, temporary.

[minikeyklush]

Kailangan din na sobra kang masasaktan para matauhan.

so true sis @sweetsorrow, applicable dito yung sayings na - you need to learn in a hard way.. hehe 

[silvermist07]

right! totally agree.. [textspeak!] tipo ayaw mo na kc uncertain ka kung ano ka sa kanya. Hirap [textspeak!] pag-ok ka na, ready ka na to forget him then bigla ka nya tatawagan or itetext. kainis! you can't say no kasi mahirap talaga. I'm very thankful na naget-over ko din cia. Basta dpat i-mind set mo [textspeak!] [textspeak!] sarili mo na wala talagang pupuntahan if ituloy nyo pa. Kaw din [textspeak!] kawawa. Un kc [textspeak!] ginawa ko e, I accept the fact na hindi talaga pwede maging kame. So what's the use na ituloy mo pa if u know nman na walang pupuntahan diba? Goodluck sa mga sisses nten out there & sana magising na sa katotohanan na hanggang dyan [textspeak!] talaga. mahahanap nyo din right one for each of use like me. I'm so happy with my bf. natatawa na [textspeak!] pag-naalala ko [textspeak!] stage ng pseudo na yan....

[minikeyklush]

good for you sis @silvermist07 sana mahanap na din ako ng mr right na yan hehe para happy happy na hays...

[silvermist07]

sis minikeyklush, don't worry you'll find the right one for you. Ganyan din ako before but thank God naging happy na din ako. Keep on praying lang and always stay positive. Stay beautiful.. darating din yan in the right time with the right person... enjoy mu lang muna being single

[minikeyklush]

sis minikeyklush, don't worry you'll find the right one for you. Ganyan din ako before but thank God naging happy na din ako. Keep on praying lang and always stay positive. Stay beautiful.. darating din yan in the right time with the right person... enjoy mu lang muna being single

hehe sana nga sis kasi di pa din ako totally over dun sa ex pseudo ko nun..  iniisip ko nalan na pag dumating na SIYA hehe baka okay na.. tee hee! 

[sweetsorrow]

while waiting for mr. Right, pseudo muna.

Haha. Bad. Minsan naiisip ko na rin tigilan. Tama ka sis, kung kelan okey ka na, magpaparamdam naman siya. Hindi mo lang mapigilan magtext... Pero magigising din ako sa katotohanan..

[ebosh]

hay.. eto na naman tong topic na 'to 
Nakakasawa pero everytime I hear stories about this I can't help but think about my situation too. Nakakasawa kase I've been in and out and in again  in this kind of relationship.
Who would've thought tatagal to ng 3yrs!!!!
Waah! Pero happy pa naman ako... kaso hanggang kelan?! 

[minikeyklush]

sis@ebosh.. bsta keep on my praying nalan na it'll be for good , i mean maging kayo na officially at maging happy ending yan.. kasi sis, mahirap lusutan talaga yan in case na nag end na.. hays..sobrang sakit lalo na pag ikaw lang yung nagmahal.. 

[silvermist07]

hay.. eto na naman tong topic na 'to 
Nakakasawa pero everytime I hear stories about this I can't help but think about my situation too. Nakakasawa kase I've been in and out and in again  in this kind of relationship.
Who would've thought tatagal to ng 3yrs!!!!
Waah! Pero happy pa naman ako... kaso hanggang kelan?! 

that's the question? "Hanggang kelan?" it's really hard to but you need to make a choice as early as now. Baka kasi sayang panahon mo na supposed to be e binibigay mo dun para kay real thing. atleast alam mo na may patutunguhan. 3yrs sis? grabe tagal na. pwede ba malaman why pseudo lang kau? [textspeak!] saken kc before is he's committed so hindi talaga puwede but he courted me before kaya lang hindi ko cia sinagot. then after 7 years dun kame ulet nagkita e hindi na talaga puwede kaya naging pseudo.

[ebosh]

^ he has a gf sis  we were friends before that and hindi na lang namen namalayan na ganun na pala nangyayari samen.. There were lots n lots of dramas I swear! Had a lot of 'pseudo-breakups' too! Pero bumabalik talaga kame in the same situation eh. Then ngaun break na sila ng gf nia. Kung tutuusin mas ok sana db? kaso hindi eh     kase now mas nagiging involved na kame sa buhay ng isa't-isa lalo nagiging closer din sa mga kanya kanyang families namen.. Mas naging confused ako ngaun kase at least before I know where I stand in his life, ngaun hindi ko na alam. Kase nga parang kame pero hindi, but this time wala na ciang gf. I don't like going to his family and barkada affairs kase hindi naman kame, but why do I somehow feel obliged to do so?  Cia kase super effort talaga cia sa family and friends ko. Pero ako ayoko. Ang gulo! 
But other than that ok naman at happy naman kase super maalaga cia and I feel loved. Kaso nakakatakot magising isang araw na wala na pala lahat.... hayyyy 

[Sun005]

Pag gusto, may paraan. pag ayaw, may iba.

been there twice. But thank God, I survived. and nun 2nd time na nangyare nun, d na ko nakatagal. Dali lang nakamove on cos lagi ko lang naiisip na it wont work out and kung talagang mahal nya ko, kami na matagal na. thats it.

[yellow_bell]

i think i'm into this relationship. not that much though. ang labo. in my case kasi, we were together for 2 1/2 years. we broke 3 weeks ago. after we talked for closure, we talked again for the 2nd and 3rd time. we kissed still pero di na ganun ka intimate. we dont text or call. we dont see each other. usapan is, pupuntahan niya ko whenever he wants to. walang expectations. everyone knows na we broke up na. isang office kami. there are just reasons why we cant be together muna. may mga individual differences kasi kami. we need to mature separately first. if we think we're both ready na ulit to enter into a more mature relationship then maybe we can try again. wala naman kasi 3rd party. ugali lang talaga. saka marami siya responsibilities sa family niya. I dont know for how long we'll be like this. pero im open to meeting new friends. ayoko naman umasa na lang ng umasa. especially that it was him na ayaw na..

[snix]

out of curiosity inopen ko tong thread.. hindi ko kasi alam kung ano yung pseudo relationship pero naranasan ko na pala..

this happened way back in 2008..nagbreak sila kasi ng ex niya ayun lagi siya sakin humihingi ng advice..tapos lagi niya ko inaaya on dates.. wala kami agreement pero nakikiramdam kami sa isa't isa.. nagseselos siya pag may kasama kong guy friends tapos ganun din naman ako pero wala pa rin kami napaguusapan.. holding hands, hugs pwera lang kisses nagawa na namin lahat..one time pa nga tinanong niya ko "tayo na ba?" pero dahil mukang nagbibiro lang din siya hindi ko rin sineryoso.. until he met another girl,ayun goodbye na..  2 taon ko din iniyakan yun  para na rin akong naging rebound

ngayon may problema nanaman sa babae sa akin nanaman lumalapit for advice.. pero ayoko na im trying to limit it to just being friends..ayoko na rin maulit yung dati.. kung talagang kami edi sana matagal na.. the good thing is that we became really good friends but the bad thing is that on my part there's a big possibility na maulit nanaman yung dati ganitong madalas nanaman kami magusap..

[mooncake and leaves]

The months after my breakup with my recent ex, this was the setup we had. We didn't have sex but we were still sweet. Then it just ended. Naawa na din siguro siya sa akin haha. To this day, I can't believe I allowed it to happen. I suppose if I didn't have strong feelings for him, I would've had a lot more fun. Unforch, I did so lesson learned: if you know you're in love, don't attempt it. I don't regret it. It was something I had to experience so I would know better in the future.

[kokobebe]

Ayoko yung ganitong set up, matatalo lang ako pag na-inlove ako. Kawawa naman ako kung hindi niya rin naman ako sasaluhin.