19 things you should NEVER say to a single person

[geminitalks]

"ang choosy mo kasi siguro"

E kasi di ako desperada.

 

Yung iba jan, masabi lang may love life, kahit they have nothing in common with the guy, papatulan. Please. Gusto ko naman yung nakakausap ko diba.

Pramis, pag desperada na'ko, instant boyfriend ito. 

^winner! like this one...i get this line a lot too...i refrained from answering na lang to avoid long questions that comes with it..but this one sounds about right sis...tama, we're not desperate and we keep on looking for that someone who make sense..with the same level of intelligence na makakwentuhan natin in just about everything under the sun...same interest not just saying YES para may mapakita na BF sa iba...kaloka!!!

[rhumbafrapp]

recently some of my friends are getting engaged, or married. And syempre, napupuna nanaman my pagiging NBSB

and eto lagi sinasabi sakin
1. ang choosy mo- bakit bawal maging choosy, kahit 24 na ako, syempre i just don't want to "settle". If by some chance eto yun taong makakasama ko sa buhay ko, ayaw ko naman ng just anyone lang
2. Buti pa si (name of someone i do not like or a certain person)- dibale, ok lang maging single, di ko naman gusto ko yun bf nya e.

hay! nakakadepress din minsan

[chicgurl]

eto nakakaloka.. narinig ko lang..

"maganda ka naman, di ka naman mataba, siguro may attitude problem ka noh, siguro masama ugali mo kaya ka single" hahaha anak ng pating hahaha usok ilong nung sinabihan eh haha

[ishko]

ok maging choosy kung bata pa like below 30 pero kung mag-40 kana, wag na maging choosy.. kasi wala nang pagpipilian nun

[mypurplesummer]

If people will tell me this I'll definitely be annoyed. 

Specially if I hear this:
13.  Wow, I wish I were single and in your shoes! (really? I'm pretty sure you CAN be single if you want to be. So if you aren't messing with me out of pity - which I think you are - please go for it!)

My reaction?
Oh, c'mon! hahaha. 

[amy farrah fowler]

"man-hater ka siguro kaya wala kang boyfriend."  a certified flirt / boyfriend-snatcher has been telling me this for some years now.  sabi ko na lang sa kanya, "e di ako desperada tulad ng iba jan na kung sinu-sino na lang ang pinapatulan."  hehe.

[blatherina]

About being choosy kung bata pa...

I suppose it depends on the person, like me, frinstance. I didn't grow up thinking that I had to get married, or that I had to be a mother at a certain age. Kung umabot ako sa 50s ko, still footloose and fancy-free, I'm fine with that. I'm not going to get married for the sake of getting married.

I once received a whopper of a proposal. The gist of it was -- I wasn't getting any younger, that it's dangerous to have a baby @ the menopausal stage. (I was 27 at the time). Excuse you at lahat ng kalahi mo.
I am more than a uterus.

Although alam ko (from friends na rin who admitted) that there are a lot of people who settle down because "it's about time", it's not for me. I guess I'm just a romantic. I need a connection deeper than a mutual agreement to breed or to conform to societal norms.
Char!

[chicgurl]

^ true! i strongly agree.. ako din parang naiinis ako pag pinakikialamanan ang matris ko haha diba? ang akin lang kung meant ako magkaanak then so be it if ibbless ako ni Lord ng child I will humbly accept that it's a blessing. pero if not di hindi diba ganon talaga eh. kahit naman nga married na diba minsan di nabbless ng ganon?

nakakainis lang pag sinasabihan na ako ng you are not getting any younger. sayang lahi mo etc etc. 28 na daw ako dapat daw nag aasawa na ako eh sa wala nga akong maaasawa e alangan naman na i'll settle for less. haha ayoko nga.. i just got out of a 7-year rel. tapos mag aasawa na ako agad? haller.

[chuvaeklavu]

ok maging choosy kung bata pa like below 30 pero kung mag-40 kana, wag na maging choosy.. kasi wala nang pagpipilian nun

natawa naman ako sis! pero so true! sobrang choosy ko ngayon.. lol
i don't look like a model but i know my value. That's all fine thank you! lol

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

taas kasi ng standards mo eh!

- so, you mean, binabaan ng gf mo standards niya para lang magka gf ka?

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

pinaka ayaw ko pa yung  " concerned lang naman sila" na excuse. hello!! well, guess what?  I dont
need any of your concern. Concern ba talaga or tsumitsismis ka? Ako, kasi I dont ask people
questions like these even if I have a bf kasi ayoko rin na tinatanong ako ng ganito pag single ako.
kung totoong concern sila, Id rather that they shut up para di sila nakaka offend ng tao.


eto ha! saw a classmate and asked me if Iam already married. sabi ko di pa. sabi niya bakit? sabi ko. EH AYOKO EH! tapos she went saying ako mayroon , pero hiwalay at may isang anak. sabi ko " o, HIWALAY KA PALA EH! TAPOS PINAG AASAWA MO PA AKO!" supalpal!

[snooky]

^tumpak!

it's like kala mo naman marriage equates to winning the lotto.

When in reality it's a real life horror story (with exceptions).

[chuvaeklavu]

grabe.... parang gulo gulo...

basta if single ka, just enjoy it...
ako ngayon ko lang na-realize na masarap maging single...
being single for like 6 or 7months is achievement na sakin....

Wala masaya lang

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

masarap barahin mga taong nangingialam sa buhay mo na tipong  hiwalay sa asawa, or single parent na kung maka comment sa mga single ang AYOS AYOS ng kanilang buhay asawa. I dont judge them ha, ako kasi type na, I let the person say that she is this or that. But I dont comment anything naman. Kaya I dont get why there are such people who are separated tapos the nerve pa mag comment sa situation mo as single. Parang sarap sabihing " pwedeng ayusin mo muna buhay asawa mo then tsaka mo na lang pakialaman buhay ko, pag maayos na buhay mo at kasama mo na asawa mo.

[mharickar]

19 things you should NEVER say to a single person:

1.  It happens when you're not looking. (that's just bull)

ok pipikit na lang ako.. haha.. kaasar tong number 1 na to.. hehe... 

[beachgirl]

an aunt told me,"bakit wala kang boyfriend?kapag wala kang boyfriend pangit ka"... I'm on the verge of answering,"wala nga akong boyfriend,pangit nga ako,pero may pera naman ako,hindi ako umaasa sa magulang ko,at hindi ako palamunin.hindi tulad ng mga anak mo at mga asawa nila na dapat ay nagta-trabaho na,pero umaasa pa rin sa iyo".

it may sound evil..but hey,it's the truth..

ang offensive naman non. sana sinagot mo nga ng ganon sis

[beautifuldreamer]

huwag kang mag alala...darating din yon...

[chefytine]

eto lagi saken tinatanong ng mga relatives ko &colleagues

kelan ka ikakasal?(duh?! wala nga bf eh ikakasal?) kaloka!

[babyjapnurse01]

From the list, andami nang nasabi sakin before, and para sakin, okay lang naman as long as sa mga close friends ko manggagaling, pero from insignifcant people... uhmmm... 

Ito yung mga nasabi na sakin and I dont even find them offensive or kaasar :

1.  It happens when you're not looking. (TRUE)
2.  There are plenty of fish in the sea. (TRUE)
4.  You're too picky. (WELL, I SHOULD BE.  )
5.  You'll find the right person for you. (UHMM YEA, MALAMANG.  )
6.  He's out there. (PARANG NUMBER 5 LANG RIN HEHE)
8.  Just have fun with it! (TRUE, MASAYA RIN NAMAN EVEN NUNG SINGLE AKO)
10.  He just wasn't the right guy for you. (I AGREE. )
12.  When the time is right you will meet someone. (COULDNT AGREE MORE )
15.  It will happen when you least expect it (PARANG NUMBER 1 LANG, SO, TRUE)
17.  But you're so pretty! Why don't you have a boyfriend? (NOBODY'S PERFECT LOL!)
18. It just wasn't meant to be. (ONGA, BUTI NALANG!  )

pero if those statements would come from people na hindi ko naman tinatanong ang opinyon about my lovelife, well, sorry nalang kung mababara ko sila. LOL!

whenever Im asked when I would marry, I always answer back, "uhmm sige, next week, sponsoran mo?" usual na sagot sakin, "sus, keri nyo naman gastusan" I always end the conversation by saying "Ikaw may idea na pakasal na ko eh, edi sponsoran mo. ". I find it too nosy for other people to meddle with my personal life, pet peeve ko na yung mga pakealamera na nagtatanong dati kung bakit wala akong boyfriend and stuff like that mas lalo palang kaasar those who ask you bakit hindi ka pa kinakasal, may pressure? ito ba ay may time limit? hay kaloka.

[summerchic]

Parati na lang sinasabi ang "masyado ka choosy"...umm kailangan ba patulan na kung sino na lang ang dumating? LOL.