19 things you should NEVER say to a single person

[izzybaby]

You're too picky. (go ahead & kick me while I'm down)

hay naku lang!!!

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

14.  You can always get back at them during funerals by saying the same thing. 

 Loving this!!!

[snove_12]

hehe nakaka relate namam me sa topic na to'.., it seems parang okey ang maging single mom kaysa maging single..dami kasing hassle questions about being single   basta im praying if this is my calling let it be

[felinedivine]

this is what my ex friend said to me months ago on FB...she lost my friendship ( if we ever had one on her side )..." May bf ka na? Interesado ako kasi mag 4 years na lang kami ng jowa ko wala ka pa ring boyfriend...hahahahaha"...what a b***h... I hate her super to the highest level...frenemy ko kasi yun kaya umaatake yun kapag my magandang nangyayari sa buhay ko...sa kanya na ang obese bf niya...

[iCleverClogs]

jeezz... except for number 19 nasabi na lahat sakin, mga b******t sila... kung sila kaya sa kalagayan ko, at gaganunin ko rin sila pag tanong. 

[Lovester]

I'm 31 and I've been told na "maganda ka naman, bakit ka single?".  Sinasabi ko na lang "I'm a shrew!" para tumahimik na sila...besides, my relatives should  probably used to beautiful women turning out to be old maids by now.  Ang dami sa min nun eh. (Modesty aside...obviously )

[iCleverClogs]

^ ayaw masira ang beauty sis sa kunsimisyon sa bf. 

[kokobebe]

1.  It happens when you're not looking. - Maghanap man ako o hindi, wala paring maayos na dumadating.

2.  There are plenty of fish in the sea. - Oo nga, but not all of them are good enough for someone like me!

3.  So, why are you still single? - Because I dont want to have a miserable and problematic life like you!

4.  You're too picky. - I only deserve the best!

7.  It was just bad timing. - It wasn't. He's just a d*ckhead.

8.  Just have fun with it! - So he could have fun with me too? I think not!

9.  Have you tried online dating? - I'm not that desperate, you know!

14. Your turn next [at weddings]  - Go ahead and keep on rubbing it in!

17.  But you're so pretty! Why don't you have a boyfriend? - what do you care??


Kainis talaga yung mga taong comment ng comment ng ganito. Eh ano bang pakielam niyo sa buhay ko? Grrrr! 

[carmilina]

^ tama ka dyan sis, pakialamanan nila sarili nilang buhay...paaak!WINNER!

[blatherina]

"ang choosy mo kasi siguro"

E kasi di ako desperada.

 

Yung iba jan, masabi lang may love life, kahit they have nothing in common with the guy, papatulan. Please. Gusto ko naman yung nakakausap ko diba.

Pramis, pag desperada na'ko, instant boyfriend ito. 

[hearty_flakes]

check!!!!! tama mga sises!!!

[tennisgirl]

yung highscool clasmate ko sabi sa akin, "mag-asawa ka na". Isip ko lang, "kung katulad rin lang ng asawa mo mapapangasawa ko eh di bale na lang". yung kasing hubbynya walng job, nakaasa lang sa family nung classmate ko, pinapag-aral pa nila 

[angeleigh]

I really hate it when someone ask me when will i get married. Sheesh. Sige papakasal ako bukas na bukas din, pero ikaw ang bumuhay sa magiging pamilya ko.

[iCleverClogs]

i remember last week lang when i treat my parents on pizza tapos we meet this family friend with her 2 children. she asked me "oh, kumusta? nag-asawa ka na ba?". sabi ko naman "ay di pa po, wala nga akong bf eh." response naman niya "akala ko ba mag-aasawa ka na? naku, ano pang hinihintay mo, mag-asawa ka na?"...


no comment na lang. akala mo ba naman madala ang pag-aasawa... haysssttt, mga tao nga naman. hindi pinupulot ang lifetime partner..

[tennisgirl]

no comment na lang. akala mo ba naman madala ang pag-aasawa... haysssttt, mga tao nga naman. hindi pinupulot ang lifetime partner..

hehe tama ka dyan sis...

[ShoesAndTravel]

hahaha this one made me laugh. thanks!

[jessicaxx]

4. You're too picky.

pano ka naman naging picky kung wala ka namang pinagpipilian in the 1st place db?

[iCleverClogs]

pwede rin ito...


"magpasyal ka naman para may mahanap kang gwapong lalaki at mayaman"


parang ang loser ko noh?! ako pa ang maghahanap! at di ko aaksayahin ang energy at time ko sa pamamasyal para magbaka sakaling maka hook up ng lalaki. di ako desperada! hayysssttt

[joyous16]

this thread is funny!!! im in my early 30's and single and yes i've been asked those question a thousand times.. gusto ko na mgdala ng tape recorder sa reunions eh kakapagod sagutin tanong nila hehe. sinasabi ko nalang single by choice kesa may bf at asawa ka namang kunsimisyon hehe

[muahmuahmuah]

aside from all those meron akong bagong natatanggap na comment :

You're not ready for a relationship, I think all you need is someone to talk to.

oo nga noh thats whats missing between me and my sex doll... ummmm errrrrr ... hearing this from people who think they know me more than myself is really absurd. a married woman, who can't discuss money matters with her hubby, said this herself.  i felt an utter disdain for her right after. i would've appreciated a conversation that would remind me of the good side of being a singleton  or how much work you really have to put into the marriage to make it a happy one--given that she's been on the lows, but of course who could i rely having that  discussion with. so even with the harshest insensitive remarks and puzzling questions i still would like to keep an open heart and mind in finding the right guy--no rush but sana soon

a good friend and I discussed once about the shortcomings of her bf and my pseudo-bf and we figured reason enough why we have friends, girlfriends and bestfriends to fill whatever it is we can't do with the boyfriends, discuss whatever it is we can't discuss with them yet or satiate whatever is missing..so to the married friends there's definitely no need to oversell the hope or empathize that way, just be the friend who we enjoy hanging out with.

avoid the cliche's too and maybe put a little more effort in discovering something else about the single friend and be more involved in their interests or create new interests with them rather than focus on something they don't have-which is a mate. even go overboard fantasizing over a showbiz crush, doing something different helps. funny rin those who humbly brag about how perfect their marriage is i just hope they don't go bastardizing their partners in front of any single gal they've bragged to during the downtimes.