yes...if and only if destiny means that I make my own destiny... mahirap i-explain but it is how i see destiny. Kung ano ang pinagagawa ko at present will affect my destiny. For example: if i know how to save now then i am destined to be better-off in financial life otherwise if i am extravagant then I am more destined to be kawawa. hehe!
nung nagkasakit father mo at naubos savings mo, it means to say na ginusto niyo yun kasi hindi nagingat father mo sa health niya at hindi nagprepare ng health card parents mo kaya destined ka na maubos savings mo at that time? why haven't you and your family thought of having a health card so as not to be "kawawa" or nung nadelay wedding ninyo ng bf mo, then its also because of your own doing kaya ayaw ka pa niya pakasalan right then and there? wow, what if someone murders you or your boyfriend replaces you for someone better, then, does that mean to say that its your fault because you planned to be a less loving gf and you make your own destiny?
i am worried... i got an email and a text kay bf na he had nosebleeds for 2 days in a row na. Dahil ra sa sobrang init in Fujairah. Huhuhu!
don't be worried, its his destiny...im sure gagaling din siya kung gusto niya ayusin ang destiny niya.
Pero if you mean what if my destiny is a guy earning lesser than me, hindi naman siguro diritso na maging kami diba, for sure daan yun sa ligaw stage so i will go back to my answer above...i go distant na lang kasi alam ko na naman sa utak ko na di siya ang tipo ko.
im sorry
glads, but i really get "DISTURBED" by your posts. As what i understand, for you, money is a qualification for you to love someone, am i correct? If yes, nakakalungkot lang.
^^ would just like to ask, sino po ang gumagawa ng reports nyo? ang mga BM po ba meron ding sariling secretary? thanks po..
sis
ren, sa amin, ang secretary may sarili pang secretary under her, taga bili ng lunch, taga deposit ng personal money sa bank, taga deliver ng sideline na negosyo, pero in fairness, minimum pay. LOL! panggulo lang.
you cannot plan who you want to marry...Only God knows who you'll end up with.
if you will insist on doing your own thing, you will not have the best..
super duper agree!
i agree, there is always a somebody for someone. i'm a hopeless romantic so i believe we don't have to go looking for it, love comes to us. yes, i have qualities that i look for in a potential partner but i think when the person destined for you comes, it won't matter if he has the qualities you're looking for. everything will just fall into place.
di ba mga sis? hehe masyado bang cheesy?
sis
sharks, pareho tayong hopeless romantic and cheesy, and i firmly believe in the power of love WITHOUT ANY CONDITION - may it be for your bf, husband, parents, siblings, friends.
Ang gulo ko!!! nahihirapan ako i-explain ubos na tagalog ko!
Then explain it in English! Or what dialect are you used to? Malay mo may nakakaintindi sa amin

^well said sis sharks, my hubby doesn't really fit my ideal man at all in terms of physical and financial aspects. Sobrang whirlwind romance ang story namin but after 13 years here we are still going strong and I wouldn't ask for anyone better 
aw, ang sweeeeeeeet! basta sis
tet, pag kinasal na ako, i will be needing more of your advices on how to be a good wife and mom ha

well, that is why what is planned is totally different from what is destined, for in planning, you intend for things to happen but in destiny, it is predetermined and irresistible which means you don't have control over. 
i lavet!
we can not answer it kasi wala namang book na nagsasabi na a is destined to b, c is destined to d. no mortal can answer this at all. tanong na lang natin ito sa Diyos kung sino man makapasok sa atin sa langit. LOL!
seriously, do you believe in God? or do you have a God? regardless of the religion, do you acknowledge that there is a supreme being above us?
IMO, you don't have to "enter" the gates of heaven before hearing God's answers. HE answers your question kahit buhay pa tayo, we just have to learn how to listen to HIM.
being single is a blessing, it is not by choice, it is a calling.
Gladz, if your trying to be rational with me fine, but you cannot question God's plan for you. You may have all the perfect plan that you can think of but it cannot be comparable what has God laid out for you.
super agree!
wahaha! haba ng post ko, dami ko comments, ito ata effect kasi i'm super happy today. 2.5 hours kami nagchat ni boyfie!