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sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #220 on: September 02, 2010, 03:54:28 pm »
you cannot plan who you want to marry...Only God knows who you'll end up with.
if you will insist on doing your own thing, you will not have the best..

i agree, there is always a somebody for someone. i'm a hopeless romantic so i believe we don't have to go looking for it, love comes to us. yes, i have qualities that i look for in a potential partner but i think when the person destined for you comes, it won't matter if he has the qualities you're looking for. everything will just fall into place.  :) di ba mga sis? hehe masyado bang cheesy?

silverbarrow

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #221 on: September 02, 2010, 04:05:43 pm »
^well said sis sharks, my hubby doesn't really fit  my ideal man at all in terms of physical and financial aspects. Sobrang whirlwind romance ang story namin but after 13 years here we are still going strong and I wouldn't ask for anyone better  :)
« Last Edit: September 02, 2010, 04:29:55 pm by silverbarrow »

betty

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #222 on: September 02, 2010, 04:24:28 pm »
correct!

always remember you have your "own" destiny, you dont make it. di mo pwedeng pangunahan kung ano nakatakda sayo.

tignan nyo si avatar, nung una ayaw nya yung responisibility na nakaatang na sa kanya, tas nung hindi nya tinanggap, madaming napahamak, so in the end para maging tama, you have to follow what is really your calling.

sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #223 on: September 02, 2010, 04:35:33 pm »
my hubby doesn't really fit  my ideal man at all in terms of physical and financial aspects. Sobrang whirlwind romance ang story namin but after 13 years here we are still going strong and I wouldn't ask for anyone better  :)

how happy sis! pag nag-asawa na ko gusto ko din ganyan kami kasaya. kahit walang madaming pera..basta masaya, yun talaga importante sa akin. kahit maraming maging problema, basta magtulungan lang maayos din ang lahat.  :)

always remember you have your "own" destiny, you dont make it. di mo pwedeng pangunahan kung ano nakatakda sayo.

agree na naman ako dito sis, nung pinanganak pa lang tayo meron ng nakatakda sa atin na tao, naka-plano na ang lahat. galing ni Lord di ba?  ;)

sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #224 on: September 02, 2010, 08:14:23 pm »
i beg to disagree na i cannot plan who to marry...we can choose who we want to marry as long as nagkasundo kayo na magpakasal.

to insist on doing our own thing does not always mean we can never have our best.


well, that is why what is planned is totally different from what is destined, for in planning, you intend for things to happen but in destiny, it is predetermined and irresistible which means you don't have control over.  ;)

sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #225 on: September 02, 2010, 08:31:44 pm »
gusto ko sana mag-agree twin sister sa somebody for some pero napa-isip ako, how about yung single-blessedness ang trip... LOL

they chose to be single, but it doesn't mean there's nobody out there for them, di ba?

hindi ako kokontra on love come for us rather di din ako kokontra na love can sometimes be found when we look for it.

exactly my point, don't look for it...it will come unexpectedly. kasi when you look for it...it's like you're forcing something to happen, right?

everything will fall into place for those who are determine to make it fall into place.

making it and letting it happen are way too different...which brings me back to my previous post, what is planned is totally different from what is destined. ;)

sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #226 on: September 02, 2010, 08:38:37 pm »
How can we change destiny?

Anyone can change their destiny if they know the truth of the phenomena which exist.

sis, ang destiny..yun na yun..iisa lang, hindi mo mako-control. ngayon, kung iibahin mo? hindi na destiny tawag dun..haha! ano ba yan paiko-ikot lang tayo.. ;D

betty

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #227 on: September 02, 2010, 09:26:52 pm »
being single is a blessing, it is not by choice, it is a calling.

Gladz, if your trying to be rational with me fine, but you cannot question God's plan for you. You may have all the perfect plan that you can think of but it cannot be comparable what has God laid out for you.

mahirap din magplan ng plan, kasi frustration yan sayo pag di nangyari at mamaya mamatay ka ng wala sa oras, useless.

health.gal

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #228 on: September 02, 2010, 10:50:45 pm »
yes...if and only if destiny means that I make my own destiny... mahirap i-explain but it is how i see destiny. Kung ano ang pinagagawa ko at present will affect my destiny. For example: if i know how to save now then i am destined to be better-off in financial life otherwise if i am extravagant then I am more destined to be kawawa. hehe!
nung nagkasakit father mo at naubos savings mo, it means to say na ginusto niyo yun kasi hindi nagingat father mo sa health niya at hindi nagprepare ng health card parents mo kaya destined ka na maubos savings mo at that time? why haven't you and your family thought of having a health card so as not to be "kawawa" or nung nadelay wedding ninyo ng bf mo, then its also because of your own doing kaya ayaw ka pa niya pakasalan right then and there? wow, what if someone murders you or your boyfriend replaces you for someone better, then, does that mean to say that its your fault because you planned to be a less loving gf and you make your own destiny?
i am worried... i got an email and a text kay bf na he had nosebleeds for 2 days in a row na. Dahil ra sa sobrang init in Fujairah. Huhuhu!
don't be worried, its his destiny...im sure gagaling din siya kung gusto niya ayusin ang destiny niya.
Pero if you mean what if my destiny is a guy earning lesser than me, hindi naman siguro diritso na maging kami diba, for sure daan yun sa ligaw stage so i will go back to my answer above...i go distant na lang kasi alam ko na naman sa utak ko na di siya ang tipo ko.
im sorry glads, but i really get "DISTURBED" by your posts. As what i understand, for you, money is a qualification for you to love someone, am i correct? If yes, nakakalungkot lang.
^^ would just like to ask, sino po ang gumagawa ng reports nyo? ang mga BM po ba meron ding sariling secretary? thanks po..
sis ren, sa amin, ang secretary may sarili pang secretary under her, taga bili ng lunch, taga deposit ng personal money sa bank, taga deliver ng sideline na negosyo, pero in fairness, minimum pay. LOL! panggulo lang.
you cannot plan who you want to marry...Only God knows who you'll end up with.
if you will insist on doing your own thing, you will not have the best..
super duper agree!
i agree, there is always a somebody for someone. i'm a hopeless romantic so i believe we don't have to go looking for it, love comes to us. yes, i have qualities that i look for in a potential partner but i think when the person destined for you comes, it won't matter if he has the qualities you're looking for. everything will just fall into place.  :) di ba mga sis? hehe masyado bang cheesy?
sis sharks, pareho tayong hopeless romantic and cheesy, and i firmly believe in the power of love WITHOUT ANY CONDITION - may it be for your bf, husband, parents, siblings, friends.
Ang gulo ko!!! nahihirapan ako i-explain ubos na tagalog ko!
Then explain it in English! Or what dialect are you used to? Malay mo may nakakaintindi sa amin  ;)
^well said sis sharks, my hubby doesn't really fit  my ideal man at all in terms of physical and financial aspects. Sobrang whirlwind romance ang story namin but after 13 years here we are still going strong and I wouldn't ask for anyone better  :)
aw, ang sweeeeeeeet! basta sis tet, pag kinasal na ako, i will be needing more of your advices on how to be a good wife and mom ha :)
well, that is why what is planned is totally different from what is destined, for in planning, you intend for things to happen but in destiny, it is predetermined and irresistible which means you don't have control over.  ;)
i lavet!
we can not answer it kasi wala namang book na nagsasabi na a is destined to b, c is destined to d. no mortal can answer this at all. tanong na lang natin ito sa Diyos kung sino man makapasok sa atin sa langit. LOL!
seriously, do you believe in God? or do you have a God? regardless of the religion, do you acknowledge that there is a supreme being above us?
IMO, you don't have to "enter" the gates of heaven before hearing God's answers. HE answers your question kahit buhay pa tayo, we just have to learn how to listen to HIM.
being single is a blessing, it is not by choice, it is a calling.
Gladz, if your trying to be rational with me fine, but you cannot question God's plan for you. You may have all the perfect plan that you can think of but it cannot be comparable what has God laid out for you.
super agree!

wahaha! haba ng post ko, dami ko comments, ito ata effect kasi i'm super happy today. 2.5 hours kami nagchat ni boyfie!
« Last Edit: September 02, 2010, 11:07:11 pm by health.gal »

betty

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #229 on: September 02, 2010, 11:02:25 pm »
wow super happy nga!


april28

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #230 on: September 03, 2010, 03:14:58 am »
May ganitong thread pala hehe..Pasali po ah! I'm a Seafarer's GF..11 months na kme today! :D ;D :D

Lapit na din sya umalis after 6 months vacation (na-aksidente kasi sya eh)..maybe this month or next month..sana umabot pa sya dito sa 1 year namin!

Hopefully next year kapag nakauwi sya matuloy ang pina-plano naming wedding..(*cross fingers*) :-*

serendipity02

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #231 on: September 03, 2010, 07:03:11 am »
Good am mga sis ;D

medyo hot ang topic nila shraks, betty at gemini lady ah..

Welcome april!!! enjoy reading and posting here..

TGIF everyone!

health.gal

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #232 on: September 03, 2010, 08:58:55 am »
May ganitong thread pala hehe..Pasali po ah! I'm a Seafarer's GF..11 months na kme today! :D ;D :D
hi april....welcome! aside from this, i suggest that you also join the "seafarer's family" thread, there are a lot of experienced wives there who have successful marriages and family lives, and im sure you'll learn a lot from them (just like i did).

sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #233 on: September 03, 2010, 09:13:30 am »
welcome april28!  ;D

babymom20

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« Reply #234 on: September 03, 2010, 10:19:17 am »
pls refer to :

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Destiny

read "Destiny vs Fate" ..


betty

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #235 on: September 03, 2010, 12:36:50 pm »
if you believe in that crap kawawa ka naman.........[textspeak!] kaya ang ikaw pag nareincarnate?

health.gal

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #236 on: September 03, 2010, 12:39:29 pm »
hindi ang pera ang ang habol ko sis but all i am after na the guy should be earning not lesser than I do.
"earning" is equated with money, right? if not, how do you gauge earning?
hindi naman ako activist nor leftist pero parang one against all ako dito... just a realization!!! LOL
its just that kakaiba lang siguro ang views mo compared with the rest of us. but i acknowledge that no view is better than the other. it all depends on our psychological makeup, how we were raised by our parents, the kind of environment we were exposed to, the friends we hang out with.

lahat tayo dito, exchange of views lang, and its like learning about diffrent kinds of "human nature"  :D

babymom20

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #237 on: September 03, 2010, 03:21:01 pm »
hindi naman ako activist nor leftist pero parang one against all ako dito... just a realization!!! LOL
e di ba yan ang gusto mo? na may pumatol sa mga posts mo.. o e di hayan.. wantusawa na.. at least yan ramdam na ramdam mo ng welcome na welcome ka hehe

sharks

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #238 on: September 03, 2010, 03:43:53 pm »
hindi naman ako activist nor leftist pero parang one against all ako dito... just a realization!!! LOL

it's not that we're against you, we are just trying to make you see our point because it seems you have this twisted idea that you can plan your whole life and achieve your goals just the way you planned it. When in fact, even if you have made those plans, there is still The Higher Being, whose will be done...No matter however you have planned your future to be, events in your life will end up to what has been destined for you. So, if you claim you want to change your destiny...it will never change, only the circumstances leading you to that destiny will.

If I may speak on behalf of all those who commented on your posts, that our reaction to what you have said, does not mean that we are against you per se. We're merely trying to make you see the bigger picture here. No offense meant.
« Last Edit: September 03, 2010, 03:52:20 pm by sharks »

health.gal

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Re: Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!
« Reply #239 on: September 03, 2010, 04:58:58 pm »
and if i may add on the factors you have enumerated....it also depends how we understand the message being written or how the post was being delivered in writing...
you're correct...it greatly depends on our INTELLECTUAL CAPACITY  :D

 

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