Girltalkers na Girlfriend ng Marino (Seafarers)!!!

[babymom20]

Being a sugar mommy during the time na wala siya is not a fault at all. Hinayaan ko because alam ko na if I won't help him at that time maaring matagalan siyang makasampa ulit. His family needs him financially more than I do. What I am trying to emphasize on the sugar mommy idea is that financial security is not what I am primarily after kasi kung pera at pera lang ang iniisip ko eh why would I get a money out from my pocket then lend to a person whom at first think can give me financial security.

it could be a sort of investment.. your subconscious mind might have told you to do so para nga naman makaalis na sya and it means allotment.. or it could be love din naman.. when we love a person, kayang ibigay lahat. support each other. tayo lang nakakaalam ng mga real motives and intentions.

Tsaka masasabi ko rin na kahit naging qualification ko sa guy na he must not be earning lower than I do eh I would strongly object being a gold-digger, pwede ko pa nga siguro sabihin na my bf is a better gold-digger. LOL If I would compare my family's resources to my bf's family we are kinda 1 over 4 status. They are not rich so I admit mahirap lang talaga pinanggalingan niyang pamilya. Umasenso lang kaunti ang buhay nila when bf was able to work as a seaman. Although hindi naman kami super rich or the likes of the typical rich people pero at least my family owns enough wide area of rice fields and lands. So kahit papano alam namin na hindi kami magugutom because we don't buy our rice nor pay for the milling because we have a rice mill. Sa kinalakihan naming lifestyle bf and I are way different, kung si bf kailangan pa mangisda para lang may pang-allowance weekly back during college eh ako I stay in a dormitory and ask for allowance from my parents.

So let may say it again na kung financial security lang hinahanap ko eh siguro I would have fish a man in my own level and eventually I would not give a chance to a from scratch na seaman.

Hopefully in a way naliwanagan kayo on my narration! LOL!

actually, this turned everything to be more confusing and contradicting from your previous posts. head over mind..first qualification must be earning more than you do..if  qualified sa area na yan.. everything follows.. so bakit nga ba hindi sa mga kapareho mong managers or stockholders or haciendero? usually when a person already reached a certain level of stability and maturity, money matters becomes of lesser importance.. true happiness and peace of mind matters the most. i wonder how the two of you laugg together.. when at the back of your mind, you both know that parang naggagamitan lang kayo.. gasgas nang linya but i believe, love is true when its unconditional.

oh! we belong to EXTREMELY DIFFERENT worlds! i was brought up in an environment where men are egoistic (or in a lighter tone, they conforme to the "norms" of being the head of the family). hindi kasi ako naging exposed sa environment na pera lang ang habol ng isa sa isa, or pera ang reason kung bakit naiin-love...maybe, thats the reason why I am a "hopeless romantic", and just the same as i am, thats also how i want my future children to be....filled with the values of love, purity, and sincerity 

in some way,parang pareho kayo ng hub ko. very traditional sya. even nung college pa kami, an ideal family for him is the mother stays at home and father earns for a living for the household.. kaso lang naman iba rin ang environment ko.. my parents were both working and my mom is kinda the strong type, the kind na hindi lang asa sa father ko.. major influence siguro sa akin. so before our wedding, yun ang pre nup agreement namin, that hindi nya ako pipigilan sa career ko. madali naman kausap ang hub ko esp if dun ako masaya. hindi namin issue ang pera.  mas nag iinvest kami sa magandang samahan. kahit anong dami ng pera, it will always come to a point na empty ang feeling. but mahirap ipaintindi ang ganito until we personally go through it. experience is the best teacher hehe

to sum it up, do what you want to do.. if that what makes you happier, so be it.  enjoy life.. eventually, on the right time, maraming realizations ang dadating.. i just hope less regrets and still not too late to recover from life's blunders..

[betty]

is that you? lol

[health.gal]

to sum it up, do what you want to do.. if that what makes you happier, so be it.  enjoy life.. eventually, on the right time, maraming realizations ang dadating.. i just hope less regrets and still not too late to recover from life's blunders..

well-said, thanks for your words of wisdom

[totiedev]

hello mga sis, im new here.my bf is also a seaman.
To start the ball rolling....
1.) How long na kayo ni bf?3months
2.) When do you plan to get married?2011 or 2012

hi sis glads..

[betty]

sino si glads

[health.gal]

sino si glads

hi sis glads..

same question here...sino si glads? anyway, i think friend siya ni sharks and geminilady as seen on their posts at page 3 of this thread.
anyway, hi totiedev, welcome here. you might wanna introduce "glads" to us

[geminilady1984]

1.) ah ok. saan agency siya?
2.) i feel so blessed because his parents are very kind, understanding and open to the situation.
3.) eh di pag kinasal kayo may pre-nup agreement?
4.) i hope you won't mind whenever i ask a lot of questions about you. your story is very interesting. maybe because, as what i said in my former post, we belong to exact opposite worlds. its just nice to wake up and learn about the "reality" of life. 

1.) PTC siya sis
2.) Di ko masasabi na his family is not kind or understanding but I just feel mas makakatulong sa situation namin na hanggat bf-gf pa status namin wag na lang ako umeksena sa finances ni bf. at pinagkasunduan namin yun ni bf kasi nga iwas tsismis lang ako. I am in a provincial setting kaya medyo madami kailangan pakibagayan na norms sa tradition at sa kapaligiran.
3.) I am in favor of pre-nup agreement but I am still undecided. Hindi na man kalakihan ang resources namin so willing na rin ako ma-share yung future income from those properties but not the ownership siguro. Example we will have children then i will have the properties titled sa name ng mga kids.
4.) So fan ka na ng buhay ko sis... anyways I do love to share my life story with all honesty.

[betty]

oh, hi miss glads, yan we are first names na

[health.gal]

hindi sis because alam ko rin naman pumarking kung saan ako nararapat. Co-owners of the bank are my bosses and i am just a typical employee.

oh I / we thought your grandfather is a stockholder of the bank, parang nabasa ko sa post mo before, so how could a grand-daughter of a bank's stockholder be a typical employee in the same bank. baka false memory lang ako

Pero is someone who is earning 30k then here come a man earning 40k then wala naman siguro malaki difference.

trying to read between the lines...so you're earning 30K? bakit hindi mo na lang tutukan ang wide areas or rice fields and lands niyo? IMO, mas malaki kita dun (although i don't have facts on hand).

geminilady1984 is glads... that's my name in FB kasi!

ano name mo sa fb? or email add? baka i can add you. sama ka sa eb pagbakasyon mo dito manila

[betty]

kaya po nasabi yun kasi, stockholder din kayo, so theres a possibility of getting to know other stockholders family as well...

[health.gal]

^ah okei. ako din may malaking farm - sa farmville

what's your fb name (add)? baka we could be friends there

[ashleycole]

hello ladies and welcome sa mga newbie here 

[sharks]

hi sis ashleycole! na-miss kita..musta na?

[ashleycole]

hi sis sharks, miss you too  heto busy sa work kaya di na halos makapag post dito  musta din sis? musta kayo ni bf mo? kami ni bf minsan na lang mag chat kasi pawala wala daw signal nila..

[betty]

i know some of them pero hi-hellos lang. di ko siguro kapalaran na magka-lovelife ng isa sa kanila. LOL 

So you believe in destiny then?

[sharks]

hi sis sharks, miss you too  heto busy sa work kaya di na halos makapag post dito  musta din sis? musta kayo ni bf mo? kami ni bf minsan na lang mag chat kasi pawala wala daw signal nila..

ok naman..kaya pala ngayon ka na lang napadaan dito. pero okay lang at least nabasa mo post ko hehe! pag hindi ka na busy usap ulit tayo  okay lang kahit hindi na kayo everyday magka-chat para ma-miss niyo naman isa't-isa..hehe!

[serendipity02]

hi sis ashley cole
welcome!!


hello mga sis,
nakasampa na ulit c BF last sept 1..
onboard na sila ngayon papuntang sri lanka..
3days walang signal..im wondering hinde ako nagcrayola ever sa alis nyang toh although 3rd sampa palang nya.

Ingat mga sis! masyadong maulan lately..

[betty]

puso po ang pinag uusapan natin..

what you sited is not destiny itself but merely how you plan your life.

[babymom20]

^^ would just like to ask, sino po ang gumagawa ng reports nyo? ang mga BM po ba meron ding sariling secretary? thanks po..

[betty]

you cannot plan who you want to marry...Only God knows who you'll end up with.
if you will insist on doing your own thing, you will not have the best..