GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

[carmilina]

Guys!! na miss ko kayo super!! as in!!

may mga guys gusto nila payat, choice namn nila,

pero ang POINT ng topic dito, if magkakagusto sila sa chubby girls..

MERON! sa totoo lang, ayaw ko magmaldita sa nag sabi no fatso/no fats? or whatever.

pero as time goes by it only proves na physical attributes ang nakikita nyo agad sa isang girl, which is natural sa isang lalake,,hindi namn ibig sabihin nun na pakakasalan nyo ng isang girl pag dine date nyo isang chubby girl..

no offensement sa mga payat, I've got loads of frens na slim at pang beauty queen.. I used to tease my ex bf pa, bakit sya hndi mo gusto?
he often says,,kanya kanyang gusto yan..
He loves a plump and curvy girls like me hehe..

well go on sa iba't ibang klase ng girls...sa huli namn kayo ang nag dedecide boys... smile everyone

[mimii]

i have a friend na mataba pero yung bf nya super macho, gym instructor pa. i dont think na issue talaga ang katawan. kahit ako mataba ako and payat ang hubby ko. nasa pagkakaintindihan talaga yan. hindi naman hanggan hanggan eh maganda ang isang tao, kukulubot din yan.

[princessrio]

^hihi.. ganyan kami ng asawa ko. majuba ako, tapos sha eh fitness instructor. 

[abuanddiego]

^sis does he encourage you to exercise? before meron kaming thinking ng mga friends ko na kapag mataba yung girl at fit yung guy, lalo na pag fitness instructor, it might mean na nachachallenge sya at gusto nya gawin fit din yung girl

[princessrio]

^kung ang pag-uusapan eh ang feeling nya as a gym instructor, machachallenge talaga sha..pero he never insisted na magpapayat ako kasi tanggap naman nya na ganito na ako nung una pa lang. neither did he implemented on me yung mga programs na nagagawa nya. exercise? minsan, ioopen nya yan pag meron na akong nararamdaman, so I guess for health reasons kung nasasabi nya.

but to change who or what I am, hindi sis. 

[abuanddiego]

you're lucky ang weight mo sis eversince ganyan na? ano pala weight mo sis? I remember yung fitness trainer ng friend ko, he married a big girl, as in malaki talaga yung girl pero very pretty, not sure lang kung member din ng gym nila, tapos nagtataka sya talaga pano nangyare yun kasi crush nya yung instructor hahahaha!

[princessrio]

5 flat lang kasi ako, so maliit. weight ko noon was 175. nagdiet ako last part ng 2010 until june of 2011 kasi wedding ko ng july. naging 159 ako noon. tapos ngayon, 8 months na akong preggy, 175 na ako ulit.  ang ideal weight for my height is 100 pounds lang ata.

[abuanddiego]

I see, hindi ka naman hirap sis sa pagbubuntis? may you have a healthy pregnancy and baby 

[rheinfall18]

i have a friend who likes to date fat girls, as in (no offense). lahat ng naging gf nya ganun. though he does not give me serious answers when asked pero nakikita ko hindi lang flirting ang purpose nya and serious sya sa relationship. [textspeak!] gusto nya din patunayan na hindi dahil fat ang girl wala na karapatan mahalin ng iba.

[iamshiela]

hmmm i think some men would consider dating a fat girl. madami namang factors why like to date girls eh. pero if it is over a slim girl, i think men would chose the slim over the fat one.

pero there is still always an exception to the rule. so dont lose hope girls!

[abuanddiego]

pero if it is over a slim girl, i think men would chose the slim over the fat one.

pero there is still always an exception to the rule. so dont lose hope girls!

i feel somehow offended by this, not because nasasaktan ako dahil guys will chose slim girls over fat girls, but with the idea that fat girls feel sad at may generalization na fat girls lose their hope over this reality.

I honestly don't care if guys don't get attracted with me because of my size, it's okay if I don't have suitors, I'm even open with the idea that I could remain single forever. pero di rin ako impokrita para sabihin kong i don't feel any inggit when I see couples because it is common knowledge na masaya talaga kung may mahal ka at may nagsusukli ng pagmamahal mo. pero yung maawa ako sa sarili ko, icompare ang situation ko sa iba, at mawalan ng pagasa kasi walang may gusto sa akin, that's ridiculous, hindi ako ganoon kababaw para maisip ko ang mga bagay na yan. I accept myself kahit dabiana ako I feel happy and contented with the people and pets around me. Siguro yung pagkakaroon ng man is just like a cherry on top. I can live with or without a man period

Come on it's 2012 already, let's be more open with the fact na hindi lahat ng matataba ay mababa ang self-esteem at hindi lahat malungkot sa buhay

[sakura_bloom]

pagkakaroon ng man is just like a cherry on top. I can live with or without a man period

Come on it's 2012 already, let's be more open with the fact na hindi lahat ng matataba ay mababa ang self-esteem at hindi lahat malungkot sa buhay

^^I agree sis! Kaya idol & love ko si Adele! She is comfortable with who she is regardless of the pressure to  be thin (the issue about Karl Lagerfeld's comment on her size).

[abuanddiego]

^Adele is also my idol. Aside from being a very good singer, what I admire most is her personality, she's genuine and she doesn't give a f^ck. Which is rare in hollywood and in the music industry.

[FOURever]

^^ and ^ anyway, she's getting slimmer and slimmer :p

I dont agree din na men will choose slim girls over fat girls. Eh nung nag break kami ng bf ko, nagkaroon sya ng ka-date na slim. Nung nag usap kami, di ko sya pinapapili and i didn't have any plan to be with him again. Usap lang to clarify things. pero when he just saw me nawala na galit nya and left the girl because he wanted to be my bf again. Take note, he left the girl first bago nya ako tinanong if we could have another chance. Yun lang

[freelancer_babe]

I studied and finished engineering, and worked in a male-dominated profession for several years. With that I understand kung ano ang typical preferences ng Filipino guys because it's usually a common talk among themselves, and which I often overhear them say.

It's true that guys drool and keep images of sexy cover girls from the internet. They are not after those girls that do well in pageants (most likely bading ang mga interested rito) as well as those thin cover models that grace women's magazines. They are after those FHM-type beauties. They keep images from sexy to nude in their gadgets. It's pretty much their nature.

But their standards of choosing that next-door type girl is different. They generally prefer girls that look natural (a hint of makeup would do - but having none and still looking awesome is also preferred, but a heavy makeup is a big turnoff to them), and a little fat - chubby as they say, but not too fat. They generally do not like slim (like most girls would want their figure to be) or thinner than slim girls, which is pretty much expected in the modelling world.

Of course, those are just physical attributes that give initial impressions. It's still the attitude and compatibility that matters most to them. I still find many fat women who have found love despite their issues with their bodies.

[abuanddiego]

ang sabi nga ng iba, wala sa figure yan, nasa paggiling yan!    

[bear_touch]

Ako wala naman akong problem dito kahit ano pa itsura, lalo na kung sensible kausap at mataas ang IQ. I really turned on sa mga girls na matatalino

[carmilina]

^ows??bibihira ang mga taonga ganyan, lalo na pag guy ang nagsabi..kudos bear_hug!

[pinkberries]

kung lalaki ako, dun ako sa chubby na maganda kesa sa hipon :p then ieenroll ko siya sa gym, parehas kami magwoworkout, gagawin kong bonding time namin ang gym time :p then ituturo ko sa kanya ang importance ng being healthy ang loving her body siyempre hindi ko sasabihin na para maging maganda siya sa paningin ko :p irarason ko na ayaw ko siyang magkasakit and gusto ko matagal kaming magkakasama together.
kasi ang weight mabilis lang i-lose yan.. pero ang mukha, ganyan na yan forever, mas malaking gastos magparetoke :p hehe.. opinyon lang naman

natawa naman ako nito sis!  naalala ko lang when bf also said this to me almost a year ago, na mas gusto pa niyang chubby na maganda kesa payat na hipon.       kahit ako babae, napapatingin ako sa chubby na magaganda, they exude such confidence despite the weight. 

[klengmorales]

Pero for me men are visual. Mauuna talaga ang itsura, chaka na lang papasok ang personality. kasi physical ang nauunang makita diba? I know someone who breaks up with his GF kasi tumaba talaga sya. masaklap ano? ako aminado ako mataba talaga ako. pero I won't consider myself as pangit. pero nakakababa pa din ng self esteem lalo na pag first impression. . Unless yung guy is really not into weight