Author Topic: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?  (Read 134578 times)

ms.holly

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #80 on: October 09, 2010, 04:36:48 pm »
Generally the rule is Men will always prefer the slim/sexy over CHubby/fat Its as true as women preferring the guapo over the homely as well.
E kung ang mga babae nga e may physical standards pano pa kaya ang mga kalalakihan. Its a fact men are visual.

But like every rule there is an exception. and exceptions are of course rare but they are definitely real. These exceptions are your ex, current bf o officemate o friend ng brother mo etc. na mahilig sa chubby. ;)
meron at merong exception. We dont condemn them, question them  we accept it. Just as we accept that there is a universal rule and an exception to this rule.


Peace ;)

jpsv72

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #81 on: October 11, 2010, 04:56:11 pm »
hi, sorry ha, female ako but i'll quote here..
how do you define fat ba? shes different from chubby lang diba?
 kung ang vital nya ay 36-30-36 height is 5' 2", fat ba sya? maybe it depends, there were males that likes female with 38C or 36B (b**b size) will you find one sa mga slender na body?
actually i am saying this kc fat din ako pero kaya daw ako pinakasalan ng hubby ko coz of my b**b size (medyo blessed kc ako)  ::), at dahil na rin sa hair ko na long and straight. maybe depende sa mga guys kung ano ang prefference nila in dating a girl, chubby with a nice smiling face, marami pa rin ang tatangkilik sa kanila.
minsan nga mga guys dating sexy kc pang display but when it goes to serious relationship, they choose to have fat kc fat girls, gutumin mo man di halata kc fat sila.....LOL  ;D 

Bubblin

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #82 on: October 11, 2010, 05:50:44 pm »
mahilig ako sa guy na nakaka-appreciate ng food. yung magaling magluto,mahilig kumain, at mahilig mag-try ng iba't ibang cuisines,but not bordering on being a glutton.ewan,basta meron akong "standards" kung paano masasabing a guy appreciates food or is a glutton.

dati bothered ako kasi sa standard ng Pinoy,I'm considered fat.big boned kasi ako.pero ngayon, I'm confident na about myself because I realized I have two things that a lot of women would kill for: boobs and butt. hindi man ako makapag-midriff dahil hindi toned ang tummy ko,well winner naman kapag nag-backless ako.

interruptedz

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #83 on: October 12, 2010, 11:20:49 am »
depende sa pagdadala yan e.yung ex ko mataba din pero nadadala ng pretty face and sense of humor..

menice

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #84 on: October 12, 2010, 02:06:25 pm »
^ tama. well said.

my answer. yes kung pasok sa category ni interruptedz

marge070407

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #85 on: October 26, 2010, 08:30:53 pm »
ouch naman th topic hehe. Maybe in some ways yes depende sa personality ng girl.

spartan

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #86 on: October 28, 2010, 08:54:35 am »
Fat girls = DO NOT WANT!

kRiStAh

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #87 on: October 29, 2010, 12:04:23 am »
Doesn't really matter if the girl is sexy or fat. We're talking about people here, not things or object, and people have personalities. Kung FuBu lang, siyempre dapat maganda, eh kung katawan lang naman ba ang habol mo, eh. Pero if it has to be someone you're going to be with, better go with someone that can make you feel like you're actually with a person.

I remember I had a crush on my thesis partner back in college. She was fat, but not too fat, I guess (or she may have been, but I was just too infatuated to notice XD). She was small, and average looking, so you wouldn't normally give her attention-- but she sure had sass. She knew how to dress up, and talk other people down in the sweetest, subtly obnoxious manner. She didn't take s*** from anyone, and was more than willing to give more back in case you dared give her some.

In short, she was like a sassy, sexy, attitude-machine gun girl trapped in a short, fat lady's body. I guess she just emanated that aura that eventually you had to physically see it.

Tip to all the fat girls out there: Emanate your inner sassy, sexy, hot machine gun-toting self. There are a lot of jerks who'll wanna put you down out there, and I used to be one of them incidentally, but don't take s***. When I tried that with my thesis partner I had to verbally spar my way out of emotional/verbal abuse. But then again, that's just me. I like girls who know how to talk-- I guess I just expected her to not be able to defend herself since most girls of her type (read: waistline size) just tend to be meek and submissive and insecure and stuff, and meeting someone like her who emanated "Smart sexy b****" aura just had to make an impression.

lawl. So basically, turn "Smart sexy b****" aura on. XD

^written by my not so normal guy officemate/college batchmate who is currently looking... XD

CityHunter

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #88 on: October 30, 2010, 06:31:11 am »
Okay lang fat huwag lang obese.  Hindi ko trip na nasa ospital lang palagi ang date namin.  Never did had a girlfriend na fat though.

mesmerized_jiLL

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #89 on: November 14, 2010, 09:13:22 pm »
hi, sorry ha, female ako but i'll quote here..
how do you define fat ba? shes different from chubby lang diba?
 kung ang vital nya ay 36-30-36 height is 5' 2", fat ba sya? maybe it depends, there were males that likes female with 38C or 36B (b**b size) will you find one sa mga slender na body?
actually i am saying this kc fat din ako pero kaya daw ako pinakasalan ng hubby ko coz of my b**b size (medyo blessed kc ako)  ::), at dahil na rin sa hair ko na long and straight. maybe depende sa mga guys kung ano ang prefference nila in dating a girl, chubby with a nice smiling face, marami pa rin ang tatangkilik sa kanila.

i so agree sis, ganyan din si bf!

hothound

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #90 on: December 01, 2010, 03:30:58 pm »
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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

Yes, and why not diba. Imo, wala naman problema kung makadate ka ng fat girl.

slickchick

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #91 on: December 08, 2010, 11:39:22 am »
found this thread interesting and funny.. tee hee!  :D

personally, here's my opinion on the subject. i think both sexes look at the physical side - yun naman kasi ang una mo talagang makikita eh. you won't notice the other person's characteristics and personality unless you get to know him/her. but the thing is, how you can go beyond what the eyes can see, especially, if you already know the person. cliche as it may sound, "what is essential is invisible to the eye" (little prince), so depende na yan kung gaano kalawak ang isip natin.

as for the chubby girls (like me!  :D ), let's learn na lang siguro to take care of ourselves. and if ever we like to slim down, let's do it for our own good, hindi dahil para magustuhan ka ng kung sinong pontio pilato. let's also try to play up our other strengths (i.e. character, wit, humor, intelligence), instead of drowning in our chubbiness(?). i'm sure naman, every chubby girl out there, has something in her para ma-downplay ang pagiging chubby nya eh.  ;)

just my two cents.  :)

slickchick

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #92 on: December 08, 2010, 03:16:12 pm »
^ actually dell, hindi ko rin alam eh... hmm.. baka kapag may nakikita ka pang kahit konting curves to separate the upper part of the body from the lower part, baka chubby lang yun.. or yung tipong nadi-distinguish mo pa yung b**b at b*tt from the other parts, chubby yun.. pero kapag isang derecho na lang, ah, baka fat na yun.. hehe!  :D ikaw ba, from a guy's perspective, paki-differentiate nga..  :D

spartan

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #93 on: December 08, 2010, 03:43:10 pm »
let's do it for our own good, hindi dahil para magustuhan ka ng kung sinong pontio pilato. let's also try to play up our other strengths (i.e. character, wit, humor, intelligence), instead of drowning in our chubbiness(?)

A-MEN!!!

This is the answer I like hearing. Acceptance then Action.

Rather than sasbihin, "yung friend ng friend ko gusto chubby girls...." etc. etc.

slickchick

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #94 on: December 08, 2010, 10:46:09 pm »
^ mean as it may sound, natawa ako sa "trying hard na bakla"! hahaha! ;D pero dell, what if hindi mahilig mag-dress yung chubby / fat na girl? tipong more on jeans/shorts-type of girlash sya, paano mo po idi-differentiate ang chubby sa fat, koya?  :D at isa pa pong kwistyon (medyo OT)! alin kaya ang mas kaakit-akit sa mata, isang chubby na girl na naka-dress or isang sexy na bading (na halatang bading ah.. tipong hindi pa nag-undergo ng transplants at implants) na naka-dress? bawal umiwas sa tanong! need to choose 1..  ano po ang inyong opinyown dito, bilang kasapi ng mga makikisig at macho-papa na mga kalalakihan ng GT? yeeahhhmehhn!   ;D

carmilina

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #95 on: December 14, 2010, 03:00:38 am »
si spartan muntik ko na mamura..buti na [textspeak!], may mga post ka pang iba!!

kundi tadtad ka sa akin..hi DELL!!!

may sense ka talaga ever!!


tama ka dun sa last na sinabi mo!

slickchick

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #96 on: December 14, 2010, 10:08:22 am »
madami na akong nakitang matabang babae na may angking kagandahan din(...naman = ) hinde "pork"et malaki pangangatawan papanget na ang mukha... malaking factor pa rin pag naalagaan ang mukha.


ayuuun naman pala! so hindi lang talaga yung body measurements.. on the physical side, kino-consider nyo pa rin naman pala yung ibang factors gaya ng "face value".. hehehhe..


@ slickchick

hinde ka naman mataba ah... mukha ka nga lang puyat( ayuuuun! = )

haha! kung yung pic ko sa blog ko ang tinignan mo, medyo matagal na yun.. naging chubby na ako over time.. hehe!  ;D at talaga pong puyat ako dun dahil ginising lang ako para makapagpa-picture habang may sunrise...  hehe!  ;D

iluvmysoldier

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #97 on: December 14, 2010, 11:07:38 am »
i was fat before...as in malaki talaga 210 lbs tapos 37 ang waistline...i never felt na pangit ako kasi parang gandang ganda sakin bf ko nun eh...pero nung pumayat ako parang naiinis siya pag madaming napapatingin sakin pag magkasama kami..naiinsecure siya sabi niya mukha daw siyang bodyguard pag magkasama kami..kaya ayan pag magkasama kami pinapakain niya ko ng masasarap...parang sinasadya nya para tumaba ako ulit... tapos pinapatigil na niya ang pagdadiet ko...

FOURever

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #98 on: December 14, 2010, 05:23:34 pm »
di ako guy.. Pero i am fat..ΓΌ pero may bf ako.. Siguro maswerte lang ako kasi kahit ex ko, when he saw me again, i know mataba na ako, pero tuloy pa rin sya sa pag amo sakin. Pero too bad, kami pa rin ni bf..=) sinasabi ko kay bf na i'm too fat na.. Pero he said ok lang daw.. If i know.haha

iluvmysoldier

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Re: GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?
« Reply #99 on: December 14, 2010, 06:11:39 pm »
mas masarap daw kasi ihug ang chubby girls... :) kahit guys din, i prefer yung medyo malaman para may nakukurot naman ako...saka para hindi masakit sa pelvic bone... ;)

 

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