GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

[OD]

Dell am dissapoint son. How could you??

Kahit na maganda personality ng fat, i would still choose sexy with average character. Men are very physical and visual.[/]

he's just being brutally honest!

But I heard that for Arabs they prefer their women to be on the heavy, "malaman" side. Ive a friend who was forced to put on weight, to the point where she became somewhat obese just to please her Jordanian beau.

[bankrun]

fat girls? friends na lang.

[chengkii]

he's just being brutally honest!

But I heard that for Arabs they prefer their women to be on the heavy, "malaman" side. Ive a friend who was forced to put on weight, to the point where she became somewhat obese just to please her Jordanian beau.

Do they care? Diba sa middle east covered ang girls? Wala lang...just crossed my mind.

[Poleng]

according to some guy friends of mine, okay lang daw kung fat tapos maputi na makinis at yung maganda yung ilong. wag lang daw yung fat na maiitim at literal na FUgly. haha! ang mean. 

[Bubblin]

@poleng: same experience pala tayo sis. I hate her until now.she even copied my dream of being a fashion designer.well... I know I am better than her. I am DEFINITELY more creative than her.ligwak siya sa style,sobrang baduy niya manamit.na-insecure sila sa atin sis... yun lang yun! mas magaling tayo sa kanila.yes may bitterness,hatred at anger pa rin ako kahit almost 7 years na ang nakakaraan ng nangyari LOL... sa akin kasi,naramdaman ko na in my gut that there is something really wrong with this girl.I didn't follow my gut and befriended her,turned out she is a big hypocrite and a low-life liar.

she's part of the reason kung bakit hindi ako naniniwala kapag sinabi ng guy na hindi looks ang habol nila sa babae.

[Poleng]

@poleng: same experience pala tayo sis. I hate her until now.she even copied my dream of being a fashion designer.well... I know I am better than her. I am DEFINITELY more creative than her.ligwak siya sa style,sobrang baduy niya manamit.na-insecure sila sa atin sis... yun lang yun! mas magaling tayo sa kanila.yes may bitterness,hatred at anger pa rin ako kahit almost 7 years na ang nakakaraan ng nangyari LOL... sa akin kasi,naramdaman ko na in my gut that there is something really wrong with this girl.I didn't follow my gut and befriended her,turned out she is a big hypocrite and a low-life liar.

she's part of the reason kung bakit hindi ako naniniwala kapag sinabi ng guy na hindi looks ang habol nila sa babae.

haha! relax sis!
well ako naman kasi hindi ko sya kinaibigan. naisip ko lang bakit nga ba nya ginawa yun. as in kalat na kalat sa buong account namin yung paninira nya. and everyone was asking me why. i was like, i couldn't answer, kasi hindi ko din alam. i wouldn't be surprised if she was the one who took my silver parker pen. LOL! seriously. ramdam na ramdan ko yung animosity nya towards me. e parang wallflower nga ko non e. most of the time wala ako sa mood dahil gabi nga ang shift. mukha pa ko kulang na kulang sa tulog.

tapos whenever i'd look her way, i feel slightly jealous pa nga e. kasi nga she's got good skin and i like her height. pantay yung puti nya saka natural na puti. hindi yung gluta or bleached na puti. tapos ang tangkad pa nya, 5'4-5'5 if i'm not mistaken. hindi nya alam na i'd kill for her assets. of course i never told anyone about it. i don't look bad naman. i have my share of boys din sa work place. haha! pero dedma lang ako.

in relation sa topic, ah hindi naman ako chubby. well i used to be dati. compared to her, mas malaman talaga ako. i would like to think na lapitin sya kasi looker nga sya. and men are visual creatures. pero minsan naisip ko din baka katawan lang ang habol nila. 

[sxymnky]

if you'll think about her all the time you'll look uglier and wasted
but if you'll  just look at yourself ..you'll surely feel prettier and confident 

-lil bit malaman lang and intimidating  lol and of course i'm taken 

[Pink_Sugar]

sa tingin ko si bf HINDI kasi mas mataas pa rin ang percentage na mas gusto nila ang sexy.

dati payat ako ako mga 95 lbs. then 5'3" ang height malapit na ako maging under weight according sa timbangan sa hospital. pero nung mga 5 years na kami ni bf nag start na ako mag gain weight. naging 55-60 kgs na ako. buti ngayon bumaba na nasa 50 kgs. na ako pero malaki pa rin bilbil ko. kaya iniisip ko hindi reason na kaya ako tumaba kasi mahal ako ni bf or masarap kumain or madaming pambili ng food. kelangan kong maging disiplinado kasi its not healthy to be fat. tsaka ang hirap pumili ng bagay na damit kapag mataba.  kelangan malaman lang ayaw ko rin naman ng payat, parang tinik kaya sa kama pag payat, nakakatusok tapos wala pang boobs at butt.

[Bubblin]

I don't think it's all about the body;it's all about the face AND the body for guys

[silverlilac]

^i agree. given a choice, i think guys would go for someone who has the face+built ni Queen Latifah than someone with the same combo ala Pokwang 

[sheh-la22]

< sakin kung ako ang guy

mahalaga sakin ang personality or GOOD VALUES, malinis sa katawan as in #1, maganda skin,yung tipong masaya kasama, yung marunong mag ayos ng sarili...kahit chubby.. sakin ok yon....

kase sa di ko nilalahat ha, yung nakikita kong ibang fat girl, lousy manamit or di na nag aayos ng sarili....

pero sana kahit mataba sya, wag naman nya ipapakita na sa harap ko na sobrang takaw sya, as in mas malakas pa sakin kumain. like 1 cup rice ako tapos makikita ko yung sa kanya nasa isang buong plato ng kanin...kase nagpapakita lang sya ng walang disiplina sa sarili

[spartan]

^OMG lmao!

funny siguro panoorin yun. 1 plate rice ng ka-date mo.

[ishko]

pano kung kunyari lang konti ang kinakain nya pero after ng date nyo ang lakas palang kumain.. lol

it is really accepted that fat girls are not pleasing to the eyes.. men are very physical..

[sheh-la22]

naalala ko yung naka date kong guy hehe

na turn off ako kase date namin ang lakas kumain, e galang na galang ako nung hehe tapos nung kumain sya 3 ulam at halos mapuno na ng food ang plate nya

[chengkii]

^ Baka naman eat all you can sis. Eh gusto lang masulit iyun binayad. Hahaha

[purplerainne]

My bestfriend's ex-bf ay ipinagpalit si bestfriend sa fat girl as in fat... Sa description nga eh may fold na daw sa siko. hahaha

Hindi pa rin ako nakaka get-over na ipinagpalit si bestfriend dun sa fat girl nga yun. Bestfriend is tall, and a great body. 6 yrs yung relationship nila and all of a sudden dahil sa fat girl na yun, iniwan si bestfriend nung guy. Eh dati nga ako na chubby eh di ko maisip na magugustuhan ako ng isang katulad nung ex-bf ni bestfriend tapos biglang mas malala pa pala yung trip nya. LOL

[Evo29]

Si bf naiinis pag naglolose ako ng weight, ayaw nya nararamdaman mga buto-buto ko sa katawan mas gusto daw nya may napipisil. Lahat ng naging gfs nya in the past slim figure ako lang yung chubby pero proportion parin naman ( and i'm his longest relationship 4yrs and counting;)..)

[pomegranate]

Di ako guy, but I think slim talaga over fat. Weighing scale ko ang LRT2: Every time I begin to gain weight then eventually become fat, wala talaga as in nada nag-oofer sa akin ng seat kahit ang dami ko pang dala, kahit magblentong-blentong pa ako dedma sila. Ngayon na I gain back my figure, hala kabila't kanan may offer e ang dami naman babaeng nakatayo. Kahit pati saan, sa institutions or sa stores, it is easier to get small favors and they would go out of their way. Pero siguro, ano rin lang yan, if you know you are sexy, you'll feel sexy and act more confidently.

[jennifur]

My boyfriend's a part-time model and a bodybuilder and I'm obese. Like 200lbs obese.
It doesn't matter to him that I am fat. He even calls me sexy all the time. Hahaha.

Basta you know lang how to take care of your man, you'll be fine.

[Evo29]

Basta you know lang how to take care of your man, you'll be fine.

I am so agree with this sis! It's so impotant that we really know how to take care of our man.

And syempre lalo na sarili din naten. As long as you know how take care of youself, put a little effort to be beautiful all time, you'll look and feel confident no matter what size you are in.