my turn. here's my story:
mar. 13: told my husband it would be great to give birth mar. 15, 2015 kasi parang parang feng shui. syempre sinama ko pa itong part na to di ba. but I think nadinig ako ni baby.
mar. 14: I have been feeling several contractions but I think they're just BH contractions since nakakasalita pa ako. just about 3x siguro that day. but I knew it felt different.
mar. 15: at 930am may contraction na. then 1030am ulit. then 1130am. although I can still talk through it, it felt different from BH contractions. was supposed to stay at home dahil madami pa pending work that week. my brother was inviting us for lunch dahil birthday ng anak nya. nagcancel na kami pero susunduin nila ang anak ko para sya na lang ang sumama. but I had a little bloody show na before 12 kaya I told them sama na kami sa trinoma. baka kailangan ko pa kasi maglakad lakad. my family would be there and since sa kanila rin naman ako tatakbo dahil doon malapit ang lying inn clinic ng tita ko ok lang na magkakasama na rin kami. so I drove my family to trinoma. ok lang naman. may one time na contraction, I just slowed down...
1pm nasa trinoma na kami having lunch. may contractions pa rin. sometimes every 30 mins, meron din every 5 mins. I called my tita and she told me to go to my Mom's house na rin. (that was actually my plan. to spend the early labor at my Mom's. at kapag super magkakalapit na ang contractions saka kami pupunta sa clinic.)
330pm: we decided na mauna na sa bahay ng mama ko kasama sya. me praying na hindi ako abutan ng matinding contraction sa edsa since I am driving. husband doesn't drive as he has a blind side. nakarating naman kami without any problems.
4pm: nasa bahay na kami ng mama ko. parang 15mins apart na ang contractions. the husband coaches me on every one of them.
430pm: we went to my tita's clinic since nagkita kami sa compound. i-IE nya daw ako. I was 2-3 cm dilate. sa isip ko lang nun ang tagal ko pa. baka madaling araw pa ako manganak.
5pm: went back sa bahay ng mama ko to wait for active labor talaga.
8pm: 3-5 mins apart na ang contractions. medyo kinakabahan na ako kasi malapit na. but at the same time excited dahil malapit ko na makita ang baby ko.
830pm: my brother dropped us off sa clinic ng tita ko. pag-IE nya sa kin 3-4cm daw ako. she asked me to try to push a bit. when I pushed, pumutok na ang panubigan ko. nasa table nya ako sa clinic, wala pa kami sa delivery room table kaya nagkalat talaga. medyo naginhawahan ako after that. we walked to the delivery room and the contractions became more intense. I remained standing beside the delivery table para bumaba pa si baby.
9pm: I started pushing. nakahiga kasi ako kaya everytime na magstop ako magpush, bumabalik. so nilagyan nila ako ng bigkis and the midwife also helped with the pushing. honestly, ayoko ng may nagpupush sa ibabaw ko pero at the time, anything that can make it faster, ok na sa akin. I want to see my baby!!!
926pm: baby out na. they placed her on my tummy while the midwife tried to dry her. sayang lang nalimutan ng tita ko na gusto namin si husband ang magcut ng cord.
the whole thing was unmedicated. hindi ako ininduce, no anesthesia except for novaine ba yun? na ininject lang sa braso ko. mas masakit pa ang contractions noong may pampa-induce (this was the case with my eldest). pero nung malapit na sya lumabas there's this little hint inside me na wrong decision yata ako. parang hindi ko kakayanin yata. pero after lumabas ni baby, it was all worth it.
