FIRST LOVE

[health.gal]

first love.

i met him 1997, we were both 15. we belong to the same Church group (same with our parents). we were not close friends, just a hi-hello acquaintance. not a love-at-first sight thing. i had a different crush, and i heard that he liked someone else. i didn't care, he didn't exist. october 1998, a cousin of mine (who happens to be his close friend) told me that he likes me. didn't care again (ows?), but i started to "notice" him. caught him staring at me several times (later on did he reveal that this is what he called as the tiger look, aka, a tactic to make me notice him). then i began to be conscious. november 1998, he finally asked permission if he can court me. i said no. bata pa ako, pakipot kuno. december 1998, he persisted courting and gave me his first love letter. i still have it with me now. actually i still have ALL of his letters with me. i consider these my treasures. since then, he started regularly fetching me twice a week so we could attend our Church services together. finally, may 7, 1999, we were 16 turning 17, i gave him my sweet "yes". i didn't plan anything, i just felt that it was time. he waited for so many months. my mom was so furious. i was supposed to be a sweet 16 teenage girl, but i already had a boyfriend. it only took him a few months to win my mother's heart. he confessed that i was his first ever girlfriend, and the first girl he ever courted, and the first *** (now its up to you to interpret that). it took me a while to believe him. he was also my first. the rest is history....a sweet history. our relationship had its own trials. we both went through difficult times due to being immature. teens! but, we never broke up, we never cooled off, i never had a third-party issue with him (faithful nga ba or magaling magtago? haha). we both believed that all couples quarrel, but every after quarrel, we still love each other. september 2010, he proposed marriage. it was a bit early than i expected. next year, 2012, we're tying the knot. i never stop praying, thanking God for giving me my first, one and only, and last Love. 

P.S. wanna share my story even if this topic is under the "breakups" thread. it just feel good to reminisce about the past.

[faithful and loyal]

about my first love..
 After i graduated in h.skul, i decided na magst0p muna ng 1 year..pero nung malapit na pasukan,nainggit ako..so kahit an0ng course nalang makapasok lang ako. Den nakakita tita ko ng tesda dito sa binan,so inenrol nya ko dun.gulat nga ako kasi nakapg enrol ako ng di ako kasama ng mama ko kasi ko pa mag take ng exam..wel nakapasok pdin ako dahil d pa naman puno [textspeak!] sectiion. Den un nag aaral nako,aksidente naman na nagka celphone ako kasi pinatago sakin ni mama cp ng papa ko,stka sira hehe.pag hawak ko dun sa cp,buo kaya! Un ako n muna gumamit patago sa papa ko.
Eto na..1st nstp namin nun,sama sama lahat ng 1st year..sabi ng guard wag na pumasok sa loob ng campus,tigas ulo ko pumasok pa din ako,kasama ko pa friend ko nun'nag sama pa ko kahit hindi sya nag aaral dun'. Un n nga may narinig ako na tumawa,so pahiya ako:( d ko na tinignan kung sino sya.
Then,uso nun [textspeak!] METEOR GARDEN..3210 pa cp ko nun e gustong gusto ko [textspeak!] wallpaper nung MG..kaso mahal P30..
One day,kinuha nang klasymt ko [textspeak!] number ko,duda ako kasi di naman kami close,pero naisip ko baka lahat kame kinuhaan nya cp..
while waiting for the next subject..may nagpapadala sakin ng wallpaper ng MG.natuwa naman ako pero confused padin,sinu un?! Pag uwi ko haus ganun pa din,intriguing!!
Another comes,nagtxt na sya SHAWN daw name nya..aKO APPLEBERRY ata binigay kong name ko.then un na text text na kame sabi nya matanda na daw sya etc,etc!
[textspeak!] classmate ko tinan0ng n nya ako kung may nagtetext na daw sakin,dun sa discription nya iba sa pagkaka kilala ko dun kay shawn..sabi ko nalang bakit mo binigay no. Ko ? Sabi nya problemado daw,nagtampo ako kasi bakit ako?
[textspeak!] na revelation na mga sis!!:D
one morning,kakapasok ko palang sa canteen ako napatapat..natawag sya:D so syempre sinagot ko..sabi nya nakikita nya daw ako! Ha?! Panu nangyari un:i sabi nya tingin ka sa harapan mu..una palingö lingon pa ko,bulls eye!! Binaba ko agad [textspeak!] phone,muntik na nga ata mahulog cp ko,sa taranta! Un na nagkikita na ..LOVE AT FIRST [textspeak!]!ang dame köng naipong candy nun makita lang sya...hay! Den nyakag na nya kong mag date,dinala nya ko sa fishingfort.humingi ako ng sign,pag tinan0ng nya un magiging kame:) and  pagkaupo namin dun..hahaha tinan0ng nya nga! Super kilig,pero natapos paguusap namin hndi nya sinabi 'puwede ba kong mang ligaw:'( ' pauwi na kam ang lungkot ko talaga!
While waiting sa jip,bumili sYA M AND M 2, at softdrinks. Pagsakay namin ng jip..whahahahawhahaha ask nya ko if pwde daw manligaw:D speechles:I sabi ko nlang pwd! Papakipot pa ba ako,e mahal ko na sya! End [textspeak!] pinagtawanan ako e sya un dun nya ko una nakita,kaya kinuha nya n0. Ko sa frnd nya na klasmyt ko.
 Too long na story ko..hehe
ending naging kame 11 days lan..di ko na kayang patagalin
now 8yrs na kame.. At may pinagdadaan na sana,ang ending Ako pa din,At Kame pa din sa huli:'( lagi naLang kasi sya nangbabae,eto na pinakamatindi eh. Parbng makakabitako masakit na kasi..sya na kasi talag e.FIRST LOVE KO IS LAST!!
Pahabol...naging mag asawa kame kasi nabuntis ako last 2008..but n0t married plan plang naman dp alam if matutuloy kasi nga may other w0man at 13yrs at alaga ko pa..nag alaga ahas..hira kasi 1st ko sya sa lahat! Naging faithful at loyal naman ako.sana it would end up na kami parin..jerick real name nya hes  26 and im  25..katapat bb kaya ang sakit..sya pa matapang pagdating nya daw ng right age aagawin nya daw talaga sakin si jerick.sila pa din kaya problemado pa ko at patuloy padin [textspeak!] pain:( MAHALNAMAHAL JERICK:(

[simplecathy143]

my first love..

2nd year high school ako nung mga panahong yun.. classmate kami at madalas na seatmate..
paborito akong asarin, then one day bigla na lang syang nagbiro kung pwede daw bang manligaw..
waah syempre deadma pa ko nun dahil alam kong malakas lang talaga siyang mang asar..
tapos bigla na lang sila ang naging magseatmate ng bestfriend ko so akala ko yun naman
yung pinopormahan nia nung mga panahong yun, yun pala nagpapalakad at nagpapalakas lang ang loko.. haha.. tapos grabe halos whole day nia kong kinukulit at tanong ng tanong kung pwede daw ba.. syempre bata pa ko nung panahong so ang sabi ko na lang bahala sya.. wahaha..
ayun palagi na nia kong hinihintay tuwing uwian, libre tuwing break time tapos minsan naman pag di nia ko nahahatid siya ang nagbibigay ng pamasahe ko pauwi.. kaso lang bigla siyang tumigil dahil deadma nga lang ako at nafifeel nia yata na parang wala siyang pag asa.. so ayun ayos lang sakin dahil wala pa naman talaga kong pananaw dun..

then after a month bigla na naman siya ulit nagparamdam, malapit na matapos yung mga school year nun eh.. lagi na naman nia ko hinahatid pag uwi tapos pag my mga praktis naman sinusundo nia ko.. then one time bigla na lang sya humirit na "sa 3rd year ko na lang itutuloy yung panliligaw ko ah" haha.. natawa na lang ako nung binaggit niya yun.. tapos bago mag school vacation ginawan nia ko ng poem na my title na "Amazing You" with matching ring pa.. wahaha, syempre kinilig ako nun.. so ayun feeling ko tuloy nafofall na ko sakanya, kaso natatakot ako eh.. kasi ang motto ko dati "My first will be my last" 

then ayun na nga pagdating na nung 3rd year hindi na kame magclassmate pero sinimulan na naman niya ang panliligaw nia saken, hatid pag uwi.. dala ng gamit, libre tuwing breaktime.. pero ayun pakipot pa din ang lola mo.. although kung magtreat kaming dalawa eh parang kami na.. he always sending me a love letter nakakatuwa talaga.. kaso ayun one day nung ready na sana akong sagutin sya bigla nlan sya nagsabe na magstop na daw siya manligaw.. unahin na lang daw muna nia ang studies.. awwwts kaya yun.. parang ewan lang.. after nun halos hindi na kami nagpapansinan dalawa.. parang hindi magkakilala..  tapos ilang months after ayun nalaman ko na may gf na pala siya..

pero ayun parang naging okay ulit kami nung 4th yr high skul.. parang naging sweet ulit siya sakin though hindi na pwede maging kamin dahil may bf na ko.. parang he treat me na lang as a special friend.. keep sending me an love letter and mga sweet stuff.. pero hindi na niya ko hinahatid nun.. sya pa nga yung partner ko sa js eh.. pero that time single na ko dahil hindi nagwork ang LDR ako gang 9 months lang ang kinaya  natuwa ako kasi ako pa din yung naging inspiration sa pag aaral nia at pinagyayabang nia sakin na nia na TOP 2 sa klase nila.. akala nga ng buong klase nila na kaming 2 eh.. pero ang totoo parang M.U. lang talaga kami dahil hindi naman siya nanliligaw..

after 3yrs na walang balita sa isa't isa ayun nagkakamustahan kami through fs.. posted ng mga caring kowts, messages at etc.. tapos minsan nagseset kamin ng araw na magcha2t kaming 2.. nakakatuwa nga eh.. pero kahit ganun kami wala pa din kaming commitment.. parang enjoy lang kami kung anung meron kami.. inamin din naman nia sakin na ako pa din yung mahal nia at natatakot daw kasi siya na baka masira yung friendship namin 2.. pero after 2 yrs naging kami din dalawa.. lahat ng mga classmate nung high school pag nakikita kaming 2 na magkasama laging sinsabe na ang tatag daw namin dahil kami pa din.. haha.. at laging sinasabi na perfect couple daw kami.. but sad to say hindi naging perfect yung relationship namin..  at pareho naming first love ang isa't isa.. we only lasted for just two months.. ang saklap dba? kung bakit, ayun may ginawa siyang kalokohan.. i forgive him pero ayun di nagtagal he asked me to let him go..

and now we're living our lives seperately..  we are both happy with our partners now

[candid_girl]

share ko lang mga sis!

my first love is when I was in my 6 grade (grabe bata ko palang may bf na ako), then after we graduated and move to high school w/c same school din kami that was also are relationship last, no formal break up kami nun dahil nawala sya at nagtransfer ng school,then on my 3rd year bumalik sya ulit sa school na pinapasukan ko then doon inexplain bakit sya nawala dahil his parent got separated so he move to the province. then after that we graduated wala na we separete our way. Now, i have my own family na, btw I am 30 yo na pla but since then hindi sya nawawala sa isip ko. I donno why, meron din bang nakakaexperience sa inyo nito? tas last night napanaginipan ko sya bumalik ulit sya kaya lang its too late dahil my family na ako w/c i cried in my dreams so hard. nakakaloka lang bakit my ganun factor. I tried many times to searched in FS, FB walang sign na makakabalita ako sa knya. sana he is okay lang at masaya sya sa family nya kung meron man sya.

[andygirl]

My first love, I still think of him everyday and every night kahit iba ang katabi kong matulog Nakakapagod na

[aquacharly]

First love.   

ayoko maging karibal ni God.
 then nag decide na sya iwan ang seminaryo FOR ME!! kaso pag balik nya sa church wala na daw ako,
.kaso sabi ko "hinitay din kita kaso may mahal na ko ngayon, at di ko sya kaya iwan o saktan". Tinapos namin yung conversation na nag iiyakan kame, siguro talagang hinde lang kame for each other

sya at sya paren ang naaalala ko pag naririnig ko ang kantang "heaven knows". Naaalala ko paren ang kilig at mata nya.. kaso hanggang doon nalang ata

What a beautiful story.  Thanks for sharing.  I wish you both find your way back to each other.   Tama ka -- hwag mo nang hanapin. Kung meant to be, it will happen.  You both met under good 
circumstances --in the service of God & community --  if you will be good  for  each other -- God will make it happen.   

God bless

[aquacharly]

next year, 2012, we're tying the knot. i never stop praying, thanking God for giving me my first, one and only, and last Love. 

P.S. wanna share my story even if this topic is under the "breakups" thread. it just feel good to reminisce about the past.

It is heartening to know of first loves that survive the immaturity   of youth, as well as first loves that successfully hurdle trials of life (parents, school, etc etc., growing up pains, etc etc   . ).

[snowhite_12]

I was 15. he was 13. he was so innocent and ako din.
He looks like a grade 5 coz baby face talaga and so cute.
one of the most special thing he did to me was lagi siya mag on air late at night sa isang sikat na radio station before para mag comment sa topic and then mag great sa akin and during church camps he used to make a love message for me and let our facilitator read it out load to everybody. awwww!!!! kinilig ang bruha at that time.
anyways, that was more than 10 years ago and we both moved on.
Sometimes nakikita ko siya and hindi na siya cute.mukha na siyang addict! nyak!

[candid_girl]

My first love, I still think of him everyday and every night kahit iba ang katabi kong matulog Nakakapagod na

Right, ako din my instances na naiisip ko even i am happily married and my anak na kami, is it normal sa mga hindi nakatuluyan ang kanilang 1st love?

[KaraVT]

First Love -- I was 15;  he was 17.    I was living with my uncle & aunt since my  father had a foreign assignment. 

I was so in love  with him;  he was still searching around.   To cut the story short... When my parents found out we were into premarital sex I was put under tight guarding.  Extremely tight guarding.  Eventually,     it  just took too much effort  to continue the relationship.  We drifted apart.

Recently, we re-connected, for the first time since we last met up.    It was rather strange, to realize  that though we were so intense then, we were practically strangers now.  I cannot recapture the feelings I had for him then. Logically, I know it must have been intense.   But a  part of me remembers that it was more a hurtful experience than an enjoyable one.  Is that human nature? -- The heart holds on last to the hurts?  Perhaps that explains my reluctance to meet up face-to-face.   

We are each married to  wonderful people; we both each have a pair of precious kids.   Can we be just friends now, he asks, for old times' sake.  Just friends.  I am afraid to risk it.

[she051501]

ganun ba talaga pag first love di mo talaga nakakalimutan .. natawa talaga ako di pala ako nagiisa kasi last time lang i was riding in a jeep then suddenly nakita ko yung first love ko nagdadrive ng isang pick up ..malapit na ko bumaba ayun lumagpas ako dahil sa kanay  ..naexcite yata masyado at humaba ang leeg ko nakalimutan na pumara .. grabe ang tagal na nung naging kami that was year 1995 ... and thankful na rin na naging kami kasi because of him nameet ko ang best friend ko and yung mga friends nya naging friends ko na rin until now ..

[annika]

First Love?

Late Bloomer ako eh kase bawal pa i think 19 ako nun unang bf ko highschool palang nanliligaw na pero dedma ako kase hindi ko siya gusto maliit na parang duwag and turnoff kase ako kung paano siya magtext kaya nakipagbreak ako sa kanya wala pa 1 week 

First Love 19 years old din barkada ko siya and at the same time crush na din nagumpisa sa inom hangang sa nagkiss and then kami na Aug 31 eh since yung ibang month walang 31 iniisip ko magcelebrate kami tuwing 30 or 1 eh first love kaya ayun sobrang naiilang pa ako sa lahat, 2nd month namin ang cold na niya sobra tapos kapag tinatawagan ang daming alibi hanggang sa umamin siya may third party sobrang galit ko lahat ng barkada namin na lalaki inaway ko din hehe tapos bitter bitteran pa ako na nung nakita ko siya sa birthday ng barkada namin pagkauwi namin tinawagan ko pa para sabihin na hindi na ako galit LOL yung girl na pinalit niya sa akin mataba na mayaman (bitter) yun nadin yung naging wife niya and may baby na sila ngayon unfortunately hindi na ganun ka rich yung girl, and nun nagkareunion kami (wala pa silang anak and hindi pa sila magasawa) kapag nag ccr yung babae nagpaparinig siya na "kamusta na" dedma naman ako kunyari hindi ko siya nadidinig.. masaya na masakit.. first love talaga ang hirap! mas matagal ko pa siya iniyakan kesa naging kami 

[Foodict]

My first and true love.

Met her 10 years ago. We became a couple in less than a year then engaged for the last 6 years. We broke up at the start of this year. She had drifted apart from me and couldnt get herself to the next level of commitment. She said she would've probably been unfaithful to me eventually. Labo no? I was faithful and devoted to her for the whole time we were together. She's a decent girl and she's taken responsibility for the mess but my guts tell me shes having an extended mid-life crisis. Too bad our relationship became collateral damage. Still, Im hoping for the best.

[HoldingOn]

my first love... we were teenagers. we were each others first in almost everything. after more than a decade, things just didn't work out. the other night, i was with my friends, sobbing, and i told them "ang sakit sakit kasi first heartbreak ko ito"! then a friend jokingly said "naks naman! parang teenager lang ha. first heartbreak talaga!" made me giggle. im already turning 30 

[aquacharly]

^you are soooo cute! 1st heartbreak & not yet 30. 

  I just turned 30... Have kids... Have passed through a terrible terrible time in our marriage --   na dapat hindi na ever maulit ulit.... Or else,  hindi nga sya 1st Love ko, but hubby will  become my 1st Crime Victim... lolz

[Foodict]

^aquacharly

ROFL. Give him ample warning.

[mishyewarians]

my 1st love...
we were together since 1st-4th yr highschool. then we separated nung pumasok sya sa PMA. I waited for him to come back, till 1 day I heard that he's courting our highschool classmate na patay na patay sa kanya nung kami pa.wala na akong nagawa.when I heard they're going to get married 2002, i really cried.my bestfriend was the one who informed me via phone, wala ako nasabi kundi " parang sinabihan mo na rin akong wag na kong huminga".
then the ff yr, i started dating a guy who happens to be my husband now. siguro, sya talaga send ni lord for me.
but i still cant forget my 1st syempre, now i heard major na sya.when i hear the song "first love never dies" super naaalala ko sya talaga.

[bangs29]

  we were schoolmates nun HS. i was 14 and he was 17. ang nangyare, yun classmate niya friend ko. ngayon yung friend ko na yun kinulit siya kasi wala gf, pero di ko alam na ako yun nireto. nalaman ko nalang nun bakasyon na (going 4th year na ko nun), he called my house, tapos yun nga gusto niya ng date, pumayag naman ako. tapos ok naman yun kinalabasan, first date ko kaya medyo kabado ako. we went to a mall bought cd's and tshirt tapos eat then watch movie. after nun he keeps calling my house na, then he did visit me on my house para makilala ng parents ko. kay mama ok lang kasi mapera ang family, si papa ayaw kasi baby pa daw ako (lol). then, di ko na pinatagal gusto ko maexperience magka bf, sinagot ko at ako naman ang dumalaw sa house nila. ok naman din, wala namang problema. tapos nun nag 4th year na ko lumipat siya ng ibang school. nahigpitan kasi siya dun sa school namen nung nagpalit ng parish priest/head master. tinanong niya ako one time, since di na kami schoolmates, mejo malayo ng konti yun house nila sa amen, pano tayo magkikita? o ilang beses tayo magkikita in 1 week. ako naman si lady ga** sagot ko pwede na siguro once a month. nagulat siya, pero ako di ko na gets ano kinagulat niya. pumayag din siya once a month, mga after 4 months sabi niya yun cp niya nasira, at busy siya sa dota. ako naman ok lang sige, after 3 months walang communication nagtext ako sa ate niya, hinanap ko siya. sumagot naman biniro ko, break na tayo coz i don't love you na, sumagot ang loko na ok!!! ayun iyak tawa ako sa nangyari after. huli kong balita, after me nag ka gf i mean bumalik ang utak niya sa earth (nagising na sa pagkalulong sa dota) after 2 years, now they have 2 kids na pero he has no plans on marrying her gf.(according to him, na sinabi niya sa friend niya na friend ko din) biruin niyo it could've been me kung seryoso at di ako eengot engot nuon. ha ha ha

[ayami]

iniisip ko tuloy kung kelangan ex boyfriend ang first love habang nag ba-back read ako. hindi ko rin kinoconsider yung mga crushes ko na first love ko.

wala akong ex boyfriend so ang tinuturing kong first (and hopefully last) love ko yung asawa ko. 15 ako nun, 16 sya. 9 months agwat namin at 4th high school kami noong naging "kami". bawal din ako magboyfriend noon pero alam pa ba ng magulang ko diba? bawal din sa school namin ang relationships technically though talamak yon. yung iba nirereport sa Prefect of Discipline kesyo kakausapin nila etc. di ko akalaing magiging boyfriend ko siya (nor magkakaroon ako ng boyfriend) kasi masyado akong masungit. pero iba yung sa kanya kasi naging crush ko siya. actually, crush siya ng barkada ko. naimpluwensyahan lang ata ako e. charismatic kasi siya, tapos masyado pang mabait sa lahat ng classmates to the point na yung iba iniisip nila gusto rin niya sila. akala ko ganon lang din siya ka-friendly sakin kasi namimigay sya ng prepaid load cards and so many goodies to most people na ginagawa lang din nya sakin. Pero salamat sa YM at Sun Cellular, naging close kami more than classroom interactions.

ibang girl yung niligawan nya at that time openly with matching boquet of flowers and HUGE teddy bear (define huge talaga). kaklase din namin yun, so ayun wasak ang feeling ko kasi while he's flirting with me online, unaware ako na nililigawan nya si classmate.

nireject siya ni classmate, which led to an opening. up to now, iniisip ko ako si "rebound girl" talaga eh. di naman nya nababanggit sa akin nor napaguusapan yung rejection sa kanya, pero we kept on chatting gabi-gabi, texting on weekends and before/after going to school on weekdays. syempre umaasa akong may mangyayari. I made the first move siguro by talking about my interest in watching the Tagalong dubbed version of "My Sassy Girl" (Korean movie). sinabi ko yung plans ko na manood with a friend, who cancelled kasi busy sya (which hindi naman). sabi nya, wala naman siya gagawin on that Saturday and high school "sem break" naman, so why not sumama sya. tinanong nya yung movie sched, tsaka venue. nagkasundo kami to watch it together and to meet up the next day. kinansela ko sa friend ko yung plans namin kasi may chance ako to watch it with my crush. yun siguro first date namin, haha.

to cut the story short kasi uber haba na, 26 days after that movie, naging kami thru text. awkward syempre kasi wala yung conventional ligawan. nagulat na lang mga kaklase namin at kami na. he showered me with gifts din (buti ako na yung GF nung Christmas at Valentine's day) pero there are times na nagdoubt ako kung ayun, rebound nga ako or type nya ko. Syempre, iniinsist nyang type nya rin ako noon at di ako yung niligawan nya dahil we're not friends to begin with. sige na nga, isipin ko na rin na ganon. mga 3 months ding tago sa parents ko yung relationship namin until nabuko ako ni mother. afterwards, nagmeet parents namin nung family day, etc.

7 years na, kami pa rin. 2 years na kaming kasal.

[pinkmallowpie]

kapag ba nagkikita kayo ulit ng first love nyo after how many years of no communications, do you still feel something for them? bumabalik ba yun dating nararamdaman nyo para sa kanila o hindi na? may kilig pa rin ba?