DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[annia_co]

Big no for me

[purplegravity]

For me, it' a No.

[redhead69]

If both of you really moved on. Why not?
If both of you had the worst break up(cursing,humiliating each other, below the belt insults), nah being friend with your ex will never work out.

[purple.strawberry]

Depende anong cause ng breakup and how much time has passed since the two of us split up. If he was an assh*le to me, bakit pa di ba. On the other hand if nabaon na sa past ang issues and bitter feelings, then pwede naman.

If meron ng partner I'll be careful naman na hanggang casual friends lang.

[simang]

We were talking about this kanina. It was a very candid conversation, kase we don't normally talk about our exes. They're never a topic of our usual conversation, so tinanong ko my guy this question. He told me that he doesn't see anything wrong with befriending an ex, but for his present's peace of mind (aka my peace of mind), he prefers not to be friends with them. He even said na dun lang naman nagkakaproblem, if you remained friends with your ex, mapapraning lang yung present and pagseselosan lang, and pagsisimulan lang ng away. So for everyone's benefit, hindi na lang daw.

Wala kaming problems with our exes. Never naman ako napraning or nagselos with any of his exes as for me they're nonexistent. Pero I found his answer very sensitive of him to actually think about how I would feel about it.

[SarSi_Em]

after months of being bff with my ex, my answer now is NO, di sya ok.

mahal ko pa rin sya, andun pa rin yung connections at nagseselos pa rin ako if may ka flirt sya na iba o kahit yung sa ex nya na lagi namin topic. so, mas ok wala na lang alam. sguro hi and hello but definitely not maging friends. di healthy for me.

[Miss.Pancake]

Depends sa character ng Ex ko. May mga Ex na okay maging friend may mga hindi.

[fredprinz]

A friend, yes. But not a super close friend. But I can't give my 100% trust na, lalo na kung alam ko naman na hindi ako nagkulang sa kanya.

[blackgreen]

It depends. Kung okay naman kami naghiwalay, okay lang na maging friend pero not the super close friend. Tsaka iisipin ko kung magiging comfortable ba bf ko ngayun kung magiging friend ako sa ex ko.

[guia01]

No No No.  Why would I want to be friends with someone who hurt me?  #bitter 

[zelda]

It's not out of bitterness or what, but I think you choose to be friends with someone. And, I don't think gugustuhin ko silang maging kaibigan. Ganun lang.

[graZiousa]

For me depende sa klaseng tao ng X hehe... I had 2 bf then my 3rd bf is my hubby now. Dun sa unang bf, I preferred not to be friend with him, period. sa 2nd X, friend kami kasi classmate and friend kami bago naging kami hehe... pag nagkikita kita kami magbabatch andun si X, ok lang naman...depende din kasi sa klase ng tao.

[Queen Chokolah]

Civil, maybe. depende pa rin ito sa klase ng tao ng ex ko. Friends? No.

Usap usap pa rin naman, kamustahan pag nagkasalubong, nakikibagay pag nagkita sa isang gathering. (kaya nga civil eh) pero friends? No.

[Vylette13]

Sa akin din NO kasi minsan andun pa din yung regrets na bakit hindi kayo nagkatuluyan o bakit kailangan nyo maghiwalay. Saka mas mabuti na lang yung hindi kayo friends o parang civil lang talaga at least walang mangyayari na sumbatan o bitterness.
Saka meron din ako ex na gusto maging friends kami kaso nga lang gusto may benefits. Hindi naman pwede yun na makikinabang pa siya sa akin after ng mga kasalanan nya sa akin. Db mga sis?

[baliwsayo]

No. Friends pa din kami ni ex kasi magkabatch kami nun HS. Ayun, di siya tuloy maka-move on eh.. pati tuloy ako nahihirapan at naguguluhan na. I don't want him back kasi iikot na naman lang.. magkakasakitan din lang ulit tska I am so over him na (ang alam ko ha hahaha) kaso minsan nagugulo utak ko pag nagpapaka-sobrang cheesy siya. Hmp.

[pumpkin13]

It depends on how the relationship ended. I am good friends with an ex. We broke up in 2006 pa. We became friends a year after the relationship ended. He had a new girlfriend then, I had a new boyfriend. Then we cut our communication kasi nagseselos yun then-gf nya. As a respect, lumayo ako. Sa boyfriend ko naman walang issue kasi he trusted me naman. Tapos ex and I resumed our communication years after. Kwentuhan lang and hingian ng advice if something goes wrong since kilala naman namin ang isat isa. Then last August, he migrated to the US. Nag uusap pa din kami. He would call almost every day through Skype and Viber. Pareho na kami single ngayon tapos nagjojoke na lang kami na kami na lang ulit. Pero it was a pure joke kasi aminado kami na wala na talaga feelings. We just found a very dear friend in each other.

As for my most recent ex, di ko ata kayang makipagfriends talaga kasi I was cheated on. It was devastating. We are trying to be friends, pero ang hirap talaga. Nauuwi sa away kasi nasasaktan ako tapos sya medyo insensitive. So instead of walking on eggshells around each other, I decided to just move on and leave it all behind. Maybe in time, maybe years from now pag hindi na ko nasasaktan and wala na ko pakialam kahit magkaron na sya ng iba, pede pa siguro maging friends. Pero ngayon naiisip ko na magkaka gf na sya ng bago, para ko sinasaksak. 

[stronger]

ayaw ko kaya lang me baby kami.:-( but i'm planning na pag finacially stable na ko aalis na lang kami ng baby ko, di na ko magpapaalam kung san kami nagpunta.ang hirap eh.

[twix01]

Pareho na kami single ngayon tapos nagjojoke na lang kami na kami na lang ulit. Pero it was a pure joke

kinilig ako dito sis srsly!


nway, ako sa last x ko i would love to pero parang 50-50 din mhirap na masakit pa din yon:(

[pumpkin13]

^ Haha! Talaga sis? Bakit ako hindi? Hahahahaha! Pero masaya pag nakakausap mo na ng ganyan ang ex. Yung simple lang lahat. Pag may crush ako sinasabi ko din sa kanya. Tapos magjojoke sya na alam na daw nya mga type ko, matangkad, gwapo... kasi katulad din daw nya. Kapal lang. Haha!

Sa kanya ko din nakwento yung tungkol sa most recent breakup ko. Umiiyak ako through Skype. Tapos sya tumatawa. Ampangit ko daw kasi maga na mata ko. Pero at the same time, nagttype sya ng messages sa chat. Dun nya sinasabi ng seryoso yun mga advice nya and opinion and yun mga power words nya para sakin. Natouch ako dun. Tapos pag nakaharap ako sa video, nagmamake face sya, aasarin nya ko na brokenhearted na naman daw ako. In fairness, tumatawa naman ako.

[erza0916]

Hmmm I dont know. Kasi naman 1 of my exs eh naging barkada pa ni husband kahit alam nyang ex ko yun. May pagka sinister din pala sya. Keep your friends close and enemies closer. Haha

my other ex naging friend ko when I was abroad kasi coincidence naman na nandun sya. Pero as friends lang talaga. Hindi namin inisip na exs kami. I helped him court my other friend pa nga eh. Naturally my husband found out and nagalit sya so we suddenly became strangers. He understood naman.

Siguro dahil isa lang naman ang ex ni hubby and lesbian na sya ngayon so I guess ok lang. Hahaha pero hate ko yung girl na unang sexual experience nya (hindi nya naging gf.like fwb sila noon) Yun mapapatay ko pag nakita ko. Grrrr