DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[Miss.Pancake]

Ako wala akong choice but to be in good terms with my exboyfriend. Nasa kanya kasi yun daughter namin. 

And i have to admit mahal ko parin siya na to the point willing talaga ako kahit friends man lang.

[-munchkins12-]

I WANT to. Yung ibang ex ko nakakausap ko naman. Yung iba hindi ko na nakita. Yung isa naman e naka BLOCK ako sa FB niya. He doesnt want to talk to me anymore. It's his decision so I respect it. =)

paano sis if naka block ka sa kanila then one day he sent you a friend request. Ang weird lang.

[wanna_be_mom]

i keep coming back to my ex. we've been in a relationship for 7 years before we broke up, because we always end up fighting even in small things

I found a guy last 2012 who has 3 children. and every time we fought about how his family treated me I end up contacting my ex and at the end of the day pumupunta ako sa kanila.

there was a time na may gf na sya na dinadala nya sa bahay nila pero dahil sinabi ko na babalikan ko sya they broke up and nung nagka ayos na naman kami ng bf ko now nag hihiwalay din kami..

now we end up civil and everytime i saw him. nasasaktan ako..

i still love him.. and now I am torn because my bf now is very very understanding.. he can even stand when I had my tantrums..

[SarSi_Em]

2 weeks since last ko sya nakasama, and one week pa lang na no communication
pero parang ang tagal tagal na di ko sya nakakausap. umiiyak pa rin ako pag naalala ko sya.

ok sana maging friends pa rin kami dahil nag start talaga na bff ko sya, pero now na may iba na sya, ang hirap, ang sakit masyado, nakakaramdam na ko ng pag ka awa sa sarili ko so better stop na communication namin, kahit di ako sanay na wala sya. mas ok na wala communication na. lalo na pag mahal na mahal mo pa rin at alam mo impossible na maging kayo.

[nixiquita]

nope.

mahirap magmoveon kapag friend ko parin siya. kahit may space pa after breakup then friends ulit? Nah. doesnt work for me. Maaalalat maalala ko lahat :p

[Miss.Pancake]

ok sana maging friends pa rin kami dahil nag start talaga na bff ko sya, pero now na may iba na sya, ang hirap, ang sakit masyado, nakakaramdam na ko ng pag ka awa sa sarili ko so better stop na communication namin, kahit di ako sanay na wala sya. mas ok na wala communication na. lalo na pag mahal na mahal mo pa rin at alam mo impossible na maging kayo.

siguro sis wag muna kayo maging friends. Kasi torture yun e. Pag naka move on ka na totally tsaka nalang siguro.

[cybelekronos]

at first lumayo ako kay ex, then hindi ko natiis nag message ako sa kanya then naging friends uli kami, masakit pala lalo na pag bago pa lang as in a month since nag break kami at may new gf na sya,
tapos ang topic pa lagi about her, makita mo yung happiness nya sa bago nya pero hindi naman nya
man lang maramdaman in pain na ko. super insensitive.

so nag decide na ko stop na communication, if mag message sya, kausapin ko.
pero actually, si ex na rin nag start mag stop mag message, kaya ok na rin, dahil pag ako di ko lam hanggang kelan ko hindi matiis mag message.

[lady luck]

depende sa sitwasyon... minsan no minsan yes...
kapag selosa ang gf - Yes!! para lalong magselos at maghiwalay sila.. ahahaahaha! joke lang...
 

[iamlili]

Prefer to friends? As long as walang bitterness, why not? Though distant friend nga lang. Di na kasi ako comfortable talking to them.

[jm0514]

friend with an ex??? definitely no..  we will never be firends and i dont want him to be my friend..

[eleine26]

in good terms pa rin naman ako sa mga ex ko. kahit magkita kami ulet someday, wala na samaan ng loob. mas magaan sa loob kasi pag ganun eh. pero I don't communicate with them na. wala din sila sa mga social networking sites ko. respeto na lang sa partner ko at sa partner nila. 

[mharickar]

paano sis if naka block ka sa kanila then one day he sent you a friend request. Ang weird lang.

hahaha.. nangyari sakin to twice.. yung una binlock ako then after few months may request ulit, so dedma na.. then yung recent ex ko, ganun din, bnlock din ako.. pero yung mga friends nya ang nag aadd sakin.. so yun, dedma ulit.. hahaha...

well for me, kung sa ngayon, ayoko munang nakipag friends ulit.. wala lang.. siguro pag tumagal.. as in yung tipong nakapag move on na talaga kami.. 

[imyourangel]

No no for me yan. Helloooo. No matter how many times we deny it, but as girls, we're emotionally wired to give a part of our heart to whoever we had a relationship with. So it's nearly impossible (not fully) to be friends with an ex na talagang malinis ang motives. Some may do it, pero I believe only a few percent lang yun.

Speaking of which.. my boyfriend's ex added him on fb! Kagigil much talaga.

[estelle21]

we tried being friends after break up. it's very difficult if we wouldn't be because we move in the same circles, we pursue the same field.

pero it didn't work. i always assume that we would be able to patch things up because we're friends. i always chase him. kaya in the end he decided that he can no longer be my friend.

he told me i am no longer welcome in his life unless it's business. that i can't text him. he even warned me he would tell my mother that i keep on pestering him if i won't stop.

it is sad and i know it's my fault because i didn't give him the time and space he want.

i should've been more matured. shoud've been able to control my emotions. to know my limits. to know how to accept "no". or "not yet". but i was so childish, si immature. i drove him away. i miss my bestfriend

[trishnottrash]

absolutely NO! especially if the break up wasn't good. yung ex ko i blocked him in fb simply because im no longer interested about whats going on with his life. and besides your ex might take advantage especially if they know that you are still into him so it wud be better na wag nalang db?

[Frozen Toes]

No. Because I want my friends to care about me. He doesn't. And ayoko na ulit mag beg for anybody to show concern or compassion for me. Hindi hinihingi yon. Binibigay yon.

[traxxex21]

A very big N-O, why being friends? kaya nga X diba?

[gt76]

No.

Ang reason kaya kayo naghiwalay dahil ayaw nyo na sa isa't isa, kaya malabong maging friends.

[margauxkhloe]

I think it really depends kung bakit ba kami nag break. Kung maayos kaming nag break, well I can be friends with him. But if nag break kami dahil sa may ginawa siyang kalokohan/masama. Well sorry hindi na siguro para maging friends pa kami. My personality is like I can forgive, but I will never forget what you did. 

[superjuzh]

hindi na lang siguro. parang hindi ko matatanggap na magkwento siyan am ay bago na siyang nilalandi habang ako nag momove on pa.