DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[Uridessey]

I'm not friends with any of my exes. Para walang source of doubt ng current bf at saka di ko naman sila friends before the relationship.
Mga "hi" "hello" once in a blue moon ok lang pero yung continuous communication o time spent together, no-no!

Ayun nga ang problem ko sis e. Kasi may continuous communication pa din kaming 2. Gusto kong kausapin sya na bigyan muna nya ko ng space. I'm so decided na. Nasa kanya na yun kung pati friendship namin tatalikuran nya. It is so selfish of him naman na pipilitin kong may constant communication pero di ako makakamove on. Pinagbigyan ko na sya na makipagbreak sakin. Sobrang sakit na yung naranasan ko. Sana sapat na yun para masabi nyang naramdaman ko din yung hirap na naranasan nya. Halos araw araw na lang ako nilalagnat, di na rin kaya ng katawan ko. ((

[IMMAROCKSTAR12]

It depends on the breakup.

Ako kasi hindi ko masasabing friends pero may casual hi and hello na nagaganap. Wala naman sigurong kaso yun kung ok na kayo. Pero minsan issue yun sa current partner eh.

[bibibuy]

lahat silang lima, naging friends ko ganun kasi ako, pag wala na, wala na, i make sure din na ganun din sa part nung ex ko. para walang akwardness kapag nagkita kami or makasalubong ko. maliit ang mundo. mahirap may kasamaan ng loob at ang hirap ng may iniiwasan ka na tao. pati yung mga nagiging gf nila nagiging kaibigan ko kahit alam nila na ex ako. hehe. bait ko lang talaga. walang malisya na kasi talaga sa part ko.

[piatos]

hindi ko pa kaya sa ngayon may feelings pa kasi ako kahit paano tsaka kilala ko ex ko sobrang makwento lahat ikkwento nun pati yung gf niya..kaya iwas na lang muna baka masapak ko pa siya haha

[bena]

nope.. what for? i dont wanna remind myself how stupid i am. hehe...   

[brendzy]

ok lang naman. natatawa nalang ako sa past namin except of course dun sa isa na siniraan pa ako ng kung [textspeak!]-ano, but for the other 2, keri lang.

[kiz_me1109]

I WANT to. Yung ibang ex ko nakakausap ko naman. Yung iba hindi ko na nakita. Yung isa naman e naka BLOCK ako sa FB niya. He doesnt want to talk to me anymore. It's his decision so I respect it. =)

[sumirehana]

Saken if matagal and no hard feelings na, okay lang. Pero sadly, sa mga naging ex ko, wala akong naging friend. Haha! Casual "hi" and "hellos" lang.

Yung latest ex ko (we broke up 3 yrs. ago), gusto ata maging friends pa rin kami since he's trying to ask me for advice re: his new relationship. Yun lang, as much as I want to help him as a friend, I can't keep constant communication since seloso si current bf. Hopefully, 5 years from now (kung kami pa rin, sana) maging open na si bf sa idea, and sana maging friends din sila.

[iseenessie]

I am friends with most of my exes. I hang out with them din. Pero it took some time before we could be friends. Like, really long time. Years. At first it was awkward pa. But then we got over it. Most of my exes have families na and I am friends with their wives. Same din for my exes na may mga girlfriend na, nagiging kaibigan at kagaanan ko ng loob mga girlfriends nila.

[dizzygirl]

No! Lahat ng ex ko hindi ko naging friend. Imagine dati kayong sweet sa isa't isa tapos ngayon friends nalang? Ang awkward kasi.

[pretty_B]

hopefully YES! pero ayaw ni present. haaays. anyway, i talked to my ex na friends pa din kami but no communication AT ALL until WHENEVER. >___< so idk if that's a yes or a no. tsktsk.

[purpleme]

^^Ditto.

It's awkward. Especially in the first few months. that's like rubbing salt in the wound. Mas mahirap mag move on, kasi andun yung aasa ka pa, eh. Even after a few years, mahirap mag move on completely, because there's a reason why you fell in love with him in the first place diba? And it would haunt you. Unless super friends kayo, no thanks. Sabi nga nila, if you can stay friends with your ex, it's either hindi mo siya minahal or mahal mo padin siya.

[huggykaye]

i don't want to be friends with my ex'. if we cannot be lovers, we cannot be friends... just my preference

[nicoletta]

I'd rather not be friends with my ex so my husband doesn't have any reason to get jealous.

[confusedjoanna]

It took awhile to be friends with my ex and it helped me realized na naka-moveon na talaga ako from
the break-up, although may awkward moments pero no hard feelings na hehe.

[icantspellyou]

Depende sa naging reason siguro ng break up ninyo. You can be friends once all the feelings were gone

[plumpolka]

Hopefully. Kasi friends naman kami nung college and before pa maging kami. But i think ok na ako na casual kami sa isa't isa and walang awkward moments. Not naman siguro to the point na para na ulit kaming mag bestfriend na laging magkausap at updated coz may tendency na maaalala mo yung nung kayo pa.

[saoirseamor]

Usually I don't stay friends with an ex (my exception to one). Actually I find it weird cause I stayed friends with the ex who's hurt me the most. I don't know. Siguro kase first love yon. hehe. but well. I have this very recent ex (actually 3 months ago na kameng seperated) and he just wants to stay friends for some reason too hard to understand. If I had a choice I'd say ayoko na maging friends with him 'cause it's like torture for me. He seems interested and not interested at the same time, and obviously I am still in love with him. So what I can say is, whatever your ex did, it's just really awkward to be friends with someone who just happened to know (and seen) too much of you or someone who's like family too. Unless you still want him back.

[physicaldump]

Ang hirap nito.I tried it. Pero eventually i need to cut off all the connections. Today was the last day of our contact. Grabe ang hirap talaga. But needs to continue living. Huhu 

[parkinggirl]

We tried pero it won't work. He ends up courting me again and then we'll break up for the same reasons (again). We finally decided to cut off all communication lines. This happened 9 years ago kaya wala pa fb to stalk. The first few years was hard. Years talaga ha. He was my greatest love i guess. Hes married now and for some reason galit daw sa akin ang wife niya. I haven't even met nor do i personally know the wife!