DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[GD]

Ayos lang saken, mga ex bf ko na hindi ko nakakausap dati (dahil sa may samaan pa ng loob) now we are talking again.
Yung usapang may tawanan na, may biruan. Wala na yung bitterness na dati nag oover flow, haha.

May isang ex ako na hindi ko kinakausap ngayon. He is my recent ex. Hindi pa siguro tamang panahon para mag-usap ulit kami.

[alice_alice]

i prefer to be friends if alam ko na wala na talagang feelings, mahirap naman makipagkaibigan tapos hoping ka pa na meron pang kadugtong ang love story niyo.

[entwife]

I am good friends with an ex. Takbuhan ko minsan even love problems napagkekwentuhan namin.

But I agree that before friendship, you have to make sure that wala ng romance on both sides. I don't believe na magwowork yung "just broke up- can we be friends?" sort of thing. It will always be unfair.

[Noylabmay]

hay nako, I have this first bf, Nagparamdam na humihingi ng tulong sa
mga information lang about sa country kase he got a job abroad same
place kung san nag stay nako ng 8 years nagmagandang loob ako
to support kahit mga info lang nako naging masama pako
naging mukha pakong malandi sa wife nya e wala naman kalandian ang mga emails ko
mas mabuti pang stay away from them na lang
para tahimik pa buhay

[eiahkate]

My exs are actually my friends. But the latest- although we remained friends, i chose to stop communicating with him because his new girlfriend is not comfortable with that fact. I definitely  understand his girlfriend. However, with my other ex, we remained very good friends until now and his girlfriend and I became friends too...

[tomatostellar]

sana, kaso pag makulit wag na lang

[vangie88]

nope, we're civil but we're not friends, not even in FB, sign of respect narin to our new partners.

[angeleigh]

Im friends with the first two, not with the last.

[jamila_19]

sinubukan ko na maging friends pa rin kami ng mga ex ko pero ang husband ko ngayon eh ayaw na ayaw niya na nakikipag usap pa ako kahit sino sa kanila. hehe! 

[markyy]

ok lang kung ang partner ko understanding, what if hindi. much better na stay away na lang. pero recently nacontact ko yung ex ko na nasaktan ko ng sobra. nung nalaman ko na shes happy with her married life para akong nabunotan ng tinik sa lalamunan. pero syempre, dapat may limitation pa rin yung pagiging friends. mahirap na baka bumalik yung dati it could be you or the other one might hurt. worst e pati partner nyo.

[i_v_y]

 i dont think i can be friend with my ex, because we were never friends to start with. but who knows. how can i be "friends" with someone who did not treat me right, right?

[pinkberries]

not for now, i guess.  i still can't forgive him and im still hurting.     

[Uridessey]

Sakin kasi we started as friends/bestfriends/confidants kaya nung nakipagbreak sya nag uusap pa din kami. Ang hirap lang is di ka makamove on pag lagi pa din kayong magkatext pero pag magkasama kami ok lang naman, walang ilangan nung tumagal na after ng breakup. In the end yung friendship pa din yung gusto naming masalba, wala naman kaming galit sa bawat isa, napatawad na din namin yung bawat isa. And di rin namin kasi alam if magiging kami pa ulit in the future.

[bronze]

I'd rather be friends with my exes. And in fact I am friends with most of them.

[brandi]

i dont think i can be friend with my ex, because we were never friends to start with. but who knows. how can i be "friends" with someone who did not treat me right, right?

I have the same scenario. and he keeps on texting and calling me for us to be friends. maybe in time but i don't think now is the right time. gusto ko muna ng space and makahinga from kaya huwag sana makulit.

[carla27]

Yes but not now.. Maybe after several years because hindi maalis pinagsamahan namin almost 7years

[HoldingOn]

My ex recently met with me... I agreed, he said sorry, I told him I've forgiven him since last year. He looked so plagued with guilt! He said he couldn't even get out of the house, fearing that everyone is still mad at him after what he has done to me. I was able to introduce him to my current (and hopefully last) boyfriend. Even my bf found my ex so pitiful! With that, yes, I still want to be friends with my ex, to help him get healed over the guilt feeling he has. But, I don't think I am the right person to do that. My current bf wants to help my ex too by inviting him in our Church, but right now, we are still both weighing things.

[Uridessey]

It seems funny na ilang days ago lang I said na I would rather be friends with my ex pero I'm posting now para sabihin na hindi good idea yun after all. Lalo na pag mahal mo pa din sya. In my case naaasar ako pag di sya nagtetext kasi namimiss ko sya pero pag nagtetext naman sya pinipigilan ko yung sarili ko na magreply. Minsan sya naman di magtetext. I dunno kung para itest ako kung di ko sya kayang tiisin. Ang sakin lang kung kelan ako humihingi ng space ay tsaka sya text ng text sakin na para bang ayaw nya kong nagmomove on. Ayoko na kasing konting kibot naaapektuhan ako. Ayokong maging mahina na kayang kaya nyang hawakan yung mararamdaman ko. Ayoko ng magiging weakness ko sya. Hindi nakakatulong sakin yun at sa trabaho ko.

[brandi]

^kung sure ka na talaga, better change your digits para walang temptation.

[j.adore]

I'm not friends with any of my exes. Para walang source of doubt ng current bf at saka di ko naman sila friends before the relationship.
Mga "hi" "hello" once in a blue moon ok lang pero yung continuous communication o time spent together, no-no!