DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[HoldingOn]

Yes, I prefer to be friends with my ex. I cannot erase the fact that somehow, we were once good friends. Sana yung future wife niya, ako, yung future husband ko, and siya eh maging good friends din 

[roxy14]

Yes. okay lang sakin ayoko kasi yung porket wala na kayo hindi na kayo magpapansinan. kasi kahit papano sa relationship nyo, you became friends. bestfriends pa nga siguro hanggang ngayon friends pa rin kami ng lahat ng ex's ko.

[tawnylee]

I tried mga sis pero ang hirap, lalo na fresh pa breakup and mahal mo pa siya (lalo na pag siya nakipagbreak sayo). Kaya okay muna kapag cut them off from your lives first.

[mimiku]

Now that I've finally moved on, I guess it's okay to be friends with your ex.

[TysLolakins]

there's always going to be some awkwardness between you two.
you don't have to be friends nor enemies.  just acknowledge the existence of the person, that's all.

[Mommy•Shey]

Kung Civil, Yes! Meron akong ex's na friends pa din kami. Hindi man naging maganda ang breakup namin, still naging friends kami. But not to the extend na may constant communication dapat kayo.

Wala namang masama kung maging friends kami, we're matured enough to know what is right from wrong. May sari-sarili na kaming mga pamilya at happy kami sa mga partners namin. Nasa tao na din kasi yun kung palalalimin niyo yung relasyon niyo eh. Control lang naman dapat yan.  And never forget kung ano talagang purpose niyo sa isa't isa.

May 1st bf ( ex ko na) we broke up kasi GF niya pala ang BESTFRIEND ko. Pinapili siya ng bestfriend ko kung kanino talaga siya masaya, mas pinili niya si Bestfriend kesa sakin. Then ngayon NINANG ako ng eldest daughter nila and si Hubby ko naman NINONG ng bunso nilang anak hahaha! Yes, friends pa din kami ng ex ko.

[cristyles]

Okay lang ang acquaintance na pag tipong nagkita ay pwedeng mag-hello at hi! Pero friends? hmm.. i don't think so. Mas prefer ko talagang walang communication.

[piatos]

for me wala naman masama ewan ko lang sa kanya

[iamreese]

I have ex na naging friends pa rin kami... pero pinutol ko na rin yung comm namen kasi ikakasal na siya. 

[iamkrissy]

most of my ex's, friends ko na sila ngayon. pero yun lang sa mga ex ko na hind ako super sinaktan at nageffort sa relationship para mag-work. pero yung iba na niloko ka lang talaga at pinaasa, hindi e. it takes time talaga. awkward din pala makipagfriends sa taong madaming nangyari sa inyo. di ba. kasi every time na naguusap kayo or nagkikita. parang nakakahiya kasi nakita na niya lahat sayo, tapos ginawa niyo pala to. yung ganun. kaya depende pa rin sa ex.

[chiechita]

Yes at first kasi 7 years ko siya nakasama i wanted to save the friendship but it wasn't that easy pla mas ok na wala ng communication at all.

[prix]

sa akin YES, actually lahat ng ex ko ay friends ko.. hehe..

[Alucard]

NO. syempre respeto nalang dun sa current na kasama mo. I don't talk to them as well syempre nakakabastos din ito.

A relationship will last if there is RESPECT for each other 

[tawnylee]

If you go by what FRIEND really means, then NO. Tama, nakakabastos naman sa kasama mo. And kahit single ako ngayon and walang kasama, nakakabastos pa rin sa future partner ko. Siguro preference ko lang. ACQUAINTANCE maybe, but not FRIEND. Ibang level yun eh.

[Alucard]

If you go by what FRIEND really means, then NO. Tama, nakakabastos naman sa kasama mo. And kahit single ako ngayon and walang kasama, nakakabastos pa rin sa future partner ko. Siguro preference ko lang. ACQUAINTANCE maybe, but not FRIEND. Ibang level yun eh.

Correct. kasi if you still communicate with your ex. it means that you are still interested sakanya. and it gives your ex the impression na gusto mo parin siya.

[home_seeker]

I'd love to be friends pero I don't think mangyayari yun.

[x-y]

Don't want to be friends with him anymore.

[crazy_krizsa]

Nope. Though, i don't hate him anymore pero its better this way.

[misscapitalletterc]

Correct. kasi if you still communicate with your ex. it means that you are still interested sakanya. and it gives your ex the impression na gusto mo parin siya.

Agree, we have our own family na. Maybe if we are both single, we can still be friends.

Before when I am not married my ex-bf used to be friend me. Pero ako na rin yung lumalayo kase he already has a family.

Depende rin siguro sa situation.

[ayka]

no way! former lovers can't be friends. it's just meant to be that way.