DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[chuvaeklavu]

SOBRANG NAPIPIKA NA KO... BAKIT KAYA KAILANGAN PA NIYA MAKIPAGKAIBIGAN SAKIN!!!!
KAHIT AKO NAKIPAGHIWALAY SA KANYA SIYEMPRE MASAKIT PA DIN SAKIN UN!!!!

AT BAKIT DI NA LANG NAMIN PANINDIGAN U N G MGA GINAWA NAMING DECISION!!!
KUNG TUTUUSIN MAS MADALI NGA SIYA MAKAKAMOVE ON KASE NAGJOWA KAGAD SIYA!
SA MANTALANG AKO NANAHIMIK LANG AT NAGAAYOS NG BUHAY KO!!!!

HUHUHUHUHU.... CARRY KO TO!!!!

[mariadj]

i wanted to kasi he's babydaddy eh

[ladybellee]

so far in good terms naman ako sa mga naging ex ko except for this 1 guy. I wanted to remain friends with him nung una, kase ako talaga gusto ko walang grudges pagnaghiwalay kame. so nung una ok lang until he started calling me 'honey' or 'ney' again. i hate it. as in it creeps me out when he does that. haha. i even lied about having a boyfriend just so he stops. and then it worked naman. then he tried adding me on fb and i never responded to it. then lately kinamusta nia ako sa ym, ok na sana eh but then my honey parin. so dinedma ko. and then i tried checking out yung fb nia married na pala sha ngayon and may baby na tapos ganun pa sha. tsk tsk.

[klienne]

I tried before pero hindi rin [textspeak!] pwede mag kaconflict lalo na meron sya gf ngaun. napapagawayan daw ako minsan. Ok lang kung kamustahan pero being a buddy or bestfriend pa I guess it will not work for me.

[gracey019]

It's easy to tell yourself to be friends with your ex-lover but the truth is.. mahirap. I mean it's hard in general. Just like me I told myself to be friends with my ex but I am starting to be obsessed so for me it's not necessary 

[17arci]

we're not friends anymore. lol. used to contact him a lot but then he would just ignore me. so dedma na lang din ako

[daria]

syempre hindi. too many emotional baggage between the couple kaya friendship is not a possibility.

[sosychill]

no-- thats why its called break up.

[_AiaH_]

I am good friends with 3 of my exes (i've had 4). Kabiruan ko sa FB, kausap palagi, minsan crying shoulder pa yung 1st. He's my best friend kasi before naging kami, so now we're back to that status and my bf knows him naman. He doesn't mind

[ravena]

yes -- matatagal din akong naging bitter (cut all the communications) pero normal talaga sa lahat yan but in time.. it thought me how to accept and to move on.

ewan ko lang sa kaniya, dapat ako ang galit.

[graceriabel]

yes -- matatagal din akong naging bitter (cut all the communications) pero normal talaga sa lahat yan but in time.. it thought me how to accept and to move on.

ewan ko lang sa kaniya, dapat ako ang galit.

so anong status niyo ngayon sis? as friends na nga lang ba talaga?

[macblush]

past is past so its a big NOOO!

[shopaholic18]

there was like only 2 one kasi used to be my bestfriend and we broke up realizing it was better that way and the other one parang naging kuya ko lang. guides me with everything, our breakup was a mutual decision naman eh kaya no worries, pero yung iba hell no.

[17arci]

If I had a choice, I would, pero sya na mismo yung lumalayo e. Pabor na rin naman saken, kasi baka magselos lang si boyfriend if ever.

[chicgurl]

i've had 3 bfs.. 1st one super kababata ko kasi to & parang puppy love lang hehe he's married now & we're good we're friends ka BBM ko pa nga and ka FB the 2nd one 2 yrs din kami nung college well civil naman kami kasi barkada ko siya eh.. pag may get together hi hello pero no chika talaga kasi alam ko meron pa din siyang desire sakin haha joke.. well may gf naman na siya pero alam ko naman na parang may feelings pa din siya maski naman kasi his family eh umaasa pa sabi ko nga suko na ayoko na talaga friends na lang talaga the 3rd one super recent pa lang ng break up e as in 5mos pa lang sariwa pa.. nakapag closure na kami at once in a while nagtetext but i've decided na we should not text na muna each other kasi nababalik lang nakaraan better that way.. i guess civil kami.. cant call ourselves friends yet.. diko siya ka FB not good for the moving on stage i reckon..

[miss resilient]

Why not?

[chicgurl]

ngayon AYOKO NA LANG! hahaha just this weekend ay may ginawang super bad yang ex bf ko hay nako as in stress.. too sad.. wag na lang kaming maging friends.. kanya kanyang buhay na lang.. parang wala kaming 7 taong nakaraan kaloka! may heaven bless his soul!

[k_heart]

NOT! What's the use? ha!ha!ha!

[chicgurl]

^correct! for what? to reminisce that past? di suguro hahaha

[southchick]

question mga sis.. when you say "friends with your ex" ibig sabihin ba you hang out together, attend birthday parties of common friends, text each other, etc? or just being civil na friends kayo sa fb or when you cross paths, you say hi/hello,  konting chika then that's it?