DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[jaded1025]

No. Magulo un.

[pepperpotts]

correct - it depends on the situation (i'm friends with my 1st  ex bf kasi we started naman as barkada but not in speaking terms with the 2nd ex bf - such a cheater, utangero pa!) My recent ex and longest relationship sana I can be friends with him in the future but right now, di ko pa kaya kasi I still love him, mahihirapan lang ako magmove on.

[iCleverClogs]

Break muna sa mga break-ups na 'yan. Christmas naman eh. Give love kahit 1 day tapos awayin mo na pagkakinabuhasan. 

[cjanna]

Big NO!!! 

Sa mga ginawa ba naman nya saakin...kapal ng peslak nya kung makiki pag friends pa sya saakin pagkatapos nya akong sinaktan ng todo noh..Kahit anong gawin nya..wala na.

[shegothim]

ngayon friends na kami ni ex. nagsorry na naman kasi sya at ako din sa kanya.

[iCleverClogs]

we started communicating again last holiday season. mag oone month palang kaming hiwalay. so far ok naman kami as being friends. hanggang dun nalang talaga. i'm happy and i think he is too.

I'm happy for you sis. At least reconciled na kayo as friends.

[marge070407]

it is okay to reconnect but don't revive hehe. lovers can be friends i guess..

[douxmadchen]

perhaps it depends. haha. although, magulo nga lang yun at very awkward.

[iCleverClogs]

yes, pag nakahanap na ako ng kapalit...para off limits na talaga sia LOL!

Hahahaha... talaga naman. Ako din! 

[pinkberries]

mas lalo kong naalala ang tao kung may galit pa ako.  so mas gusto ko, magkabati na lang para pwede ko ng makalimutan. 

[iCleverClogs]

^ and ^^ ayan, maganda yan. Sali ako. 


Mas maganda pag wala kang hatred para mabilis ang pag-move on. But for me, I'm not gonna deny na may tampo pa ako sa ex ko kasi I'm still in pain at kaya wala pa akong peace of mind. But we are very good friends. And if there is a chance na magkausap kami, kahit sino man ang nagkasala, kahit siya pa, I'd still want to ask forgiveness. Reconcillation na, kahit di kami magkabalikan..   

[nageinna]

^ sana sis dumating na nga yung time na yun na makapagusap kayo para makafully let go ka na. feeling ko once both of you finally had that chance to talk and forgive each other mas mapapabilis sayo lahat. goodluck sis!

[gurlzat03]

not now.. not ever.. hindi sa parang may hatred pa rin sa 'kin, pero mas prefer ko na 'wag na lang.

[iCleverClogs]

^^ thanks sis.. 

[marshmelody]

not now.. not ever.. hindi sa parang may hatred pa rin sa 'kin, pero mas prefer ko na 'wag na lang.

i agree. mas ok na colleagues na lang, better yet na wala na lang communication if possible. iba pa rin kasi pag friends talaga kayo. you can share your problems, experiences, etc.. with each other.

[iCleverClogs]

^  things will never be the same again. 

[chuvaeklavu]

Hello:

We are planning to have a dinner bonding with other FN girls this coming January 4th week....Kaya lang onti pa kame...

The purpose of this dinner is:
1. To meet new friends ofcourse!
2. To have fun while moving on with break ups
3. To talk about the upcoming activity this Feb 14 2011...

Para naman di mga mukhang kawawa mga walang date tulad ko... hehe....

FN girls, please PM me if you are interested para makapag set na ko ng place para satin lahat...

Thanks!

[ebiko]

naging friends lang ulit kami ni ex, 6 years after na yata 

[chuvaeklavu]

yesterday, tumawag sakin si EX he was crying....(pero di siya nakikipagbalikan)

He is crying kase sinayang niya oras ko sa pagsasama namin ng 4yrs, 2 nights na daw siya di makatulog and gusto niya talaga ko makausap to say sorry...

gusto niya wag kame mawalan ng communication cos he wants to prove to me na hindi naaksaya lahat ng ginawa ko para sa kanya....
-- pero i know mahihirapan siya magbago.... I know...
sabi niya magigigng inspiration niya ko(dahil sa mga ginawa ko for him) sa pagbabago niya since he is lazy, sloppy and irresponsible to money.

okay lang the feeling ko na kausap ko siya kahapon parang normal na mga vital signs ko... hahaha...
sabi ko sa kanya ok lang siguro na magusap tayo pero hindi madalas since unfair sa GF mo...tsaka i told him na ayaw ko muna siya makita cos di pa ko ready...cos he wants to have dinner again with me...

sinisisi niya [textspeak!] situation kung bakit kame naghiwalay...
pero it happens for a reason i said...
and i told him to forget about it and move on...

Namiss ko [textspeak!] malambing niyang boses pero I know kung ano stand ko sa relationship namin....

He said kung di lang naman daw siya nagka GF sana daw maayos kame ngayon.... I said "siguro" pero in my mind i mean " hindi din siguro"

Narealize niya pagiging imature niya and lahat ng hindi niya nagawa para sakin so it was painful for him thats why he was crying....
pero ok lang... naka move on na ko isang dipa!

Goodbye!

[nageinna]

^wow good for you sis! at least di ka nadala sa emo mood niya last night. you stood your ground. proud of you!