DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[iCleverClogs]

No. Tried and tested. It helps me to move on.

[france0220325143]

i've tried being friends with m ex and believe me, its not gonna work.. we just ended up hurting each other... i tried being civil since were becoming parents to a baby, but it still didn't work... now, i'm trying to stay away from him.. and well, so far, so good....

[KIn0928]

Based from my experience before and today, I'll advice to all our sisses here who are in middle of moving on to stay away from your ex-BF. Chances are you might not be able to move on because you still have in contact with him and you agree to be friend with him as what he offers to you. Why this such thing happen? An ex-BF is almost always wants to remain friends with you because he still wanted to get contact with you so that he will know your whereabouts, in short he will have the chance to manipulate you. Also, he wants you for the reason that in due time if he changed his mind then he will going back with you, thus, raising your hopes again.

Let's say you want to move-on but being friends with an ex-BF will never help you to move on. Why? Do you think you will happy about him telling you that he already find a new one for him? I don't think it will make you happy for him, maybe you can say it to him but deep inside it will reaps your heart again and the pain is more intolerable than before. Another disadvantage is an ex-BF who offers friendship might used you as "booty call" for his selfish purposes. It's not good either, so be careful about it. Being friends with your ex is more severe than implementing the No Contact Rule. They are just the same but the former is more worst than the latter.

Which one do you choose?
Friends with your BF = BF (move on easily) , YOU (not moving on)
No Contact Rule = BF (not moving on), YOU (move on easily)

I could suggest apply both of these ways to help you from moving on. NO friendship with an ex and NO contact rule with an ex

Sometimes, women wanted to risk a chance just to get back and ex in order to heal the pain, but never consider that what we do will only cause more pain.

super true! hehe... tried and tested! you wouldn't want your bf to call his ex diba? so big NO

[iCleverClogs]

I don't know what came into my mind this afternoon. The whole  day I was so down because our place got a problem on electricity and I have no choice but to imprison myself in my room. Of course, I can think of my ex (present). I just couldn't bear the pain, and guess what? I texted my ex-bestfriend at the same time ex-boyfriend (previous) about my pain and emo time. 
I know it sounds insulting to an ex to tell about how she really loves the one that replaces the former. LOL...
My ex replied in hypocrisy. So obvious that he's holding a grudge to me. He still calls me by my real name not my nickname. So awkward. Sorry to him, I already moved on. I am now concentrating how to move on with the present Ex. 

[mimiku]

Based from my experience before and today, I'll advice to all our sisses here who are in middle of moving on to stay away from your ex-BF. Chances are you might not be able to move on because you still have in contact with him and you agree to be friend with him as what he offers to you. Why this such thing happen? An ex-BF is almost always wants to remain friends with you because he still wanted to get contact with you so that he will know your whereabouts, in short he will have the chance to manipulate you. Also, he wants you for the reason that in due time if he changed his mind then he will going back with you, thus, raising your hopes again.

Let's say you want to move-on but being friends with an ex-BF will never help you to move on. Why? Do you think you will happy about him telling you that he already find a new one for him? I don't think it will make you happy for him, maybe you can say it to him but deep inside it will reaps your heart again and the pain is more intolerable than before. Another disadvantage is an ex-BF who offers friendship might used you as "booty call" for his selfish purposes. It's not good either, so be careful about it. Being friends with your ex is more severe than implementing the No Contact Rule. They are just the same but the former is more worst than the latter.

Which one do you choose?
Friends with your BF = BF (move on easily) , YOU (not moving on)
No Contact Rule = BF (not moving on), YOU (move on easily)

I could suggest apply both of these ways to help you from moving on. NO friendship with an ex and NO contact rule with an ex

Sometimes, women wanted to risk a chance just to get back and ex in order to heal the pain, but never consider that what we do will only cause more pain.

I agree. Let him stay in your past and don't extend him anymore to your present.

[gorgeousmama]

 it depends. if we already moved on, i think pwede naman, kasi most of my ex, id even called them and ask like what do they love or hate most nun para i can refrain and wnt committ the same mistake,

but if fresh pa din yun break up of course not,, it will be a foolish thing to do,

[iCleverClogs]

 it depends. if we already moved on, i think pwede naman, kasi most of my ex, id even called them and ask like what do they love or hate most nun para i can refrain and wnt committ the same mistake,

but if fresh pa din yun break up of course not,, it will be a foolish thing to do,

yeah i agree. if the two of you are already move-on or if you don't want to get back your ex again then that's the time for reconciliation.

[SweetStranger]

KOREK! Right now Im in a situation where my bf is friends with his ex lalo na yung pinakalast. Nangangamusta lang daw? HELLO! May nangangamusta ba na nag-eeffort pa talaga tumawag sa bf ko from abroad? Tapos that girl is provoking me pa. Binigyan ko bf ko ng ultimatum. Pag yun kinausap pa niya, MAGSAMA NA LANG SILANG DALAWA. Dahil super irita na talaga ako! 

[koalaa]

Gusto ko sana kaso baka ma fall lang uli ako sakanya pag naging friends kami.

[hayne22]

gusto ko na ayaw ko.heheh.i want him to be one of the godparent of my child.coz he's really a good person.kaso lang natatakot ako na baka may feelings pa.

[ravena]

yeah. cyberfriends. lol

[iCleverClogs]

ok lang kay ex-bff/bf ...pero si latest, off-limit muna. sabagay di na naman siya nagpaparamdam. ang dali dali niyang makalimot. i'm in pain, gusto ko siya din, makonsensiya. 
an eye for an eye ako eh. pag happy ako, happy ka din. pag ginawa mong miserable ang buhay ko, di ako maghihiganti, i'll just hope makarma ka rin! 

[Glam21Vylet]

For me it's okay to be friends. but it will somehow depends sa break up..

[StrawberryJammy]

i'd rather not. for me, the past should be left behind, move on with your life.

[ilovedlc]

I would really want to pero hindi ganun ang nangyayari eh 

[BAISANAN]

depende sa cause ng break up lalo na kung may third party a big no.....with string attach pa kasi pag may comm. pa with ex.

[iCleverClogs]

as I said earlier ok lang kay ex-bff/bf (1st bf)... pero sa latest ex ko ngayon, parang bumaliktad na ang mundo. I prefer not befriend with him, di naman bad break-up sa amin. Though we're LDR, he insistently na GF pa rin niya ako kahit ayaw ko man. Hayyysss... di ko na alam. Acutally may communication kami ngayon. 

[Myealexis21]

Yes I would if he is also fine with that...But not super close friends and dapat clear na walang balikan na magaganap.  It's just a bit delikado to be friends with ex's kasi you might fall for him again tas he don't have that same feeling with you naman, or vice versa. 

Right now I am friends with all my ex, but since I'm working abroad that eliminates the hassle of seeing each other.  Pero I am very careful in exchanging emails with them coz I don't want them to think that I'm into them again. 

Plus minsan you have to consider if he has a gf or wife na, kasi kahit friend lang kayo baka the gf or wife might get jealous, and you don't want to be in the middle of that! 

[pinkberries]

yes.  kahit papaano, magkaibigan kami sa umpisa so kung hindi na kami, sana magkaibigan na lang.  hindi ko gusto ang magkimkim ng sama ng loob.

[xxxloixxx]

It depends on the cause of break-up... I mean, how can you be friends with the person who broke your heart?