DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[ysa.belle]

It depends siguro if pano kame nagbreak. Pero all ended up bad eh. So hindi.

[kirsten19]

It depends siguro if pano kame nagbreak. Pero all ended up bad eh. So hindi.

Tama ka dyan sis!

[jobelle1984]

no way!!!

[sweetjen]

no.. bitter e haha

kaya nga nagbreak, dont want anything to do with the Xs

[heartless05]

well, for me time will come all wounds will heal.  naging friends ko mga ex ko not really friends but the communications are open.  I just broke up last June and it's really a bad ending, til now di ko pa matanggap but i realize na why should i let myself stock with this nightmare.  Iniisip ko n [textspeak!] he's not worth for my love and there's a reason kung bakit kami nagbreak.  Just last night when i get online he send me message then i replied. hi hellos.. how's everything. then i told him i'm doin well and having fun with my friends enjoy my life and so happy with i am now. And it's so easy to forget all those feelings you had for him because of what you found on him. oh diba parang sampal sa knya un, kasi alam nya nakapag move on ka na talga.

[mooncake and leaves]

Only if we have both moved on. But where I am right now and seeing as how we tried it, it's difficult. Part of me never wants to see him ever again.

[calin22]

i had an ex before.. classmate and close friend.. super duper we blend for each other.. pero naging kami lang for 2 weeks lang.. and it took me about 8 months to get over him.. as in never kami magiging kami.. pero now.. he is my best adviser and close friend.. exes being friends pede naman eh.. hindi lang lagi..

[angel_lee]

ako prang ayaw ko ata. selosa ako lols! pano na kya kung my new gf na sya tpos friends p kami. mkikita ko silang mgkasama. o depende ata kng gano mo sineryoso past relationship nyo. pro sakin ayoko lols! 

[pullandbear]

i'd rather not coz my present bf/fiance is not cool with the idea of me being friends with my ex.

[deliciously_ridiculous]

depends on the cause of the break up--- in my case, not for now.. maybe later when all wounds are healed..

[misschic]

okay lang sakin pero ndi naman super friends na parang walang special na pinagsamahan lalo na kpag bad breakup. yung tipong civil lang. for my recent ex, classmate ko kasi siya so parang ang hirap ng NC at all. seatmate ko pa kasi pareho kaming V ang surname. yung iba kong ex open ako for casual kamustahan pero hanggang dun lang.

[ongkika]

no, lalo na kung may feelings pa

[kirsten19]

no, lalo na kung may feelings pa

eh sis, what if wala na?

[iyatedi]

Nope..civil lang siguro pag nagkita..i just saw him last weekend after 5 years sa despidida ng common cousin namin (we're not related though)..and i saw his wife..and he saw my hubby too..nakakailang lang..

[happy_gal]

nope...it was a very bad break-up

[yellowjice]

kahit pa yata good or bad ang break up, it's not a good idea to be friends right away.

i'm stuck in the situation right now. we've been meeting post break up. we're "friends" daw. but look where it got me? residual feelings are arising ulit. kaya i said goodbye last week. blocked him in fb and will return all his stuff.

[prettygurl00001]

It depends on the situation.

1. If initially we've been good friends then eventually became lovers, then maybe we can still be friends once we break up

2. If we've been lovers agad right from the start, then we broke up bcoz of mutual decision or can't work things out for some reason, we can be civil with each other

3. If we've been lovers agad, then we broke up bcoz of bad reasons (he cheated on me, lied to me, etc.) then definitely we can't be friends. How can you befriend someone who caused you pain?

[Shery]

may isa akong ex na bitter.. hehe pero friends kami.. kasi barkada ko naman siya bago naging kami. yun nga lang.. till now may pagkabitter parin. umaasa parin siya.. kaya di ko na rin siya pinapansin na naman. dati kasi ok na kami eh. di na napag uusapan yun past pero lately nagtatanong na naman siya kung may chance pa kami. sabi ko wala na. ayun bitter na naman

[baliwsayo]

Mas madami yata no ang sagot ah hehe. I broke up with ex pero it's like he was really asking for it na.. alam nyo yun. He has no more time for me and when I broke up with him, deadma lang siya.. as if no remorse. Months passed.. I've moved on already and I feel okey naman na and I have a new boyfie na. I want us to be friends sana.. is it okey kaya if I ask him?

[xxpetitexx]

It would depends upon the situation. Kung bitter ka at depressed, a big NO NO. It's one of the strategies if you would like to move on or get back with him or her.
Pero kung move on na kayo as in yung stage ng "ACCEPTANCE" na-attainn niyo na then that's the time na pwede na kayong maging friends but not the same kind of friendship you used to have kasi may nangyari na between the two of you.