DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[Oblina]

ay friend ko isa kong ex... yun lang kase I tried to win him back pero may iba na sya, so naging shoulder to cry on ko na lang hehe. masayahing tao naman kase yun

[pistachio nuts]

i really can't tell.. friends ko [textspeak!] iba, but [textspeak!] isa ko for the longest time; di ko feel maging friend.

[charmed_chic]

my ex and I were friends but now, parang we lost our communication na... He's in my friends list sa FB but whenever he's online, I don't chat with him and he doesn't chat with me either.. deadmahan..

[finally]

NO lalo nakung may masasktang ibang tao.
yung isang ex ko after all these years iniadd ako sa FS sus pati pa namn sa social networkign sites sa EX-uso na site ako iaadd. i accepted it simply becoz alam kong di na nya ginagamit yun sa fb sila ng gf nya eh.

[mrs.S.]

Now that I am married I think there's no reason for me to be friends with my exes. I dont want any conflict with hubby that might stem from that. Besides I am not interested anymore sa buhay nila.

[lilstar]

No way.. wala naman benefit sa ganun. Yoko din ng conflict..

[yang]

friends pwede kaming civil yun wala ng grudges. pero not friends as in frienship na  mutual friends di na. sapat na yun naging magkakilala kami.

[sheh-la22]

> depende sa reason ng break up

> kapag yung isa, never pa din nakaka move di pwede, pero kapag pareho ng happy sa life,,, pwede naman

[merchee]

> kapag yung isa, never pa din nakaka move di pwede, pero kapag pareho ng happy sa life,,, pwede naman

korek sis. di talaga pwedeng maging friends kapag hindi pa nakakapag-move on...

[_AiaH_]

post break up, being friends is a no no sakin talaga. I need to move on from him, so I'll cut all ties, all communication.

but after ko makapag move on, 3 out of 4 boyfriends I've had are my friends sa FB. except for the first one, na sobrang minahal ako. hehe. Nagagalit kasi yung gf nya (my former bestfriend) nung nalaman na naguusap pa kami, and take note, tinext pa ako ng mga pagalit na text. hehe. eh ayaw ako tigilan din nung ex ko na yun, so we continued texting each other naman, then eventually, ako nalang din hindi nagrereply sa mga text nya. ayun, but he's always there for me. isang text ko lang dun, reply naman agad. basically, i'm friends with my exes years after break up.

[pinkylady]

ako gusto ko sana makipag friend pero may nabasa ako dito na paano kayo magiging friend kung hindi na nga sya naging "good" bf sayo un pa akyang maging friend pa kayong 2?

[peaceof mind]

eventually pwd un mangyari pgtagal tgal ng panahon..kapag pareho nio n kaya...it takes time..

[purplerainne]

^ yeah true. kapag fresh pa, wag muna. kung pwede nga lang pati makita, wag muna sanang makita kasi ang hirap mag move on kapag konting actions nya nabibigyan na ng meaning.

with my greatest ex (greatest kasi pinakaminahal ko at pinaka nasaktan ako), years ang inabot bago ako naging civil sa kanya. pero hindi pa rin kami friends. civil lang. tama na yun. 

[anir]

NO! forget it...

yeah you could still approach each other but not to the point that you befriend your ex...

'coz in the first place... men and women should not be friends... most likely the end result is that one will fall to the other... and it sucks...

[beck19]

given ENOUGH time after the breakup. mas gusto ko friends kami ng ex ko. well, friends ko naman silang lahat (nbr of ex-bfs = 3).. basta.. kailangan sure AKO sa sarili ko na naka-get over na ako. otherwise, i wont entertain the idea.

[ravena]

so far we're still friends but it will also depend on how you broke up some are out of my life and totally no communication.

[Bash]

kung hindi naman bitter yung break up, why not di ba? Of all my exes, tatlo yung hindi ko friend. Yung isa was from high school, sya pa yung may ganang mag-maasim where in fact sya yung may kasalanan. Two were from college, one was the one na sobrang niloko lang ako at very user-friendly, and the other one, ayoko lang kasi natatawa lang ako kung iisipin ko na naging kame (mean... haha). But the rest, friends ko.

[baby_yellow]

para sakin you can never be friends again with your ex..i mean yung friendship na parang walang nangyari. kasi ako ok naman ako sa mga ex ko pero civil nalang. kamusta kamusta ganun. pero [textspeak!] para lumabas labas ulit kami na parang barkada lang ulit, hindi na pwede. there will always be that feeling na you were sweet to each other once..etc. basta civil lang.

[mayalogy]

ako i prefer not to be friends with my ex. 1. because from the very start i know guys whom i going to date or not. so i've never see them as a friend talaga. 2. if its a bad break-up it is much better to stay civil than to be friends and reminisce.

[Vera]

I'm friends with all my exes, maniwala kayo o hindi. I chat with them, encourage them -- they're all my Facebook friends. Yung mga gfs lang nila, these women drive me crazy. I even told a gf of my ex to "get over it, never in a million years will I ever take him away from you"

I prefer to be whatever. If I end up friends with my exes, so be it. If we lose touch, so be it. Pero as I said, all of my exes are my friends now.