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IronLady

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Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« on: March 14, 2010, 10:51:53 am »
hi mga sis! naranasan nyo na ba yung ganito? yung hindi nyo pa din alam yung gusto nyo? yung palipat-lipat kayo ng work na akala nyo yun na yung gusto nyo pero pagdating dun, hindi naman pala.. i dont know what to do na kasi.. normal ba toh..

im 24 na and gusto ko na mahanap yung work na pangmatagalan na.. i mean kasi hindi naman agad nasa top ka diba, so kelangan ko mag-gain talaga ng experience, pero kung yung work ko naman ngayon e hindi yun ang talagang tinatarget ko, bakit pako mgs-stay diba? pero ako ngs-stay ako for 6mos-1yr.. para naman hindi panget sa records ko.. yun lang dilemma ko... feeling ko ang onti ng oras pati ng resources ko.. hayyzzz..

pyramid555

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2010, 02:58:59 pm »
Di ka nag-iisa IronLady. Marami akong kilalang ganyan. Advice ko lang is read books on professional development tulad nung What Color is Your Parachute by Richard N. Bowles. Available sa mga bookstores. If may career counselor ka na maka-usap, makakatulong din yon.

charmed_chic

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2010, 10:39:09 pm »
di ka nag-iisa sis ironlady... sometimes ganyan din feeling ko... like these past few days... I don't really want to work anymore (not even bothering to look for a job).. meron akong ibang gustong gawin, but nobody wants to listen.. I feel like screaming but no one even bothers to look up.. oh well! what do others expect from me? syempre malaki kasi I graduated with flying colors so everybody expects super high from me..

IronLady

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #3 on: March 20, 2010, 08:27:08 am »
sis ako din.. i graduated with honors.. pero parang wala ako dun sa dapat kalagyan ko! haha! pero asan ba kasi yun? kelangan ko kasi magwork di na ko sanay ng walang pera! haha! pero yun lang natatakot na ko magpalipat-lipat ng field kasi baka mamaya di ko na naman gusto.. lilipat na naman ako at mgsisimula na naman ako sa pinakamababa! haha! sabi ko pa naman sa sarili ko dapat pag-25 na ko mejo mataas na position ko...

tata

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #4 on: March 20, 2010, 09:52:18 pm »
ako din. i used to love what i do but now i really feel lost. and i'm 30 na =(

iluvescadasport

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #5 on: March 21, 2010, 12:19:15 am »
me too! I'm turning 25 and I still don't know what to do. naprepressure din ako kasi parang all the people around me knows what they want in life. Ako, hindi ko alam. Hindi ko din naenjoy yun course ko sa college.

IronLady

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #6 on: March 21, 2010, 10:17:37 pm »
^true sis! nakakapressure na sila unti unti ng nagiging successful tapos ikaw magsisimula pa lang maghanap ng gusto mo talaga gawin...

patrina

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #7 on: March 23, 2010, 10:50:40 am »
Ako din ganyan. I graduated with honors.. Kaso when I got pregnant, I had to stop working. And after 8 mons, may nakuha akong work but I'm not happy. Ang hirap kasi makahanap ng work na gusto mo, pays well, ok ang working environment and adds experience to the career that you really want. Most of the time may factor na kulang jan.. Haha naghanda na nga ako ng resignation letter kasi may isang nakaabang na job sakin kaso feel ko I won't be happy din dun. Mas maganda lang ang pay ng konti at panalo lang sa benefits. Huhuhu  :'(

loveann

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #8 on: March 27, 2010, 02:59:23 am »
Ako rin mga sisterettes! im 25 right now. I worked sa kilalang company pero nun nalaman ko na hindi very yr nagiincrease, ayun nagdadalawang isip na ako.. hayz san kaya makahanap ng work n ok at company na ok ang benefits and compensation... ;D


IronLady

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #9 on: March 27, 2010, 08:09:07 pm »
haha! ang alam ko lang ata na gusto ko ngayon eh makapasok sa kilalang company tapos okay din yung position at work (whatever it is).. XD

hairt mini

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #10 on: March 28, 2010, 02:20:36 pm »
Di pala ako nag iisa..
Im 26 now and working here in abroad.
My previous job was with this multinational company- well compensated..super daming bonuses and benefits..yearly evaluation for increase and promotion as in superb ang package nila...work environment ok din! at related sya sa course ko(and I thought it was my dream job!)..but then.....syempre there's no such thing as perfect...ang naging problem ko is my superior..haist super mag power trip super din kung ma mersonal..(haist..ayun now lahat ng staff nya bago na..di na rin naka tiis yung iba pa naming kasama sa team, before)..

mag 4 years nang graduate and so far this is my 4th job - going to 5th..

I went here abroad kasi I thought dito I have no choice I have to finish the 2 years contract but oh well...I was wrong..after one year hanap na naman ako ng iba..(thank God meron na!) ang naging problem ko naman is salary.. >:(....lower than average na nga..delayed pa!..hmp...hopefully yung next company ko will be better and sana sya na nga...position..related pa rin sa course ko..

Still praying na ito na nga..haist..

yung mga friends ko nak ilang promotion na,,ako ohlala,,,still looking around..haist...

honeycake

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #11 on: April 16, 2010, 12:44:30 am »
ako din hala. akala ko ako lang nakakaranas ng ganito. indi ko pa din alam ang gusto. not until lately na naramdaman ko na gusto ko magturo. i want to become a techer, so para maging teacher ako need ko pa mag aral ulit. Im already 26 turning 27 this year iniisip ko is it too late para malaman ko kung ano ba talaga gusto ko?

stardust82

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #12 on: April 18, 2010, 02:40:14 pm »
me too, im 27 and im currently looking for my 3rd job. its depressing to think that we don't know what we truly want when others out there have found out what they want in their early years..

hersmart4ever

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #13 on: April 20, 2010, 04:23:49 pm »
Have you tried doing business. Baka para naman dun ka kaya di ka ma satisfied sa work.

rox_cute

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #14 on: April 28, 2010, 02:03:14 pm »
me too, 25 na rin and i'm actually pressured. compare to my batchmates who seem to be enjoying their chosen field and they're doing well pa (money). to think na super achiever ako nung nag-aarl ako tapos ganto lang napuntahan ko. ngayon pa lang ako nag-sisi sa decision na ginawa ko. ayoko mag-sisi pero hindi ko talaga maiwasan. haay.. tapos looking for a new job ako pero not sure where to start at anong field ba ang gusto ko.. gusto ko anything that involves event organizing pero hindi ako makahanap ng ganun. haay.. hirap..

meili

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #15 on: April 29, 2010, 09:01:04 pm »
why don't you try to be adventurous? try other works,take risks and you'll find out what you really want.

eternalsnow

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #16 on: May 06, 2010, 07:40:14 pm »
nakakarelate ako sayo sis. i'm 27 pero medyo confused pa rin ako. so ang ginagawa ko i'm doing part time jobs para mahanap ko ano ba talaga gusto ko gawin. 

meili

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #17 on: May 06, 2010, 07:56:35 pm »
If u still finding a job u want, maybe i can help you out i know some jobs that you'll find interesting :)

selina

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #18 on: May 07, 2010, 05:49:09 pm »
 :( hay akala ko talaga akolang din ganito. Achiever din me nung nagaaral pa ko. I was an  engineer pa nga for 5 years pro nag quit din me dun kasi feeling ko may iba kong gusto. I  thought gusto ko mag call center..yun pala ayoko din dun. Sinayang ko years ko sa dati kong company,  now I'm jobless and hindi  makabalik sa work because of my baby. Nalulungkot ako kasi kpag nakikita ko sa facebook mga dati kong mga classmates puro successful n sa mga career nila, puro nasa abroad na samantalang ako wala ng career. Hay kung hindi sana ako nagresign dati.....   :(

meili

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Re: Hindi ko pa din alam gusto ko..
« Reply #19 on: May 07, 2010, 09:20:27 pm »
:( hay akala ko talaga akolang din ganito. Achiever din me nung nagaaral pa ko. I was an  engineer pa nga for 5 years pro nag quit din me dun kasi feeling ko may iba kong gusto. I  thought gusto ko mag call center..yun pala ayoko din dun. Sinayang ko years ko sa dati kong company,  now I'm jobless and hindi  makabalik sa work because of my baby. Nalulungkot ako kasi kpag nakikita ko sa facebook mga dati kong mga classmates puro successful n sa mga career nila, puro nasa abroad na samantalang ako wala ng career. Hay kung hindi sana ako nagresign dati.....   :(

dont worry sis, It's still not to late to be successful, I believe in God, wanting good things for us, and making us a better person after we done our mistakes :), don't worry sis d pa huli ang lahat. :), many people are around too help you grow pa. =) hehe

 

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