i can't deal with my sis-in-law anymore

[chengkii]

^ Sis kung di na kayo nagbabayad ng rent diyan, I suggest stay ka nalang. Then ipon kayo to be able to buy a house sa preferred location mo. Malaking bagay na iyan na hindi kasama sa house niyo iyun SIL mo. Promise. Mas mabilis man-deadma. hehe.

Nasasayangan lang ako sa rent din kasi...parang tapon pera lang. At least, if you're able to save up, mas mabilis na din iyun transition niyo sa sariling house pa. IMO lang naman.

[krisslim]

^ Sis kung di na kayo nagbabayad ng rent diyan, I suggest stay ka nalang. Then ipon kayo to be able to buy a house sa preferred location mo. Malaking bagay na iyan na hindi kasama sa house niyo iyun SIL mo. Promise. Mas mabilis man-deadma. hehe.

Nasasayangan lang ako sa rent din kasi...parang tapon pera lang. At least, if you're able to save up, mas mabilis na din iyun transition niyo sa sariling house pa. IMO lang naman.

nope sis, we're not thinking of renting. we're thinking of buying a house. As we all know sayang lang kung magrerent di ba saka lalo ako masasabihan na maarte ni SIL, lol!! 

[babyluvs_78]

Hi mga sis! maglalabas lang ako ng sama ng loob. well, right now were here in US having a vacation and staying at my SIL house. grabe ngayon ko lang kasi sya nakasama ng matagal kaya ngayon ko lang nakita ang true color nya. First, nakakainis kasama! imagine from airport (magmi-migrate na kasi dito) 7 luggages ang meron syang dala!! syempre luggage pa namin diba as usual hubby ko nagbuhat. tapos walang ginawa kung di magmadali kaya wala kaming mga picture sa mga dapat ipicture eh first time pa naman ng baby ko. tapos dami sinasabi na pag dating daw dito ipapasyal dami ng soon to be husband nya (american) sa outlet stores and malls. sus, pagdating namin dito bahay lang kami. in short walang ginawa sa pangako. kung di ko pa sabihin pwede punta sa ganito, ganyan, hay wala!! 2nd. pati baby ko pinapatulan. hay 1 yr old baby ko.  long drive kami papunta sa brother nila mga 16 hrs yun, kahit sinong bata nakakulong sa car seat maiirita at iiyak ng iiyak eh di naman pwede alisin sa car seat diba? sabi ba naman sakin wag nyo kasi pansinin hayaan lang daw umiyak!!! kaw ba nanay matitiis mo yun? lalong iiyak yung bata pag ganun tsaka alam ko ugali ng anak ko! 2x nya ginawa sakin yun sabi ko ako nalang bahala!! nakakainis diba!! sya kasi may anak pero d sya ang nagpalaki kya walang alam sa bata!! imagine 44 yrs old na sya ISIP BATA pa din!!!! grrr!!!!!  3rd. nakita ko pinapalo sya sa mukha ng baby ko. actually pag ginagawa sakin yunn ng baby ko pinagagalitan ko baby ko. sya ginawa nya... ginagawa din nya sa baby ko! TAMA BA YUN??!!!! sabi ko wag mo ganyanin yan!! tinigilan nya.  meron pa isang time sobra iyak ng baby ko, eh gusto lang nun may mahawakan..ibato ba namn sa anak ko yun plastic bottle na walang laman. sabi ko ibato ba! sabi nya "eh di tumahimik' bwisit diba??!! grabe lahat yan sinasabi ko sa hubby wala din sya magawa. minsan nasasabihin nya ng  pasundot sundot ganun lang. sa totoo lang di ako nag enjoy dito sa stay namin. uwing-uwi na nga ako eh!! *ay meron pa pala sya sinabi..sabi daw ng soon to be hubby nya pag d na daw namin kaya sustentuhan yun baby namin bigay nalang daw namin sa kanila! HELLO ano yan aso pag ayaw mo na bibigay mo sa iba??!! grabe sabi ko ano yan laruan!!! tapos sabi ng nanay niya d ka nga makatagal sa bata eh! grabe d ko lam bakit ganun ugali nun. nakakainis!!!!

sorry kung mahaba wala lang ako mapagkwentuhan... thanks for reading it..

[evilwoman]

^ sarap upakan ng sis in law mo. bilib ako sa yo sis at nakapagpasensya ka pa. pati ba naman baby papatulan?! kung sa kin, may kalalagyan sya.. 

[krisslim]

o nga sis, sarap talaga patulan yang SIL mo! Kung saken yan di pede yan, makakatikim sya ng salita na di nya malilimutan hanggang sa mamatay sya, lol!! Barahen mo sis.. Walang mangyayare kung tatahimik lang kayo ni hubby mo. Good luck! 

[babyluvs_78]

well, ayaw ko patulan kasi may pinag aralan ako. yun lang yun. anyway, i'm happy now kasi nakauwi na kami ng pinas and i'll never see her again!! d na din nya mahahawakan baby ko!!! )

[chengkii]

nope sis, we're not thinking of renting. we're thinking of buying a house. As we all know sayang lang kung magrerent di ba saka lalo ako masasabihan na maarte ni SIL, lol!! 

LOL! Good for you.

well, ayaw ko patulan kasi may pinag aralan ako. yun lang yun. anyway, i'm happy now kasi nakauwi na kami ng pinas and i'll never see her again!! d na din nya mahahawakan baby ko!!! )

Hay naku, sis. Malamang malaking inggit lang talaga ng SIL mo sa iyo. Basta stay positive.

[babyluvs_78]

LOL! Good for you.
Hay naku, sis. Malamang malaking inggit lang talaga ng SIL mo sa iyo. Basta stay positive.

MAlamang!!! ) thanks for all the advice...

[garnet23]

hi you all,. . .pa share. . . lived with an unmarried SIL before,  she had this habit of snooping around our bedroom when hubby and i are out at work during the day (she works at night, how convenient). just to find out if she does, i remember arranging things in a particular way just to know if she is doing her "detective work" when we are out, sad to say our things get pretty much moved around, even the things that are already stored inside drawers . . .haay. . .once, she wore my pants without asking, she returned it alright (behind my back), imagine my horror when i took it out for my use: stained, crumpled and all,. . . ayayay!, our bedroom didn't have a lock (very unfortunate), it only had this hook that allows you to lock from the inside, since that lock had been in use since time immemorial, installing a new door lock would just generate raised eyebrows . . . i have items that would "disappear" only to "reappear" a few days later (when she's done using it). . . husband knows his sis had this habit, but he didn't want to rock the boat by telling her right off (ate kasi) stressful, stressful. just among the many things that really drove us to get a place of our own. good its all in the past now.

[FoxyPhoenix]

hi everyone.. it's me, the one who started this thread.

it has been a long time since my last post. a lot has happened and i have been very patient and forgiving to my sis-in-law. but last night she crossed the line. as if she was a crazy devil. pinuno nya ko. milabas ko na lahat ng galit ko sa kanya and i asked her out. i even pushed her out. but she won't leave. coz she doesnt have any place to go. sabi ko, sana binastos at inaway mo na lahat, wag na wag lang pamilya ng asawa mo! i also told her that if she doesnt want to leave then matuto syang makisama sa mga nakatira sa bahay na to! right now i am at work and still very mad. i dont wanna see her face nor hear her voice. i will make her life at "our-not her" house miserable.

[whitelady17]

sis, sana pinabayaan mo munang matulog sa labas kahit one night lang, para malaman niya ang mga mistakes niya, and kulang pa iyon sa pang babastos niya eh. Asan na pala brother mo?

[FoxyPhoenix]

nasa work kuya ko nung pinapalayas ko siya. i cant believe na ang pinakamakapal na mukhang nakilala ko nakatira sa bahay namin.. kuya ko na mismo nakikiusap na ako na magparaya at wag ko nalang daw pansinin asawa nya. which i am doing right now. ang mga taong bastos like her don't deserve my respect either.

[mommyfirst]

korek ka dyan sis. super kapal naman ng face niya! why don't they just move out? it's not healthy for all of you living in that stressful situation esp your mom.

[FoxyPhoenix]

grabe guys, that monster made me a monster. dati kasi mahinhin lang ako saka d ako palaban ngayon i am ready to wreak havoc anytime kapag pinrovoke nya ko. wala silang pera kaya d sila makaalis ng bahay. and knowing my brother, kuntento na sya na dun manirahan habamnuhay nila.

kaya ako, if i will marry someday, i will make sure marunong akong makisama sa in-laws ko. ngayon nga kung igalang ko family ng bf ko parang close relatives ko na rin. kahit hindi pa yan pamilya ng bf ko, basta alam kong nakakatanda at kapwa ko tao na marunong rumespeto irerespeto ko. whew, at least dito man lang mailabas ko opinion and sama ng loob ko..

[snowflakes]

pa share din kase ayoko naman mag gawa ng new topic para sa sis in law ko. yung SIL ko matindi, nanlalake na, sobrang tapang pa. minumura mommy ko at kami ng kapatid ko. oh diba? kung sigawan mommy ko sa harap ng maraming tao ayy grabeh. kung utusan kapatid ko parang sha nagtatarbaho. sobrang sama ng ugali palibhasa galing sa broken family kaya di marunong mag appreciate ng family.  hahaha pero noon yun nung magkakasama pa kami sa bahay. ok naman kami now, pero nagulat ako nung isang araw ng i add nya ko sa facebook, nakita ko email add nya same ng email add ko nilagyan lang ng number. di ko alam bakit kelangan nya gayahin ang email add ko. kung ako sa kayo tatanungin mo ba sha? i know its a big deal pero diba parang nakakapagtaka naman.

[cecile**]

ako din mga sis may issue sa SIL ko lately lang. kapatid siya ng husband ko and she stays abroad. angsakit ng mga narinig ko sa kanya dahil lang sa isang lote na nagustuhang bilhin ng hubby ko sa laguna na probinsya ng pamilya ko. nag-attempt kasi si hubby na mangutang sa kanya ng 100k para mabili nya yun. eh hindi ito pumayag kasi daw meron na ngang lupa silang nabili na kahati din kami. tapos sinabi nito na ang pamilya ko daw ang nagsusulsol kay hubby na kunin ang lote na yun. sabi nya kesyo napapaikot daw siya ng sarili kong magulang. which is pawang wala namang katotohanan. naaawa ako sa pamilya ko na walang kaalam alam sa pinagiisip ng babaeng yun. wala kaming kasalanan. hindi namin sya inaasahan para gastusan ang mga kailangan namin. ang mga magulang ko ay nagsasakripisyo para makapagtrabaho kami parehas ng asawa ko. so we can provide lahat ng pangangailangan ng dalawang anak namin. bakit sya ganun kasama sa magulang kong wala namang kasalanan sa kanya. at sinabihan pa niya na OPORTUNISTA. i was so upset mga sis. hindi ko alam ang dapat kong gawin.

[sistah!]

mga sis, help me naman.

i have a sister in law that i really don't feel comfortable with. a few months before i married my husband, grabe talaga ang treatment sa akin ng sister nya. she was rude and mean and would tell other people how she really didn't like me for her brother. on top of that, she would pick on every little things about me. if she saw that i wore a dress, she would automatically say im magastos/feeling maganda/mataba/maarte/mayabang or whatever else. needless to say, that was very damaging to me kasi hindi ako masyado "friendly" na tao. i can be very quiet and i tend to keep to myself and only a few people. i get along well with other members of their family so i think talagang baka she was just jealous because of all the attention that me and my hubby got before the wedding and all. anyway, after the wedding, she was trying to be nice naman by greeting me na and at least acknowleging me pag may family affair.

eto ngayon, nagyayaya sya na maki-double date sa kanila ng asawa nya (recently married sya). my husband already said yes so we're going. pero im not very open to hanging out with her. i dont know what to do because im not a very forgiving person. it makes me think ako talaga ang may problema. alam ko bumabawi sya but she never apologized to me. she did, however, tell my husband that she hopes someday we can be friends. syempre my husband is thrilled thinking that the women in his life are gonna be alright na. i think he's even hoping for friendship between us. me naman, i just hope i can survive the dinner. i just don't want to be her friend. sobrang sama ko ba?

[krazeekat]

^ Mahirap talagang meron pinakikisamahan.

This is definitely true lalo na kung di pa ninyo kaya bumukod:( Dumating na ako sa point na nagsabi ako kay husband na uuwi na lang ako Pinas, kaya lang naisip ko mag-ama ko. Si hubby dito may work at yung anak ko naman maganda performance sa school. Kaya eto tiis lang, kahit affected na ang health ko

[FoxyPhoenix]

I thought my SIL has changed for good. I thought that I can again trust her and forget all the pambabastos she's done to my mom; how small she thought of me for bearing a child without a husband; how she always bad-mouthed my family for not being perfect; and the rest of the devious acts God knows she's done to us. BUT SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THE DISRESPECTFUL, INSECURE, PSYCHOPATH, DEMONIC THAT SHE IS. Sorry for my adjectives guys, I just want to let this out..

Upon arriving home from work 2 days ago, I went straight to the bathroom to brush my teeth. As I brushed my mouth I felt something pricking and burning my lips and tasted very salty. Someone have applied muriatic acid NOT JUST in my toothbrush but also in my mom's and my son's! I texted my brother (my SIL's husband) but he just brushed the idea off. Baka daw nahulog lang sa may muriatic. Of course, she is the wife, and I cant blame my brother if he'll take her side, plus I don't have evidence.

That witch! Diyos na bahala sa kanya at haharapin din sya ng karma niya!

[melmedrano]

nakakatakot naman yang sister in law mo... baka ang susunod lasunin na kayo nyan. delikado syang tao... kung di sya aalis ng bahay nyo, kayo na lang ng mom at child mo ang umalis... para magkaroon na kayo ng kapayapaan.