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xxpetitexx

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this is normal. not only based on myself but almost all women are like this, attention seeker sa kanilang mga partner. we need to be loved and it should be felt by our partner. pag di mapansin ni boyfie, nagtatampo.
women are like waves, masaya sa una then nagiging weirdo after. kaya the most important factor for a man is to understand women.

kimpot

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i guess it's normal.  ;D

dati, hindi ako matampuhin sa past relationships ko. ngayon lang sa current relationship ako naging matampuhin. pero sinasabi ko agad. may pagkademanding din minsan. may nagbago lang ng konti, feeling ko neglected na ko.  pero ganon din nman sya minsan.  ::)


kittypowerranger

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im sure normal lang to, but my bf think its not kasi siguro foreigner siya hindi niya masyado alam yung lambing at tampo oh well  :-X

twelvth_goddess

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i'm admittedly a very self-centered person and im really used to being showered with attention. so yes, i always want na sinusuyo ako. however, i know when im supposed to say sorry and mejo nag-mellow na din ako through the years.

i want my hubby's attention 90% of the time and gusto ko lage kame may time together to talk and cuddle. i want him to always text and call me and gusto ko mahahaba yung mga texts nya. i'm very malambing to my husband eversince and gusto ko sya din ganon sa ken.

Szaishelee

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Yeah it's normal....  hay sobrang GUILTY ako bout that.. :)

merchee

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yes it's normal. girls kasi wants to be assured na love kame and all. kasi thru ganon...mas nafe-feel namin na mahal kame.

yonin

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yes it's normal.. :) ganyan din ako most of the time.. :)

pinkylady

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normal reaction yan sis. yan ang reaction ng isang gf pag neglect ng bf sa mga needs naten. [textspeak!] tipong walang effort at assertiveness ba kaasar di ba. tapso magtataka at maiinis pag naiinis tayo sa kanila.

kittypowerranger

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^ oo nga minsan nakakaguilty na kapag alam mo na mali ka talaga
kasi ako sobra talaga ako mangaway eh

jellibean

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normal!!! girls are sweet one minute, then super tampo/sungit the next.. haha!!!

halfwishing

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guilty rin ako dito. kaya siguro lagi kameng nagaaway kase i tend to whine a lot.

IronLady

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O my,  ako lang ata makapal ang mukha dito eh.

With my BFs before (o teka, hindi ganoon ka kapal my face ha ... just naman 2 before hubby  LOL)  ...

     I sure wanted loving attention as much as possible
                  of course!  I needed validation I was The MOST IMPT ONE
      Of course,  I measured it in terms of TIME SPENT in my company --
                  (immature pa nga ako noon)
      Of course, I expected to be The PRIORITY  (immature pa nga noon)

Did I make tampo?  Heck no!  I made demands.. come here now!
I want to go there, I want to do this.. now, or a little later.
I just found it more effective making my wants very clear, and being demanding about it all.... instead of like what my older sisters did... nag aantay, nagpaparamdam,  eh nakaka inip!

Might as well spell it out, demand for it/whatever, para malaman ko agad if I was gonna get it or not.

lol! ganitong ganito ko sis! basta sakin lang i want to feel loved.. parang kapag nga di sya nakapag-ILY may meaning na agad sakin.. na ako lang nagmamahal? lol! tapos mainipin din ako.. gusto ko alam ko ie-expect ko.. ayoko yung hindi sya sure sa mangyayari o sa plano namin.. pero i dont demand naman na talagang hindi nya kaya ibigay.. iniisip ko din yung availability nya.. and i always make reklamos.. yun bang gusto ko lang i-voice out ng malaman naman ng taong toh yung gusto kong manyari.. up to him kung may gagawin sya o wala.. hehe! pero ang dating pala nun demanding ako..

masasabi ko na normal toh.. kelangan lang ma-tame ang mga gfs! hehe! siguro kelangan lang din ng girl na tanggalin lahat ng insecurities nya.. kasi at the end of the day gusto lang nila ng assurance na mahal talaga sila ng bfs nila e.. :)

senorita_wia

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guilty!on multiple counts pa!hahahaha!
nasabihan nga ako ng "grow up naman please."
i think this is normal.
hindi nila gets na normal natin itong mga girls. :)

syl

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Re: sensitive,matampuhin,looking for sweetness? is this normal for girlfriends?
« Reply #33 on: September 06, 2010, 10:15:43 am »
hahaha..happy to know na di lang ako nagiisa sa mundo...kasi minsan naiirita daw siya sakin..tampo nalang daw ako ng tampo kahit simpleng bagay..sabi ko dapat matanggap mo yung sa babae..na minsan sinasadya namin magtampo para hehe....more than 5yrs na kasi kme.parang nawala na yung lambing..even siya aminado din siya na pagmatagal na wala na yung mga lambing ganyan ganyan

baliwsayo

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Re: sensitive,matampuhin,looking for sweetness? is this normal for girlfriends?
« Reply #34 on: September 27, 2010, 04:28:19 pm »
Guilty din. Mga lalake kasi kahit na yun matalino, parang ang bobo, di matandaan yun mga nakakairita sa ating mga girls.. ginagawa pa din tapos di naman marunong mang-amo.  ::)

senorita_wia

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Re: sensitive,matampuhin,looking for sweetness? is this normal for girlfriends?
« Reply #35 on: September 28, 2010, 04:45:42 am »
^Korek ka sis!sasabihan ka pa nang nakakasawa!kainis!

syl

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^Korek ka sis!sasabihan ka pa nang nakakasawa!kainis!

hahaha..same here din na nasasabihan ng nakakasawa...eh sinasabi ko na panong nakakasawa eh di mo din [textspeak!] din ako pinapansin pagnagtatampo ako...nakakainis....hirap umintindi...

meow-meow

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guilty as charged!
kala ko pa naman hindi na normal ang pagkamatampuhin ko..
now alam kong hindi ako nagiisa..  :D

haysss minsan hindi nila magets na gusto lang natin na lambingin tayong mga girls.. minsan umaabot pa na sasabihin mo na "lambingin mo naman ako.. naghihint na nga ako eh" LOL xD

ylisza

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i guess it's pretty normal.. ako kase konting kibot lang nagtatampo kaagad ako.. pero hindi naman ako yung tipong nagpapapresyo pag nagtampo, pag nagtampo ako kay h2b, ibig sabihin lang yung gusto ko ang gusto kong masusunod.. tas kiss lang nya katapat tsaka i love you.. tas sasabihin nya "ok.. ganito.. ganito.. ganito.. blah.. blah.." tas papaliwanag sya ng konte tas ayos na.. hehe! wala lang..  ;D

xxpetitexx

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it's normal naman talaga ito sa babae because one of our needs is to be acknowledged and cared by our partners. if you happen to familiarize the book "men are from mars, women are from venus" you will understand it.  ;)

 

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