Can men get too attached to someone he is having casual sex with regularly?

[itsmechariz]

sobrang interesting nga ito dahil binasa ko talaga mula umpisa. haha.
it's a must read lalo na sa tulad ko na walang kakilala na gumagawa nyan. my female friends are super conservative ako lang ata yung medyo open minded pagdating sa sex. but not to the point of engaging with multiple partners. i only have had 2 men in my life. my ex who took my virginity and 2nd is my husband. correction lang po, i have nothing against people who engage in fwb/fubu set up.

naalala ko tuloy yung napanood ko na movie. yung Love and other drugs. ganyan yung story. fubu sila then eventually they fell for each other. it happened in the movies. pero di ko lang sure if it can also happen in real life. la lang. hehe.

Same tayo. Binasa ko din from the top. Hehe. Di ko pa natapos yung movie na Love and other drugs. Haha. Palaging my gagawin o pupuntahan ako pag pinapanood ko. Anyways, maganda din yung feedback ng mga friends ko sa movie. Siguro i better finish it na. Heheh. Sorry mulang out of topic. Share lang!! Hihi

[donzski_doinks]

^maganda yung movie. hehe.. i remember after me and my hubby watched it sabi ko "let's forget that we are husband and wife and pretend that we are f*ck buddies" hehe.

[it_girl]

nakaka wasak ng puso pag nagkaron na siya ng gf. pero why does he always text me? iniignore ko na nga makulit padin. nag gf lang ba siya para saktan ako? i hate this game 

[itsmechariz]

hahaha. Ang kulet ng epekto ng movie ah.. Katuwa.

[badgurl23]

nakaka wasak ng puso pag nagkaron na siya ng gf. pero why does he always text me? iniignore ko na nga makulit padin. nag gf lang ba siya para saktan ako? i hate this game 

Hi sis, read my previous post. Dun sa pinost kong story, nag gf din yung guy. At ganyang ganyan din si girl nun, more iwas na siya nung nag gf si guy pero si guy yung makulit. Pero they remained friends naman kahit pa-martyr effect na yung babae. Yun lang, when the guy broke up with his girlfriend, dun sila lalong naging close at intimate hanggang maging sila, naging malalim na din yung relationship nila. And in all fairness, nag anniversary na sila last week lang, i saw the post sa fb. They are still happy together Hope all goes well for you din

[itsmechariz]

nice! Happy ending.

[queendi]

aaa

[bubuli]

mahirap talaga ineng pag na inlove ka, buti nalang nung nag ka roon ako ng FUBU way way back ang tagal na ata nun lol
we always set the rules never fall in love pure lust and friendship lang.. maybe yes or no,
did you ask him? or lasing lang kayo both kaya na s bi nya mahal ka nya din.

[queendi]

nnn

[bubuli]

Ask him again, be sure that your not both drunk. if the guy does not respond then she's not in love
with you. are you both single?

[queendi]

ay ganun?

[it_girl]

Hi sis, read my previous post. Dun sa pinost kong story, nag gf din yung guy. At ganyang ganyan din si girl nun, more iwas na siya nung nag gf si guy pero si guy yung makulit. Pero they remained friends naman kahit pa-martyr effect na yung babae. Yun lang, when the guy broke up with his girlfriend, dun sila lalong naging close at intimate hanggang maging sila, naging malalim na din yung relationship nila. And in all fairness, nag anniversary na sila last week lang, i saw the post sa fb. They are still happy together Hope all goes well for you din

naging pa martyr effect din ako nuon pero ngaun todo iwas na.i dunno why pero nung nagkaron siya ng gf dun siya naging mas papansin saken lagi ako hinahanap kung nasan ako at miss u ng miss u saken. ayoko din umasa sa happy ending hehe

[Mr.Punch]

nakaka wasak ng puso pag nagkaron na siya ng gf. pero why does he always text me? iniignore ko na nga makulit padin. nag gf lang ba siya para saktan ako? i hate this game 

Hindi siya nag-gf para saktan ka.  Actually, it's quite the opposite - he doesn't think you'd get hurt with whatever he does as long as he gets to f*ck you.

[NickSparks]

kapag lasing lang kami pareho may lakas ng loob na i-open yung issue.
what's weird pa is pinapag-usapan din namin if ever may mabuo, or kung kelan ang right timing, na pwede kami mag baby. but i just take it as siguro nasasabi lang yun during or after the deed. hindi kailangan i take seriously.

im assuming no protection (condom) and no commitment kayo, hmm mejo risky lang..

[jenger109]

Hindi siya nag-gf para saktan ka.  Actually, it's quite the opposite - he doesn't think you'd get hurt with whatever he does as long as he gets to f*ck you.

i agree! 

[iamlili]

For me, YES. =) but mostly rare cases lang ito ha? Happened to me once, a FUBU of mine admitted he's falling for me... But of course, hindi pwede, hanggang dun lang.

Girls should know naman talaga dapat kung ano pinasok nila. Kung FUBU/Casual sex lang, no expectations dapat. Kung papasok ka sa ganitong setup, just make sure to think like a guy.

[jenger109]

it happened to my college friend.. she has a FUBU, classmate din namin and barkada.. they were having fun at first, but then, napansin na lang namin the guy na nafa-fall na sa friend namin.. naging possessive na sa kanya and all, feeling bf na.. super nairita na friend ko, lalo na nung nagkabalikan na sila nung ex bf nya.. lalong nagwala yung FUBU nya.. super iyak talaga friend ko..sinabihan na lang yung guy nung ibang guy friends namin, naawa na kasi sa girl kasi parang nagiging stalker na si guy.. in a way, naawa din kami sa guy, but hello! FUBU nga diba.. 

ok sana kung na fall yung girl, maganda sana ending.. kaso hindi.. 

[deepbluesomething]

Posible but very rare na we will fall for someone na naka set-up ang relationship as FUBU (period). Kasi if you will engage in this kind of setup rules are in place para in the end walang iyak-talo. Ive  been to this kind of setup before . Di ako na attached whatsoever. Mahirap kasi matalo at mas mahirap masaktan

[ryan22]

Oxytocin - "the cuddle hormone" or "love hormone"

ito ang responsible bakit nagiging attached ang partners who are having sex.

[Yamski]

I asked my bf about this and his reply: possible kung parehong single at regular fubu talaga.

My follow up question: Eh pa'no kung ikaw lang ang single sa inyong dalawa?
His answer: Hindi ako magfafall dun. Pa'no ko naman mamahalin yung klase ng babae na nagpapatira sa iba while in a serious relationship with someone else?

Medyo harsh lang ng konti ang reply ni bf, may pinaghugutan kasi. May ex kasi sya na ganun. The ex-gf had one casual sex with his best friend. Ayun, break agad sila kahit pa patay na patay si bf dun sa girl.