Can men get too attached to someone he is having casual sex with regularly?

[iloveshoes88]

^better end it habang hindi pa siya overly attached sayo, easiest way to end it is to just end it.

[argento]

^gusto niya maging kami. pero friend lang gusto ko. yoko naman siya iwanan ng basta basta, kasi she's the type na konti lang ang kaibigan.

[iloveshoes88]

if ayaw mo talaga and you can't stop having sex with her better stop it because it boils down to one thing and that is you taking advantage of her. If you can be friends with her without the deed then no problem with you hanging out with her.

Guys stop taking advantage of vulnerable girls. Haha.

[argento]

^ah one time lang yun.

[Observer54]

oo nga pre!  yung wagas na pagkakaibigan na lang. walang tirahan.   

[Naughty^GuRu]

^
hehe natawa ako sa reply mo dude.

@argento: naaawa ka sa kanya kaya ayaw mo siyang iwan? pero mas nakaka-awa yata siya kung umaasa siya na maging kayo. i think it's best to cut communications with her ASAP kung talagang concern ka sa kanya.

on falling in love or getting attached, (i'm not talking about you Bro argento) may mga guys talaga na dinadaan sa ligaw, pa-sweet, and pa-asa para maikama nila ang babae. dapat start palang ng 'casual thing' niyo, clear na to both na hanggang fun fun lang kayo, no expectations, no demands, etc. at para kung may ma-inlove man, walang sisihan kasi una palang napag usapan niyo na.

[little_princess]

i have a friend who did. aminado naman siya because he broke all the rules - dated her, spoke to her regularly. she was even his +1 on my wedding pa! tapos the girl was hitting on my hubby's cute friend pero fail siya. but he's such a nice guy kasi, indecisive lang.

[jtansanco]

^ Achi, kwento naman your experience. HAHAHA! 

[little_princess]

OMG i didn;t know you were posting here as i was referring to you! mwahahaha sorry shoti :p

OT: i also have some friends who did get a little attached but nipped it in the bud. i think that's a smart move if hindi mo naman plan i-gf

[jtansanco]

^ What the hell! Referring to ME?! What??? Weren't you referring to the 2 boys and 1 girl? Haha

Achi, your experience naman! Share! Tsk.

[little_princess]

:p hahaha guilty ka naman :p

sorry, no experience with this eh! i don't have casual sex

[badgurl23]

Yes, it is possible and would like to share their story. More like friends with benefits nga lang. Both were from failed long term relationships, guy broke up from his 3yr gf and the girl from her 5yr relationship. same circle of friends din sila and the guy is friends with the girl's ex. they supported each other lalo na yung girl kasi mas recent yung break up niya so dahil the guy was always there for her, she fell for him without the guy knowing. they always hangout and even exchanged gifts on christmas until nagkaron ng gf yung guy. the girl was seriously attached to this guy to the point na sobrang martyr level na sya pero the guy was faithful naman sa long distance gf niya so kahit nagkikita sila as in almost everyday, nothing happened until the guy broke up with the girl. they still hangout hanggang may nangyari na, at napadalas talaga. the girl is really in love with the guy at alam na ng guy pero he doesnt want to be in a relationship with the girl talaga. months have passed at matiyaga talaga yung girl. hindi naman nagtetake advantage yung guy kasi pareho nila gusto yung mga nangyayari sa kanila. until one day, the guy started to feel different na for the girl, sabi nya nga, wala pang nagtiyaga sa kanya ng ganun. super tiis yung girl and that made him fall in love with her. ngayon, they are a really happy couple and kahit tignan lang sila, mukha talagang in love. Nakakatuwa lang kasi yung guy, kilala namin as sobrang loko loko pero nung naging sila, parang ibang tao na yung nakikita namin.

[Observer54]

Yes, it is possible and would like to share their story. More like friends with benefits nga lang. Both were from failed long term relationships, guy broke up from his 3yr gf and the girl from her 5yr relationship. same circle of friends din sila and the guy is friends with the girl's ex. they supported each other lalo na yung girl kasi mas recent yung break up niya so dahil the guy was always there for her, she fell for him without the guy knowing. they always hangout and even exchanged gifts on christmas until nagkaron ng gf yung guy. the girl was seriously attached to this guy to the point na sobrang martyr level na sya pero the guy was faithful naman sa long distance gf niya so kahit nagkikita sila as in almost everyday, nothing happened until the guy broke up with the girl. they still hangout hanggang may nangyari na, at napadalas talaga. the girl is really in love with the guy at alam na ng guy pero he doesnt want to be in a relationship with the girl talaga. months have passed at matiyaga talaga yung girl. hindi naman nagtetake advantage yung guy kasi pareho nila gusto yung mga nangyayari sa kanila. until one day, the guy started to feel different na for the girl, sabi nya nga, wala pang nagtiyaga sa kanya ng ganun. super tiis yung girl and that made him fall in love with her. ngayon, they are a really happy couple and kahit tignan lang sila, mukha talagang in love. Nakakatuwa lang kasi yung guy, kilala namin as sobrang loko loko pero nung naging sila, parang ibang tao na yung nakikita namin.

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[killbill]

POV naman po. what if yung guy ang magtanong ng "love mo ko?" ibig sabihin ba nun eh attached na si guy or nafafall na siya?

[mixxy16]

^minsan pwedeng pa-fall lang si guy.

[ysa_38]

Very interesting topic...

[itsmechariz]

grabe! sobrang interesting nga nito. haha, 1-8 pages nagtyaga ako magbasa sa sobrang curiosity ko. 

[ladysapphire]

imo, this does not happen. guys are really straight forward when dealing with situations and in what they want. if it's sex then it's sex. if it's love then it's love. yung mga nagsasabing attached na sila, dahilan lang nila yun para mauwi sa FUBU or FWB just my 2 cents.

[euwie]

It's easy to have sex with someone I don't love but I find it hard to have sex with someone I really like especially if she is girlfriend-material for me.

Oh my gosh. The exact opposite of how girls think. Talaga nga namang men are from mars, women are from venus 

[donzski_doinks]

sobrang interesting nga ito dahil binasa ko talaga mula umpisa. haha.
it's a must read lalo na sa tulad ko na walang kakilala na gumagawa nyan. my female friends are super conservative ako lang ata yung medyo open minded pagdating sa sex. but not to the point of engaging with multiple partners. i only have had 2 men in my life. my ex who took my virginity and 2nd is my husband. correction lang po, i have nothing against people who engage in fwb/fubu set up.

naalala ko tuloy yung napanood ko na movie. yung Love and other drugs. ganyan yung story. fubu sila then eventually they fell for each other. it happened in the movies. pero di ko lang sure if it can also happen in real life. la lang. hehe.