Can men get too attached to someone he is having casual sex with regularly?

[Mr.Punch]

^ Kasi pumapayag yung girl magpa-k@ntot.  That's all there is to it.

[Naughty^GuRu]

^
hahaha! natawa ako reply mo Sir, pero that's true!

c'mon girls! use your head! kung playtime lang ang set-up, don't expect much. kung nagpapakita si guy ng interest and sweetness, don't jump agad sa conclusion na he's into you or falling in love with you. a casual sex is a casual sex kung wala kayong relationship. and remember that guys are territorial and very competitive, they will do and say things to keep you. kaya it's better not expect anything from a casual setup. also, hindi exclusive ang casual setup, kaya i don't believe na magiging faithful kayo sa isa't isa.

my point is, don't expect anything if it's all casual and don't be exclusive.

[ice angel]

Haha nasagot nga yun question. Hindi ba nagsasawa yun guy? Kahit na Payag lagi yun girl. Kung lalaki Lang Ako at madami Ako girls Puro one night na Lang.

[mooncake and leaves]

^ i'm sure may suya din. but someone kasi that you sleep with regularly, there's not a whole lot of work involved and you're somehow guaranteed of a good time. you don't have to do the whole dance or ritual of hooking up because you've already borked that person before and you already know what to expect. unlike with a new person with whom you have to go through the awkwardness of a first time encounter. eh minsan nakakatamad umeffort nyaha. it's probably the same principle behind recycling relationships and/or refusing to break up with a current lover kahit pa you know it's not going anywhere- change can sometimes be scary/taxing.

[jtansanco]

No, because I can determine if it's lust or love.

It's easy to have sex with someone I don't love but I find it hard to have sex with someone I really like especially if she is girlfriend-material for me.

[TuscanSun]

If a guy gets attached to a casual sex partner, it is not because of the sex but because of the company or the "getting to know more" of the girl.

[ElizE]

Ang weird lang ng question, define casual?? And regularly?? Diba when you say casual, once lang.. Nameet lang tapos sex agad, walang friendly talk etc.. You are there to have sex period. So when two person agreed to have sex the second.. Third.. Fouth time it becomes regular na. Which means, nakikilaka na nila ang isa't isa.. Kasi kung gusto mo lang e sex, pwede naman casual sex sa iba't ibang tao. Pero nagiging regular kasi aside sa sex, may nakikita pang ibang something si guy dun sa babae..

[Naughty^GuRu]

@ElizE: i think yung sinasabing casual sex dito sa thread is sex without relationship/attachment. you can have multiple sex session with one person and as long as you don't have relationship with that person, it's all casual.

[Chinito]

for me this is possible.  kung yung magkausap nga lang sa phone ng mahabang oras nakaka attach na e, what more with physical contacts..

[iwannabeasupermodel]

No, because I can determine if it's lust or love.

It's easy to have sex with someone I don't love but I find it hard to have sex with someone I really like especially if she is girlfriend-material for me.

really? so can we say you're liable to cheat?

how come it's difficult to have sex with a girlfriend-material? maybe you're confusing the girlfriend-material with sister-material...?

[Chinito]

Tsk tsk. gising ka pa supermodel.. 

i think iba ang ibig sabihin ni jtansanco and i will just wait for his way of expounding it.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^haha! i'm studying. ikaw bakit gising ka pa? 

okay let's wait for him then. 

[Chinito]

Eh nagising lang then di na makatulog.

[jojo2978]

Everything is possible but highly improbable. LOL

[teejiko]

Maybe but the chances are very slim. If it started as casual sex expect nothing but casual sex. Ihiwalay ang feelings kundi talo. Enjoy lang.

[jtansanco]

really? so can we say you're liable to cheat?

how come it's difficult to have sex with a girlfriend-material? maybe you're confusing the girlfriend-material with sister-material...?

Haha may nagreply pala sa post ko.. Di ko napansin!

The thought is about f*** buddy or one night stands.. If I REALLY like someone, I can't have sex with her JUST for the sake of being fubu or for one night stand. It's different if I'm just physically attracted to a girl and may lust factor. Let's just say, in my mind, I can separate the girls na pwede kong seryosohin and girls na for playtime lang.

I had a personal experience about this but too lazy to write in text.

[sixteen16]

in my opinion ha, NO.. kung lalaki ang pinag-uusapan natin ha.. natanong ko na kasi yan sa friends kong lalaki.. iba daw ang tingin nila sa mga babaeng pumapayag kagad na makipagsex kagad.. yun daw yung mga type ng girls na hindi pang-altar. hanggang sex lang daw yun. hanggang pumapayag si girl, go and grab! libre naman daw.. hehe.. sabi nila yan ha.. mas gusto pa rin nila yung hard-to-get.. iba ang trato nila sa babaeng pangseryoso.. bihira lang siguro ang nagkakatuluyan na ganyan ang set-up.. magkaiba ang LUST at LOVE..

[jtansanco]

^ That's TRUE.

[schiezo]

it depends sa girl if she will make a move to make the guy notice her. kung liligawan ng girl ang guy, there's a big chance na madedevelop ang guy sa kanya. It may be a casual sex but there is still something that the guy likes in that particular girl, so maybe he just needs to see her in a different perspective..

[argento]

i've just had a casual sex with my textmate(girl) im not attracted to her but nababaitan ako sa kanya sex lang talaga. after nun parang naging attached na siya sa akin. lagi tumatawag at nagtetext. she just came from a failed relationship. [textspeak!] ba dapat gawin dito?