Can men get too attached to someone he is having casual sex with regularly?

[mimiku]

Yes. My ex was one of those.  He fell for his dirty tattooed wasted FUBU kaya he broke up with me. It could happen lalo na kung aanga anga yung guy katulad niya. 

[Chinito]

woooo.. that's really sad mimiku.  wag ka mag alala. realizing will be next to him. what comes around goes around. be happy 

[mimiku]

hehe. Ganun talaga. It's his choice and wala na akong magagawa doon. Okay naman na ako. I've moved on, it's been almost a year na. I had a spiral downfall, but I managed to survive. Hayaan na lang natin siya. I hope he's happy with his choices. Yeah, I know what goes around comes around but to tell you honestly, I really don't give a damn about him anymore. I'm just praying and hoping that someday I'll find the right guy. Thanks!!!

woooo.. that's really sad mimiku.  wag ka mag alala. realizing will be next to him. what comes around goes around. be happy 

[Chinito]

yes you will.
he's right there..

[carmilina]

^flirt ka din ah!!hahhaha..

anyway..[textspeak!] may chances na ma fall din cla...

[Chinito]

hahah.
hello there carmilina. sipag ahh.

[abbey05]

yes possible. for me, maganda na yung may usapan kayo na walang emotional attachment lalo na kapag may sabit yung guy and that you're just doing the deed to satisfy your curiosities.

[masato]

unga, all too confusin'... 

[Sean1919]

mabuti nga if clear on both sides na pang fubu lang eh eventually mayroon talagang nadadala ng emotions lalo na pag hindi na "casual", nagiging regular na...lol:)

[weirdbeach]

^ yun yung sad part, pag nadala na yung isa tapos hindi naman nagrespond yung isa. ang sad kasi hindi maiiwasan na may ma-fall ka dun sa tao. kaya lang sa bed lang kayo compatible para sa kanya. ouch. :|

[icze]

: it happens. same reasons with girls falling for their casual partners.

mahirap lang kapag "obsessed" na yung guy sa girl.

[chengkii]

: it happens. same reasons with girls falling for their casual partners.

mahirap lang kapag "obsessed" na yung guy sa girl.

Parang wala naman atang right mag engage sa casual sex ang girl na may tendency maging obsessed. hehe. Naku, dapat pala kasama sa screening ito ng mag-e-engage no - historical incidents. hehe.

[sweetkiss060210]

IMHO.. Love is the most complicated emotions you could handle.
you can't play with love but love can play or fool with you.
minsan may mga simpleng bagay na ginagawa or nagagawa natin unconsciously without knowing na nasa bingit na pala tayo. and then suddenly we fall. bakit? dahil we're simply humans. and human's are self serving. gagawin natin ang lahat para lumigaya tayo ; to pleasure ourselves,to comfort, to be satisfied. right?. and after that kahit alam natin na mali. just to conserve what we need and what we have, at dahil nag eenjoy tayo. GINAGAWA NATING TAMA ang alam nating MALI.. we try to convince ourselves and say so many lame excuses para di tayo masyado ma guilty.
pero alam natin deep inside na MALI nga in the first place pero ginawa natin.. but it's all natural. that makes us human. falling in love in a wrong place and a wrong time is not a LIE but it is the TRUTH.
so my answer is YES. it is possible!! 

haaay...ur willing to go for it kahit lam mo talagang mali ang nangyayari...its hard to accept but its true

[menice]

YES

[Poleng]

: it happens. same reasons with girls falling for their casual partners.

mahirap lang kapag "obsessed" na yung guy sa girl.

really happens talaga? a guy towards a girl... interesting info.
hirap kasi iDecode ng mga lalake. unpredictable naman talaga from the very beginning, kaya nga mas maganda kung straight forward yung individual.

^complicated naman. pero sabi nga nila, saka mo lang makikilala ang tao pag nakasama mo na sya sa isang bahay. focus on your kid nalang kuya. pero wag mo rin sana isaAlang alang yung happiness mo. pray!

[chengkii]

parang nakarelate ako ah.. I'm a married man with a kid. parang di ko na mahal asawa ko. Actually, di pa namin kilala isa't isa when we get married. after d marriage yun, lumabas na ang mga attribute na "di pala sya yung gusto kong pakasalan". pero kasal na kami kaya wala na akong magawa. until she got pregnant. ayun lalo na tuloy akong nahirapan na iwan sya.. & the only thing that binds us now is our baby & not the love anymore.. i always think of attempting to get attached with other girl kaya lang natatakot ako na baka mahuli nya ako..at sa mga sasabihin ng ibang tao..  kaya eto tiis na lang, pinasok ko to eh..

Question lang, hindi mo naman pala nabuntis, bakit mo pinakasalan agad?

[gorgeous_mommie]

very informative.. and entertaining topic.
for me though, yeah i think it is posible..

[pau_dooms33]

Question lang, hindi mo naman pala nabuntis, bakit mo pinakasalan agad?

eh kasi po di ko naman expected na magbabago pagtingin ko sa kanya.

[euwie]

what's the difference between fubu set up and an affair?

my husband cheated on me for over 2 years kasi LDR pa kami non. ang kwento nya sa kin, sex lang daw talaga habol nya. they do it maswerte na ang twice a month. minsan wala pa because of workload sa office kasi officemates sila. may "anniv" sila kuno pero they didn't go on dates like a typical bf-gf would do. and lagi lang sila sa makati cinema square nagmi-meet para walang makakita. sabi ng asawa ko, minsan they eat first sa mga fastfood before going to sogo motel (ang cheap talaga ng kabit nya!). minsan rin they watch movie, mga 3 times lang yata. tapos lagi lang sila nagtataxi maski na may sariling car asawa ko. tapos hanggang edsa lang daw, bababa na asawa ko sa taxi then tutuloy na yung kabit sa house nila somewhere in pasig. 

but! they give gifts to each other. pero wala pang lagpas 7. super cheap nung babae, nakita ko yung mangilan ngilang tshirts na binigay nya, kala ko galing ukay e. ahahaha! etong kabit kasi, she demanded gifts from my hubby. pinakamahal na na binigay ni hubby e yung ipod shuffle na 2nd hand pa yata na binili ya over the net. he even said na binigyan nya ng mga ganon ganon si kabit kasi yun daw gusto ng mga kabit, yung feeling nila ginagastusan sila. sabi ng hubby ko, ni-"gf" daw nya yung si kabit kasi baka hindi naman daw pumayag yun magpunta motel.

pero alam na alam ni kabit na parausan lang sya. kasi clear sa kanila yung ginagawa nila pero ang problema, si kabit na obsess sa hubby ko. sabi ng hubby ko, ilang beses daw nya pinilit na itigil kaya lang tinatakot sya nung kabit na isusumbong sa kin or sa family ko. never nagpromise asawa ko sa kabit nya. never daw sya nagkwento about me, in fact, ayaw nyang pinag uusapan ako kapag nagtatanong na si kabit about me.

ngayon wala na sila nung nahuli ko sa ym. sabi ng asawa ko, bumubwelo sya para matigil na. gusto daw nya manggaling mismo sa kabit na ayaw na nya para sigurado syang hindi sya tatraydurin na isumbong sa akin.

guys, possible ba to? nahihirapan kasi ako intindihan sya. hindi ko maintindihan ang mga lalaki sa ganitong situation. alam ko sa sarili ko hindi ako naniniwala sa mga sinabi nya. 

[sxymnky]

Ako din hindi naniniwala lol...i think yung hubby mo ang obsessed sa girl...