Lesson learned after the breakup

[shatygabrielle]

huwag baliwalain ang mga unang simptomas na parang may mali sa relationship. madalas, tama ang instincts natin. at tama si sis euwie, paranoid over kampante. dahil kung walang fire, walang usok.

       Hello tama po sabi nga nila its better to commit mistakes on the side of paranoia than nothing to do at all.

[lilmissprettydiva]

1. Mas naging mature
2. If you're not happy let go
3. Old habits die hard... hindi sya magbabago overnight
4. Love yourself
5. Be strong and choose to be happy always

[cubicle]

wag matakot na magmahal ng sobra... wag matakot magtiwala at ibigay ang lahat para lang sa pagmamahal. kung masaktan ka man, matutong magpatawad. at kung iwan ka man nya, matuto kang magparaya.. tanggapin ang katotohanan at wag magbubulagan..

kesa naman magsisisi ka at isipin mo kung san ka nagkulang... mas OK na yung alam mong wala kang pagkukulang.

tumpak!

[macblush]

1. Mas naging mature
2. If you're not happy let go
3. Old habits die hard... hindi sya magbabago overnight
4. Love yourself
5. Be strong and choose to be happy always

Agree! I am no longer happy thought sad kasi married na kami pero no choice but i need to let go. kesa mag suffer ako and your right hindi sya magbabago overnight and not so soon, its either take it or live it ang ugali ng hubby ko. so i choose to leave  him and now i am trying to be strong and be happy

[rlin_0811]

I learned to value my worth, love myself more than anyone else.

[ITSNINA]

1. Wag palaging nang-aaway, lalo kung maliliit na bagay lang naman, palampasin na.

Gantong-ganto ko ngayon kasi nagseselos ako pero wala naman talaga. hay ang hirap magpaka mature, lumalabas tlaga pagka-kitid ng utak ko. i hate myself.

[m_lim]

huwag mo ng balikan pag nag break na kayo. yan talaga never ever ko na gagawin.

[kysmet]

Just want to share what I had read on my fb:

THE HARD LESSONS ON LOVE AND MEN


8. There is a guy who will value you.

There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don't lose hope. Don't settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says it's just the way he really is. He's not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

This really happens? Really? Dating a lesbian because you are tired of men? Lol. Ok then.

Anyways, I learned that everyone has a saturation point. Magsasawa ka din. You can chase him, let him use you, abuse you etc. Be super sweet. Bantayan siya 24/7. Turn a blind eye. Justify and forgive his nonfeasance and malfeasance. Believe him when deep inside you know it is all lies.

But you will wake up one day and realize, why in heaven did you put up with it? I mean, di ka naman pangit or bobo but why is this person, not an extraordinary person ha a mere ordinary mortal, is taking advantage of you and you are letting him? Love? Not really, or maybe you just forgot about it because you are tired of the emotional roller coaster that happens every time he doesn't answer his phone, or is late or is "busy".

So I guess, if you still want to fight for him, knock yourself out. Kasi in the end, magsasawa ka din. And once it is finished, you realize the "break up" was long overdue. 

[chefytine]

im so much stronger now though para for me may negative side. after breakup for how many months drama [textspeak!] ako ng drama ,iyak ng iyak..(melodramatc) pero after that parang naubusan nko ng luha kht na pagalitan pko ng parents ko, magaway man kme ng kapatid ko ,wala. wala na talaga ako mailuha. before mapagalitan [textspeak!] ako naiiyak nko,mainis or nagalit [textspeak!] ako naiiyak nko. pero ngyn wala na. though i feel sad din [textspeak!] kung may arguments ako with anybody,pero di ko na magawa [textspeak!] maiyak. i until now i dont know,whats wrong with me? feeling bato na ata puso ko, enough with all this drama! nashare ko na dapat ko ishare..

[hellyeah]

i learned to own up to my past mistakes.

[kirstenchelsea]

don't put your eggs in just one basket

[iam_ria]

"kung ayaw mo na, e 'di ayaw ko na din.."

[mesmerized60112]

Follow your instincts. Not everything he says are true.Especially if you're in a LDR.

[SAMSOONGET]

Acceptance... tanggapin na lahat na wala na at tapos na at masaya na siya sa ibang mundo kaya panahon na para ikaw naman ang maging masaya

kung ayaw kang bigyan ng closure ikaw na magsara

umiyak, malungkot, umiyak malungkot kasi lilipas din ang lahat matatapos din lahat!!!!

wag magpaka PEANUT BITTER!!!!!

[Frothe]

be forgiving..

[chicgurl]

forgiveness + acceptance = joy/bliss

[sweety_paige]

Don't let go of the person if you're not ready to see that person happy with someone else.

[lunast]

lesson i learned...

after a break up, wag magpapadala sa emotions... everything you're going thru is normal pero wag ka magpapatalo. wag ka magpupunta sa mga lugar na madalas nyang puntahan dahil umaasa ka na kapag nakita ka nya baka magbago ang isip nya. wag mong istalk ang facebook at myspace acct nya para malaman kung iniisip ka b nya o nagsisisi b sya. wag ka nang humingi ng closure-- wag kang magmakaawa.

kasi kapag nahihimasmasan ka na at na-drain na ang emotions sau, magsisisi ka sa mga kagagahang nagawa mo dahil u were blinded by pain. i-respect mo ang sarili mo. he is not worth it.

[DaintyMe]

- Wag mag-stay sa isang bad relationship at umasa na magiging ok din in the future.
- Hindi lang siya ang nagiisang lalake sa mundo
- Self respect
 

[k_heart]

Wala lang, that it will pass, then distant memory na.