Why can't we find love?

[fredprinz]

True. But I don't see anything wrong with women exerting effort to find the guy they want.

Parating nasa tao ang gawa. Kung tutunganga lang tayo and wala naman tayong ginagawa to meet new people, we tend to settle kung sino ang available especially for women that's pressured by society.

Assuming that you're single, don't you do anything to meet guys, twix01?

[purple.strawberry]

@fredprinz Lahat ata tinatanong mo niyan! Haha.

I think what sis twix01 is saying is that we shouldn't feel the lack of having a boyfriend, kumbaga hinahanap in the sense na di ka kuntento kasi gusto mo ng ganun sa buhay mo. I agree naman na kusa yang dumadating, but first we should learn to be happy on our own muna.

Di ko naman sinasabing wala ka dapat gawin ano, kasi siyempre dapat you mingle din. It's just that, in our lives, we will meet a lot of potential life partners talaga. You can call it destiny or whatever you want, it's part of our life plan. May darating at darating.

[xtine]

Good read for all single ladies.

http://shirleymaya.com/2014/12/08/successful-single-women/

[wanderbrewha]

why are you even looking for one?

[fredprinz]

And I totally respect that.

Kung may darating at darating nga pero k*pal/douchebag naman, kayo din ang kawawa.

Never settle for less, ladies. =) Stay classy!

@fredprinz Lahat ata tinatanong mo niyan! Haha.

I think what sis twix01 is saying is that we shouldn't feel the lack of having a boyfriend, kumbaga hinahanap in the sense na di ka kuntento kasi gusto mo ng ganun sa buhay mo. I agree naman na kusa yang dumadating, but first we should learn to be happy on our own muna.

Di ko naman sinasabing wala ka dapat gawin ano, kasi siyempre dapat you mingle din. It's just that, in our live, we will meet a lot of potential life partners talaga. You can call it destiny or whatever you want, it's part of our life plan. May darating at darating.

[purple.strawberry]

^Why so nega. Hehe.

[~yufa~]

Minsan napapaisip ako if there is really someone out there who is willing to share their happily ever after with me...I am happy most of the time pero syempre, sometimes I miss yung times na may someone who will make me smile everyday. Pag iniisip ko, para lahat na ata ng heartbreaks naexperience ko na: 1)breakup 2)the one that got away 3)paasa and lastly 4)friendzoned. Ano pa ba kulang? Baka kailangan makumpleto ko muna sila lahat para makuha ko na yung happiness na yun. Haay...in addition, I'm not getting any younger na.

[Girltalker2]

^ sis, wala sa age iyan. sometimes you get to meet HIM na truly magiging masaya ka later.  But you are more wiser at alam mo na ang gusto mo (dahil sa napagdaanan mo rin).  So be patient lang, feeling ko darating ang nakatakda. If it is meant to be talaga, the Lord will make way for that.

More than 10 years din ako nagsoul searching. Di ko akalain na makaka meet pako ng someone who will love me and I will love and cherish as well. During those years kasi everything was a blurr, di ko ma picture sarili ko with someone happily.  But God knows best, in His time, nagagawa nya.

 

[Filipinasadhart]

nice story @Girltalker2. Me too di na ko nagmamadali kung darating darating db. tama ka after all ng mga pinagdaanan ko naging wais na din ako sa love at pakikipagrelasyon. di naman ako panget para di makakita ng right guy saka isa pa gusto ko yun compatible kame. Hirap kase kung di rin kame magkasundo tapos ayun mauuwi din sa hiwalayan.

[~yufa~]

^ Thanks sis pero minsan talaga nakakapressure din eh aminin ko man or hindi. Actually, for a time (years) i thought manhid na ako eh. Na I thought I will never love someone again after the first 3 heartbreaks. Then unexpectedly, I fell for a friend. Tapos frinendzone lang ako. Perfect na sana sya. Kaso ayaw naman niya sa akin. Ang hirap lang kasi kahit chance to prove my worth di nya ako binigyan. Ang sakit lang. Sa ngayon nagpapaka-"OK" ako sa harap nya pero everytime mag-isa ako like right now, naiiyak ako. Medyo fresh pa kasi ang lahat. Ang hirap lang kasi na bakit kung sino gusto ko, ayaw sa akin. Tapos kung sino may gusto sa akin, ayoko naman

[argento]

Ang hirap lang kasi kahit chance to prove my worth di nya ako binigyan. Ang sakit lang.

ganyan talaga ang mabasted 

[~yufa~]

^hahaha. Yes! Now I know the feeling (unfortunately)

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

Happy New Year single ladies  I hope and pray that we find our one true love this 2015, Cheers!!!

[argento]

you'll find love, just don't play hard to get 

[candacena]

bakit nga ganun no? yung gusto mo ayaw sayo. yung ayaw mo gusto ka. ganyan nararansan ko ngayon eh. pilitin ko man dahil mabait naman siya at pwede na ang looks. wala talaga eh. may iba akong gusto eh. na unfortunately ayaw sakin. hehe. will I ever find true love? 

[shentacey]

mahirap masabi na true love kasi alam naman natin na once andyan yung situation feeling natin true love na then sooner or later we will realize na infatuation lang pala or hindi siya para sa atin... I almost surrender looking for the right person, nag enjoy na lang ako kasama mga kabarkada ko and family but then he came! ilang dekada din ang dumaan pero it's worth the wait... take note kung kailang wala akong effort na hanapin siya saka naman dumating! minsan nga natatawa na lamng ako sa iba nasa 20s or early 30s pa lang feeling nila magugunaw na ang mundo kasi walang karelasyon... I kept on telling them na wag mainip kasi darating at darating yan...

[unsophisticatedme]

@shentacey: sana nga dumating sya

[stebsy]

Ako naman super infatuated as in ultimate crush ko na talaga siya making me think siya na ang true love ko hahahhaha! Nakakainis lang Kasi nasa Canada siya at nandito ako. MU kami pero ayaw nya ng LDR. Needy daw siya. Whatever, crush ko parin siya.

[confusedjoanna]

why cant i find love?
maybe because i was hurt by my so-called great love.
maybe because i cant still forgive my self, i cant trust and i built an empire to protect my heart.
maybe, just maybe.. i'm too focus to still mend my broken heart
even after almost 4 years of break-up.

[Girltalker2]

^ you're right, this is one of the common reasons. We focus on something na medyo malabo i-pursue. We have to keep ourselves open to opportunities if we truly want to find a partner. Don't get stuck in a deadend situation.