Hi sis @labyu wala namang right or wrong but strategic lang din
Think of it this way sis: what you want to post online is the best version of yourself without deception. When you go out to a party or to hang at a bar, you probably dress nice and put on make-up diba? But it's still you! Hindi make-up na contouring and change-face na. I get that you want to show a raw version of yourself but even in regular dating, we tend to peel our layers slowly as we get to know a person in a deeper level. The deeper level happens over time (kaya nga mga sis natin may preference to communicate muna with a prospect and not meet-up agad).
Remember, men are visual creatures. They are hunters (pre-civilization) so men tend to need visual connection in order to build a deeper connection/relationship with someone.
I would suggest sis put up a variety of your favorite photos -- use the portrait photo option of an iPhone X for a portrait shot. Have some photos that show your full body. Action shots are important. Yung profiles na parang toothpick (stick) or nakapose sa mall or may kasamang friends and doing nothing are big No-No's. You should look relaxed and having fun in your pictures, and pictures that TELL A STORY, or ask for interpretation. Picture na nakaupo sa couch sa Sala into -- nothing interesting and does not tell or beg for a story to be asked. Picture of you riding an elephant in Bangkok? Winner. Pictue with your girlfriends? Yes -- but only one or two not all.
As for a description or text in your profile -- be ready with your elevator pitch -- write a brief bio that can be read in 30 seconds -- the time it takes to go from the top/exec floor to the lobby in an elevator. Too little is not good, too much is boring -- what will the guy want to ask you/talk to you about if there is no mystery left?
Short descriptions: put in some things that your audience can latch on (something they can sense you have in comomon) because these are relatable and topics they can discuss with you! Favorite books, favorite TV shows, movies, pets, sports, hobbies, what is in your bucket list, the last place you traveled to, where your next travel destination is, etc.
Add intriguing one-liners that make you stand out. Trivia or fun fact about yourself, this is what makes you UNIQUE and mysterious:
"I lost myself in the Sahara desert for five days, in a journey of self-discovery. It was my most favorite experience yet."
"My most unforgettable meal is the one I shared with a tribal community living in the northern mountains of the Philippines. I was lost from my group and these wonderful people took me in."
"I once let James Franco spit on my hand at a concert - ask me all about it."
As for conversations sis, let it build up naturally but be conversational. Ask about them just as they ask about you. It should be two ways diba not just Sila lang nagtatanong, you have to show interest too.
Marami Pako tips mga sis. Will keep sharing.
