i can relate to this
in summary, i want to be with someone
1) who appeals to me. if not in every way then in the ways that matter, at least.
2) i will be proud to introduce to family, friends and colleagues
3) who has the character traits that i am looking for dependable, has a high sense of responsibility, etc.
4) who has a career. not just a job he keeps so he can get by. irita ako sa mga tamad.
5) who can converse well enough and is sensible.
6) presentable, at the very least.
7) and when the times comes to get serious, someone who is financially stable enough to start and sustain a family comfortably. right now, i may not be able to buy all the things i want but i can afford most of them. in short, if my lifestyle does change, it should be for the better, not the worst! i am not materialistic but when it comes to mga gamit, i go for quality over quantity. and quality does not even have to mean branded
the list can go on mga sisters. i believe that these are standards that we should set for ourselves.. i take care of myself, improve myself and work hard to get the things that i want. why settle for anything less when it comes to men?
if it takes us women so long to choose a pair of shoes, that in a few years time will wear out and we throw out, then we should even be more careful when it comes to choosing the significant other. dahil yan, mahirap i throw out! LOL!
the men that i happened to get attracted to were attached so automatically, hindi pwede magpa cute don. the single ones that seem to have potential naman, turn out to be gay. wala naman ako magagawa don diba? pag nag papasin ako sa mga yon in the hopes of turning them straight eh baka sabihan lang ako na mas maganda pa sila kesa sa akin
kaya habang naliligaw pa si SO, if darating nga siya eh di carry muna and enjoy being single
