Single people in their late 20s all the way to 30s

[awesomemaia]

Ano ba mas nakaka pressure yung magpakayaman or mag start na mag isip to build your own family?! Daming pressure sa buhay naman! Ang iba sa dami ng pera di pa din masaya?! Ang iba naman sa dami ng anak di pa din masaya kasi walang pera?! D talaga binibigay nga ang lahat pero di ko lang matantya ano ba dapat kong unahin since di pwede pahsabayin eh kaso tumatanda na din?! Hahahha!! Haiz

[Girltalker2]

^ feeling ko mas importante ang finances kasi mas controlado mo sya. kung baga mas may magagawa ka about it.

Once you have the money, you can do anything you want and enjoy life, kahit may bf o wala. Kasi paano if mr right comes along tapos wala ka man lang pang taxi or pang date (kkb), sayang naman di ba?

[reann787]

hey how are you girls doing well right now im 27 and turning the next chapter on october (sometimes im thankful na my birthday is in the last quarter of the year LOL) newly single.. i finally let go na sa bf ko na yun after almost 2 and a half years.. in terms of looks my ex is the type na habulin.. in terms of porma swak din.. the downside was i find him immature and unreliable..  you know sa age ko na to im looking for stability, and that was what na wala sakanya yung parang feeling ko na sa akin pa yata sya aasa.. im sharing this with you girls because i know the feeling na nag aapura na LOL lalo sa age natin na were not getting any younger.. but no matter what you do, dont settle for someone na walang direksyon at pangarap sa buhay, maybe ang kalabasan eh maging pasanin mo din instead of na katuwang mo sana..

[17glut]

Ano ba mas nakaka pressure yung magpakayaman or mag start na mag isip to build your own family?! Daming pressure sa buhay naman! Ang iba sa dami ng pera di pa din masaya?! Ang iba naman sa dami ng anak di pa din masaya kasi walang pera?! D talaga binibigay nga ang lahat pero di ko lang matantya ano ba dapat kong unahin since di pwede pahsabayin eh kaso tumatanda na din?! Hahahha!! Haiz

mag ipon ka lang ng mag ipon tapos saka mo isipin kung ano talaga gusto mo gawin. Mas maganda nang may naitabi ka for yourself para may pang salo ka sa mga basic necessities, mas nakaka depress kasi yung limitado ang kilos mo kasi wala kang pang gasta. Kalokohan yung madaming pera pero hindi masaya, mga bored lang na tao nagsasabi nun, iba pa rin yung mga naitago kang ipon.

[awesomemaia]

^^ thank you sa mga nag reply saken dito! Ive been absent here for almost 6 months i almost forgot na may girltalk nga pala ko.. Tama yung sa nag aapura/pressured in terms sa mga kamag anak na continuos ang pagtatanong saken. Alam ko normal lang ito at hindi naman ako nag iisa.. Tama din na we are not getting any younger di ko namalayan mag 25 na ko few more months! Parang kelan lang 18 ako Lol. Ganun nga siguro pag career un lang talaga pag lovelife yun lang din talaga. Tama ayoko sa lahat yung walang sense kausap at tipong kkb sa first date wag naman ganun nakakatamad talaga hahaha!! Haiz wala lang nalulungkot na ko wala man lang bang makapansin?! Sa love lang ako immature ang hirap ihandle at ako mismo nahihirapan sila ihandle.. Either maging happy ako with someone or i will grow old alone. Yan lang choices ko ngayon. Haha drama much ba eh kasi naman alam ko sa sarili ko na mahirap ako ihandle kaya parang nakikita kita ko na  na ako lanh talaga mag isa.. Oks naman ang work at ofcourse san pa ba ko magiging busy di na edi sa work 😄😊

Thank you ulit ha mga sis.. Wala lanh maka ease ng lungkot ko kahit si God hindi din kasi katwiran ko naman is matagal ko na siyang kilala since birth so baka natatake for granted ko kahit si God.. Wala ako magawa basta alam ko lang malungkot ako.. Hehe

[Moran]

Sa mga single people na gusto ng kwentuhan.
Any topic, okay ako.

Bored ka ba? Tara usap tayo.

[pinkadelic]

Most of my friends are getting married or are in years of relationship. And then there's me hehe. I don't let it get me down. Yun nga lang, naiinip na ko sa kakahintay!

[stebsy]

Recently I enjoy being single and meeting or dating a few guys of different nationalities.
😂
Kakaloka lang. 24hrs is not enough. Makes me want not to settle down but enjoy the friendship and whatever that the opposite sex can offer. hehe

[remilicious]

Same here I've been single for several years now since my last relationship. Makes me think sometimes if I'm destined to be alone forever or not hahaha! Though I chose to be single for some time because of my last painful relationship. But lately, since I'm in my 30s, I would love to try dating again and see if I can meet someone for the long haul.

[plumpolka]

I consider myself single kahit pa I have a bf kasi I dont see myself marrying this guys due to a number of complicated reasons. Just staying kasi mahal ko pa talaga e. But i'm still praying to God na makilala ko yung tao na maiisipan ko talagang pakasalan and spend my life with him. And if hindi dito sa bf ko ngayon, may God guide me to the right path. Im sure naman God will make a way or something if it's not going the way He planned it to be. Kaya ganon na lang din ginagawa ko ngayon since love ko pa naman bf ko. By status I am not, but by heart, i sorta am.


im 27... not seeing myself to be married... not before 30.

[Girltalker2]

Just staying kasi mahal ko pa talaga e. But i'm still praying to God na makilala ko yung tao na maiisipan ko talagang pakasalan and spend my life with him.

Sometimes you create your destiny. You're still young, parang sayang oras mo sticking with a guy na mahal mo(?) but not willing to marry.

Pano mo makikita ang ideal guy mo if you're still with your bf?

And what happens if you happen to meet Mr right and you're still with this guy? Ditch him asap?

[plumpolka]

^ i love him pero i dont think i'm ready or will ever be ready sa mga circumstances na kasama by marrying him.


tama ka, maybe i'm just wasting my time with him. di ko alam kung im taking this time para maging ready ako (knowing i wont, hoping i will pero di ko talaga alam) or if im just afraid to be really single kasi part na sya ng routine ko. heart vs mind ako right now. and ayoko pa mag decide, di pa ko ready so dun na muna ako sa gitna.


I'll just cross the bridge when I get there. d pa ko makapag commit sa magiging decision ko.

[kvandenhaak]

Bakit hanggang 30 lang? Pano naman ang mga single in their 40's and up, or those who became single? LOL!

[Girltalker2]

^ that's why I created another thread for 35 and up!!! ^^

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php?topic=266089.0

[kvandenhaak]

^Oh, thank you! I thought na-echapwera na kami...lol!

[ms.bumbay]

Im 28 at single din. Huwag magmadali darating lang kusa ang true love na yan.

[auroralane]

Turning 30 and single. Almost 3 years nadin after my last breakup. May mga pros and cons din magiging single. I have different group of friends and mostly lalo yung college friends ko lahat married na and 2 nalang kami sa group ang walang baby. Masaya naman maging single pero minsan nakakamiss din to have someone. At aminin na natin minsan nakakalungkot din pero i don?t regret naman what life I have for the moment. Anyway dun sa mga single padin like me, nalate lang siguro yung para satin lam niyo na napakatraffic ngayon as in super traffic so let?s enjoy the singleness for the meantime. Hugs and kisses to everyone.

[lizmorach]

Guy. Turning 32. NGSB. Never nanligaw. Waiting for true love.

[hushush]

^manligaw ka po. Hindi basta basta lalapit ang true love. 😊

[kvandenhaak]

^Mga babae nga nanliligaw na, ikaw pa? Kaya mo yan.

Which makes me ask the question. Mahirap ba talaga manligaw? Parang hindi naman?