Single people in their late 20s all the way to 30s

[glendale]

^oMG! ako kase hindi ko naman na-eenvision na kinakasal ako. sign ba yun? huhuhu waaahhhhh pero meron naman gusto magpakasal saken pero ayoko naman. naku baka destined talaga na maging oldmaid ako, if ever that would be so sad kase ala na din ako parents eh 

[ylisza]

hi sisses.. pasali sa chikahan.. hahaha! major-major karelate.. LOL! been single for i think about two years now.. i'm 29.. came from an 8 year relationship din.. naka move on na ako luckily.. i'm looking, pero mahirap.. ewan ko ba.. hindi naman ako choosy.. pero wala talaga e..

iniisip ko iba talaga pag kabataan.. ibang-iba na kapag nagkaka edad.. pero ikaw din naman yon.. haha!

may mga nagkakagusto din naman saken kaso lang mga bata.. hijo, hindi pa ako handang maging pangalawang ina mo.. kaloka! mga 17, mga 19.. LOL! ano na bang nangyayari?

hmmm.. kung hindi talaga kapalaran na makapag asawa, ok lang.. masaya pa din naman ako e..

[misao]

i'm not sure kung single na ko 1 month na kaming walang communication ng (ex?)bf ko. ldr kasi
ako rin kahit nung 18 pa lang ako, sabi ko ayoko mag-asawa... ngayon at this age bracket (sorry in denial pa ko sa age ko haha), kinukulit na ko ng parents ko to get married. eh hindi naman nila alam yung situation namin ng bf ko eh. madami pa kong gustong gawin. inaasar pa ko ng dad ko baka raw baog kaming magkakapatid kasi ni isa sa min wala pang may asawa o anak.

[alexandrea]

I have never envisioned myself getting married, too. As in never. Weird kasi I remember my friends nung high school, teens pa lang kami pero may clear idea na sila on how they want their wedding to be. Ako wala, kaya pag tinatanong ako kung ano ang dream wedding ko, wala akong masagot.

Never din akong nagkaroon ng desire na magkaanak. Even now, at 29, I cringe at the thought of being a mom. Sabi nila it will change daw when I have my own kids na. Well, sa tingin ko naman magiging okay akong ina. Nagtataka lang ako kasi yung mga kasing-edad ko now, gustong-gusto nang magkaanak. Yung mga single friends ko nga, nag-a-alala. Ako hindi.

[beck19]

when ang meetup? lesgow.. mukhang kailangan ko ng mga inputs niyo mga sisses

im starting to accept na isa ako sa na-awardan ng single-blessedness.. wala naman masama dun, kaya lang nahihirapan akong magsettle sa ganung thought.. kasi (pano ba), once i accepted the fact, baka hindi ko na i-consider to be in a relationship.. ewan.. or maybe this is just my way of "protecting" myself..

[beck19]

i think the only drawback of being alone at this stage is when i want to go out for some fun and wala akong mahatak na kasama because most of my friends already have families of their own.

samahan kita sis... hehe.. minsan yan rin problema ko.. para kasing ang "loser" ng feeling na sad ka kasi wala kang makasama.. THO ok rin naman magsolo, i have single female friends who do solo backpacking, and i really really am amazed on how much fun they get with their travels.. 

[mrs.jack sparrow]

@dell, whatya mean? lesbos?

[OD]

i'm 37 and im happily unattached. i've had my share of relationships but the last was eons ago.  the thing is i never envisioned myself being a wife. i am contented with my life that I didn’t bother taking an extra step to look for a partner. i love my life as it is right now. i have a good paying job and i can do whatever i want with time all to myself. i think the only drawback of being alone at this stage is when i want to go out for some fun and wala akong mahatak na kasama because most of my friends already have families of their own.

Ive resigned to the fact that I was born unusually eccentric since I dont know or havent met anyone personally who harbor the same line of thinking till I came across your post and Alexandrea. Unusual bec I do love and swoon over men but I never really saw myself sharing the bed with someone for good. Especially if that guy will snore louder than a rooster's morning shout-out. What a sigh of relief

Pun aside, I never imagined myself in a maternity garb, much less don a bridal gown and walk on the aisle. Guys would tell me "you surely dont want to grow old alone" but it does not really bother me at all. And true yan that the only time that I dread singleton is when Ive no friends to turn to whenever i feel like catching a movie or trying out a new food joint coz they all have mommy or wifey duties to fulfill first.

[interruptedz]

hi beck19 and cecil. sama ko dyan ha :-)

[beck19]

^sureness

cecily, glendale im OK sa kahit na anong meetups.. mall/out of town/typical sat night gimik... just let me know ahead para hindi ako malurkey..

ayoko mag organize.. kasi proven na pag ako nag organize, hindi ako nakakasama..

[sheng_kah]

ako din sama...

[tennisgirl]

join din ako mga sis...pm nyo na lang ako kung kelan and saan. 

[beck19]

dami naten ha.. masaya to. pero ayoko lang talaga mag organize.. haha

[jasive51]

i've reached the age of 29, nakakatatlo na ko bf pero ala pa rin napakasalan...ganito na ba kahirap maghanap ng asawa? lol...

[interruptedz]

^ naku mam cecily, ang gimik ko outdoors,sa mga remote places.hehe
si beck19 sya ang maraming alam na hangouts, and masaya kasama sila beck19 and other GT pipz here

[tennisgirl]

glendale, gusto mo ikaw mag-organize? please?  how about kung meet-up sa bar?

suggestion ko naman sa starbucks 

[beck19]

^ naku mam cecily, ang gimik ko outdoors,sa mga remote places.hehe
si beck19 sya ang maraming alam na hangouts, and masaya kasama sila beck19 and other GT pipz here

aba.,. remote places lang rin alam ko...

anyhow, we can have a meetup on fridays, after work. pero ano ba after office hours niyo? makati or ortigas sana? or ortigas para gitna (south/north). 

(sabi ko ayoko mag organize kasi hindi ako nakakasama. haha. oh well.. )

[alexandrea]

Magkikita kita ba kayo? Join ako ah! I have my own circle of friends but many of them are married with kids na. Of course mahirap na silang yayain kahit sa mall lang.

[interruptedz]

Magkikita kita ba kayo? Join ako ah! I have my own circle of friends but many of them are married with kids na. Of course mahirap na silang yayain kahit sa mall lang.

^^ may naghihintay lang na mag-organize, baka pwedeng ikaw mag organize miss alexandrea :-)

[alexandrea]

^ Hmmm I can, but after two weeks pa. I'm busy at work eh. I'm also preparing for a trip to Naga this Sept 24 for the Cam Sur run on the 26th. But after that, sige I'll see if I can organize one.