Single people in their late 20s all the way to 30s

[lyrahs]

I'm 29 turning 30 next year and single for the loooooooongest time. I am not dating anyone kasi wala naman akong makita. Hindi naman ako mapili kasi wala namang pagpipilian. Hay naku.
Gusto ko na din sanag magka-lovelife kaya lang wala pa talaga eh. Minsan na-iinggit na din ako sa mga kaibigan ko na kinasal/ikakasal na, wishing na sana ako din. Lalo na yung iba na quota na sa mga bagets nila.

[mooncake and leaves]

after 6 years, i'm single again. i'm 25.

i can honestly say that there's no pressure at all from family or friends. maybe because in our family, i have aunts and cousins who remained single their entire lives and my sister is separated. and i think my parents groomed us, actively and by accident, that we don't necessarily have to take the path most people take. so bata pa lang, i always had this idea that it's okay even if my choices are different.

sa friends naman, wala ding pressure kasi most of my friends are still unmarried. some of my closest friends have no intention of ever getting married. of the four married friends i have, i think one is happy, the other one hasn't seen her husband in 8 years, one is not having sex and the other one, her husband is having a lot of sex with other girls. so as you can see, not much motivation in there for marriage. harhar.

what's so great about it? the fact that people can still ask me what's so great about being single. i doubt that question would ever pop up when i'm 50.

[nightwing]

single na si pretty mooncake and leaves?

[carmilina]

I'm turning 25 next month... Just broke up with my 1st BF for 7years.. I don't even know about dating anymore.. Mas enjoy nga maging single pero wag naman sana forever..

--korek sis...


at abta pa nman tyo..many things will come

[mommyquel]

Enjoy lang mga sis...kasi pag dumating na si Mr.Right, tuluy-tuloy yan....like in my case.

I enjoyed my being single...had a blast actually...got married at 33 (almost 34) and got preggy right away...had my baby at 34...& now enjoying being a wife and a mommy.

Advice ko...if you meet someone that you like, pray for him...God will give you signs if he is the one. I've proven this!

[rlyn27]

well me rin im 29 at mag 30 na next year.. matagal rin ako single..ganun talaga ang lyf eh sobra na pini pressure na ako sa mga family ko at mga kasama ko dito sa office eh ano magagawa ko dahil sobra choosy ko daw eh sa wala talaga ako nagustuhan sa mga suitors ko noh..alangan go lang ng go den ko pa rin maging sigurista.. happy ako kung anong ano ngaun i have faith na meron talaga naka tadhana sa akin sabi nga sa ibang sister dito na pag may nagustuhan ka pag pray mo at hingi ng sign.. dpat single rin para happy dba;)

[rinapie]

am 25 and turning 26 early net year... no pressure naman. am still studying at major palamunin ng magulang. hehe! enjoy lang.

[anna_uk]

ako din single ulet! although it's been awhile already. after 6 yrs, finally had the courage to let go and been so happy ever since that phase na you're broken kasi you're scared na you made a wrong decision hehe...

i've been on dates pero none have been successful. haha nagka-blind date disaster pa ako! pero madami pang iba jan, yun ang narealize ko... i should just know my worth and the guys will realize that also. hoping for the best na lang - basta be nice to all the guys you meet (not easy ha!) and always look pretty :p hehe... wag na lang mag-isip ng "timetable" kasi maloloka ka lang. basta i-enjoy na walang ibang iniisip kundi sarili hehe. andaming magagawang worthwhile naman and i also have faith na when i'm finally ready - magiging ready na rin whoever is meant for me. yikeee! :p

[roshi]

heya guyzzz im missed gt....count me in  here. grabe dami pala tayong single ladies here kase ba nman yung ibang mga guys nagiging gays na!!! [textspeak!] ba yun!! grabe ang gwa-gwapo pa naman nila yung pala mga paminta...kainiz...lol

[tokneneng]

im 31 and been single for almost four years after a
four-year relationship.  guys come, pero hindi talaga yun e.. no sparks fly.. so pano.. eto single pa rin..

at dahil naging single, nakapagfocus sa career.. but sometimes it comes to the point na your career becomes your enemy in meeting guys.

pressure.. just been pressured recently.. ikaw b naman ang umattend ng reunion.. tapos ang kasama mo lang ay parents mo (dahil brothers mo with family ay abroad).. ikaw na ang maging MVP.. sa lahat ng parlor games kasi dapat represetative of every clan.. gets annoying sometimes but cool.. hehe.. dami ko hakot prizes.. lolz

seriously, being single is happy but not for long.

[Eureka1088]

di naman ako pressured kahit single kasi i have a lot of other good things going in my life. also i have friends na single din so parang di ko naiisip. i date naman and have BFs in the past so its not that I dont go out with men. sakin kasi ayaw ko ipilit kung wala kasi waste of time din if you will have a relationship just for the sake of having one. some of my schoolmates who married young are actually jealous of me kasi parang wala ako problems. sabi ko meron naman sila na wala rin ako. so i guess  kanya kanyang swerte lang din.

[ruthreyes21]

hi sisters!im just new here..dati nagbabasa lang ako pero now makakapag share na din ako yipeee!
akala ko ako lang din may case na ganito marami pala tayo hehe..
im 28 as of now pero super enjoy of being single for almost 4 years na..
minsan nakakaramdam din ng loneliness especially if me makikita kang mag bf's o di kaya ikinakasal na mga friends mo or worst me anak na rin cla...
i do a lot of activities para ma ease ang dumadapong loneliness na yan like i go to mall with my sister,.magpaganda,(minsan nga napapagkamalan akong 25 years old lang!),go to my novena evry wednesdays and cooking a lot!
di na ako nkikipag date, na trauma na ako eh may last date eh disaster..
for 4 years of being single i feel na parang nag matured nko mentally, emotionally..un bang looking for positive things in life..
pinag pre pray ko din naman kay lord na sana in his time eh ma memeet ko din yung right one for me..syempre gusto ko din namang magkaroon ng own family ko in the future..

[SEXY_LOLA]

Honestly, what made it so easy for me to handle the pressure is sorrounding myself with single ladies like me who loves being single I know so many girls my age even older who are still single, and we are not obssessing on it.

Sometimes, out of town trip, shopping, hanging out one to sawa, going to places we haven't visited, trying out sports we never thought of tryng, learning new things, exploring, attending seminars, planning on trips abroad, shopping, saving up, investing, relaxing you can only do all of these when you are single. I even get to do it with my friends. The relationship part will come eventually, I have't even seen half of the men around the world!!!

[muahmuahmuah]

my current single self prayer :

dear GOD, please dont let me get tired of myself. amen



bwahahahah

[annapearl]

  It's been so long since i last logged this forum. I'm 30 now and going 31 this June. Never had any relationship for like 9 years?  Being single is really difficult for me. When I am at office or with my friends I don't mind it, but when i am alone at home, I'm really wishing na sana magka-BF na ako. Siguro dahil na rin mataba ako kaya walang nagkakagusto. Sabi nila kailangan ko nang magpapayat. Pero at times maganda rin ang single 'cause you don't have any other worries except your family. I also ask God to give me one pero minsan d ako consistent sa prayer ko hehe.Minsan nakakasanayan na maging single.

[bookworm_bounce]

I will be 28 in 11 days and I've been single for 6 years.  From then until last year, I had feelings pero mukhang ako ataang queen of unrequited love.  Minsan nakakapagod na, minsan naququestion mo na kung ano ba mali sa'yo pero nakakaget over din naman kahit papano.

Siguro nga kasi there never was anything that was lost; sabi ng iba it would have been harder kung something happened then it went awry.  At least sa mga could-have-beens, madali magsnap back to reality.  Pero yun nga, minsan nakakasawa...at nakakalungkot din.

Sabi nila mataas daw standard ko kasi marami daw sa paligid mapili lang ako.  I beg to differ, though.  Kasi I know marami naman dyan pero di ba, dumadating kasi yung feeling sa'yo and it's always not deliberate.  hindi naman kasi yung sunggab ng sunggab, syempre iba yung pagtingin mo one day, medyo kinikilig ka na (whether first meeting pa lang or matagal mo na kakilala pero one day nakita mo sya in a different way).

Oh well, mga sis, masaya naman ang single di ba? Ang biggest perk nga that I really appreciate is changing my mind ANYTIME.  I am the boss of me!

[bookworm_bounce]

Siguro dahil na rin mataba ako kaya walang nagkakagusto. Sabi nila kailangan ko nang magpapayat.

Ay sis, don't think that way.  Pareho tayo but I have learned to let go of that insecurity. Eh kasi ayaw na tlaga ako pumayat eh plus nasa family kasi namin eh so why fight it? Tsaka joke nga nila, in some Western countries, tayo ang tunay na sexy, kaya dun daw ako pumunta.
 
Seriously, tama ka, through prayers, makikita natin yung katapat natin.  Sa ngayon, enjoy lang.

[sweetubeng]

Im still hoping and praying that somehow, someday may guy talaga na inilaan ang diyos para sa akin, still patiently waiting and waiting

[jojo2978]

I'm 31.  I've been in a series of relationships, five (5) to be exact since I'm 19.  Just got out of an almost 6-year relationship barely 5 months ago.  It is really light to be single again but honestly, there are times that the day seem gloomy.

I'm hoping that time will come that I would be able to enter into a relationship again.  A part of me right now is afraid of commitment or the responsibility being in one.  I just don't want to expect. 

[annapearl]

someday may guy talaga na inilaan ang diyos para sa akin:(

meron nga kaya talagang nakalaan para sa isang tao?