NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[sweet.hann]

^hahaha tama! hindi mo na alam kung saan ka lalagay. pag nauna ka magtext, malandi ka. pag nagpakipot ka, pabebe naman or choosy. ang labo! hehe

haha! korek! its better to wait for the right person na lang.. for sure, nandyan lang naman yan eh..

[huggykaye]

^hahaha tama! hindi mo na alam kung saan ka lalagay. pag nauna ka magtext, malandi ka. pag nagpakipot ka, pabebe naman or choosy. ang labo! hehe

i agree, pero pag natagpuan mo yun, walang ganyang feeling na you are somewhere in between, pag natagpuan mo na yung guy na para sa yo parang everything falls in its perfect place.. and i like this film (your username) =D

[OtherBoleynGirl]

salamat mga sis huggykaye and sweet.hann. medyo positive na ang outlook ko ngayon. nafrustrate kasi ako these past few weeks dun sa someone na akala ko gusto ako - thinking na siya na ang magbebreak ng "curse" hehe. pinarealize sa akin ng mga friends ko na hindi siya ang the one.

ngayon, kuntento na ako sa mga pakilig ng Aldub at JaDine hahaha! 

[beachpatrol]

^^agree sis, mafifeel mo talaga na siya na yung tama para sayo, someone who will really be there in the perfect time and when you're ready.

may nanliligaw sakin ngayon pero medyo creepy hahaha di ko rin type eh kaya di ko masyadong pinapansin. malalaman mo naman sa sarili mo kung siya na   

[stameygirl]

^hahaha tama! hindi mo na alam kung saan ka lalagay. pag nauna ka magtext, malandi ka. pag nagpakipot ka, pabebe naman or choosy. ang labo! hehe

Is that what pabebe mean?

[OtherBoleynGirl]

^^uhm, pabebe means, parang nagpapa baby, pa-cute,or pa-sweet ka in your actions. 

[sweet.hann]

may nanliligaw sakin ngayon pero medyo creepy hahaha di ko rin type eh kaya di ko masyadong pinapansin. malalaman mo naman sa sarili mo kung siya na   

natawa ko dito.. creepy?? hindi gwapo noh? haha! joke!

[beachpatrol]

^may itsura si koya pero masyado kasi siyang mabilis, nagmamadali hahaha. ewan ko kung san patungo to pero ineenjoy ko nalang muna hahaha

[TomHansen]

^ mukhang may ggraduate na sa pagiging NBSB ha..

[sweet.hann]

ah.. ok.. medyo creepy nga.. hehe.. pero knowing na masyado syang mabilis, ikaw pa rin ang may control dyan kung hahayaan mo sya.. pero sabi mo nga, di mo naman type.. parang si Mr.11PM lang yan eh.. for 2 mos nakailang labas na kami pero since di na ko masyadong nagttxt sa kanya, nawala na rin sya..

[herroyalbleakness]

Girls, how do I convince my good friend na NBSB (34 y/o) to reconsider her very permanent plans of marrying a guy she met and dated ONCE in Europe?

She wants to leave Pinas and go to Europe to marry her Spaniard date. We, her closest friends, strongly disapprove of it pero super in love sya (which we assume is a one-way thing lang). The guy isn't even trying to be romantic as often as he should be after they met, but she justifies this as the guy being too busy lang. Absurd!

Namomoroblema kami kasi she can be too hasty when dealing with love issues. She is faaaaar from pangit and we know she will find the right man but all the guys we made reto, she refused after the first date.

[orangetabby]

I'm NBSB and I feel like a loser.

After all these years, no guy has ever been interested with me. I never ever had a suitor. I'm embarrassed everytime my friends ask about my "lovelife" when I say I never had a boyfriend feel ko ang pangeet pangeeeet ko.

My friends say that I'm good looking but I think otherwise kasi kung pasado naman ako sa looks department bakit wala man lang may lumalapit or willing mag effort sa akin? Kung personality naman, I'm nice but an introvert. Minsan iniisip ko baka intimidating looks ko? pero I argue back with myself na "Kahit ano man looks or personality mo if may gusto talaga sa'yo eh lalapitan ka pa rin" Kung ako man lalapit baka mareject lang ako at majudge pa ako ng mga tao.

Kaya ngayon I'm just now slowly accepting my single blessedness.

Sometimes I cant help but think ...ano kaya feeling na someone loves you for who you are. I feel envious to others who already found their special someone. Sa mga may special someone na, you are lucky and sa mga single pa rin, I hope na dumating na sa inyo yun.

I apologize for the rant 

[kvandenhaak]

^I was a perfect candidate for NBSB. What you need to do is to learn how to flirt a bit. Not necessarily initiating. Boys are probably intimidated with you even if you aren't trying to. Be confident. They find that sexy and attractive.

[KeyserSoze]

I'm NBSB and I feel like a loser.

After all these years, no guy has ever been interested with me. I never ever had a suitor. I'm embarrassed everytime my friends ask about my "lovelife" when I say I never had a boyfriend feel ko ang pangeet pangeeeet ko.

My friends say that I'm good looking but I think otherwise kasi kung pasado naman ako sa looks department bakit wala man lang may lumalapit or willing mag effort sa akin? Kung personality naman, I'm nice but an introvert. Minsan iniisip ko baka intimidating looks ko? pero I argue back with myself na "Kahit ano man looks or personality mo if may gusto talaga sa'yo eh lalapitan ka pa rin" Kung ako man lalapit baka mareject lang ako at majudge pa ako ng mga tao.

Kaya ngayon I'm just now slowly accepting my single blessedness.

Sometimes I cant help but think ...ano kaya feeling na someone loves you for who you are. I feel envious to others who already found their special someone. Sa mga may special someone na, you are lucky and sa mga single pa rin, I hope na dumating na sa inyo yun.

I apologize for the rant 

ilang taon ka na ba? baka naman bata ka pa and there's a lot of time pa to wait for love.

regarding sa itsura or ugali, it's always about improving yourself. the way you look, the way you interact with people, i mean i know women na maganda pero sobrang boring talaga kausap. there are a lot of things that we can improve in ourselves and you should just focus on that instead of worrying. life can be depressing and it brings us down, pero what matters is how we react to these situations. if malungkot ka and  you just let things be, ano mangyayari sayo diba? why not go to the gym para super sexy? learn na pagandahin pa further ang iyong sarili. learn how to talk to people, or even flirt? hehe. go outside and meet people. be positive, kasi majority ng tao mas attracted sa positive na mga tao kaysa negative.

hope i'm making sense. I just feel bad that you feel that way. sometimes kasi we become our own worst enemy and we end up torturing ourselves and it shouldn't be like that.

[red_yesha]

Kung kailan hindi ako nageexpect masyado dun dumating hehe. Pagkagraduate ko dati atat ako mag BF pero olats haha! Tapos ayun napagod kakahintay. Nagbagong buhay, nag explore, kahit di ko masyadong bet nakipagdate pa rin ako kasi gusto kong kilalanin. Ayun nabored ako sa date kasi walang spark talaga. Then dumating itong lalake, nagkayayaan lang manuod sa sinehan at nagkwentuhan ng matagal, kulang ang 6hrs bonding namin. Alam nyo kung di ko sinabeng 'tara!' nung nagpapahaging sya sakin walang magiging "kami". Sobrang thankful ako kasi kahit naging flop yung previous dates ko sa ibang lalake. Dun ako natuto, nabuild ang confidence ko. Kaya pagdating sa bf ko ngayon madali kong nadala ang sarili ko.
Try lang ng try girls, kailangan muna natin kilalanin ang isang lalake bago natin husgahan kung hindi nga sya ang 'the one'. Aja!

[Girltalker2]

kahit di ko masyadong bet nakipagdate pa rin ako kasi gusto kong kilalanin.

Sis natumbok mo!

Mas makikilala mo rin sarili mo in the process di ba? Ano yung gusto/ayaw mo sa isang guy.

Hindi naman Ibig sabihin mag date kayo eh kayo na or ikakasal na kayo. Nakiki mingle ka lang just to see what's out there.

[orangetabby]

ilang taon ka na ba? baka naman bata ka pa and there's a lot of time pa to wait for love.

regarding sa itsura or ugali, it's always about improving yourself. the way you look, the way you interact with people, i mean i know women na maganda pero sobrang boring talaga kausap. there are a lot of things that we can improve in ourselves and you should just focus on that instead of worrying. life can be depressing and it brings us down, pero what matters is how we react to these situations. if malungkot ka and  you just let things be, ano mangyayari sayo diba? why not go to the gym para super sexy? learn na pagandahin pa further ang iyong sarili. learn how to talk to people, or even flirt? hehe. go outside and meet people. be positive, kasi majority ng tao mas attracted sa positive na mga tao kaysa negative.

hope i'm making sense. I just feel bad that you feel that way. sometimes kasi we become our own worst enemy and we end up torturing ourselves and it shouldn't be like that.

Thanks sis for the tips Yan yung ginagawa ko ngayon, improving on myself by working out and magpaganda. Im trying to improve on my social skills rin kasi introvert at anxious ako siguro kasi nasanay akong magisa. 

[Jiyongah]

OMG! THIS ONE IS FOR ME.

NBSB for 26 years. I have tried to date but I just don't feel the guy. I do get messages from guys but I just don't like him or them that way. Now, I wonder when will I find the one, maybe I am too picky? But I don't want to have a boyfriend just for the sake of it. 

So how do you find guys? I work in a women-centered company as in NO boys so. I need help lol and tinder it's not working haha

[megustaelcafe]

If there is such a thing as closeted nbsb, ako na siguro yun. Select people lang nakakaalam pero siguro naaamoy na ng nga friendships ko. Situation ko naman may mga nagugustuhan akong tao pero they're all taken but not married, so I keep pursuing them. Ending nun wala rin naman akong napapala hehe. Ang hirap kasi talagang i-let go yung independence na nakasanayan ko na ever since, until the (right) man comes around. Habang wala pa eh di chill lang muna tayo, ladies! Cheers!

[MissIngridNieto]

I was part of the NBSB club and was totally sold out on being single forever (to the point na nag-launch ako ng website and came up with Happy Single videos) when God suddenly presented the guy who would become my husband. I did enjoy my single life to the hilt and for you sisters who are here, let me just encourage you to maximize this season God has given you. Both the single and married life have their own sets of learning, challenges and blessings.