NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[lady_liberty]

hello! ngayon lang ako bumalik sa thread na to and ang dami na palang reactions   

Uh-oh. Are you a lawyer now sis?

sis,i postponed taking the bar exam due to financial constraints, hehe.

 i think falling for jerks is a sign of low self esteem.

to quote from the 'diaries of a wallflower' (or something, cant remember), "we choose the love we think we deserve". yun siguro ang ibig sabihin ni sis EmC_87. because you dont think you're worth it, you settle for guys who are jerks.

hay nako mga sis, update naman sa mga lovelife ninyo. may naka-bf na ba sa mga dating nag-post dito?
ako heartbroken na naman, kasi the guy i like (and who seems to like me) is planning on migrating to canada.
parang ayoko na! i give up!!
ang hirap ng palaging ganito. i hope you gals have better luck than me   

[KittiEKittiE]

^ ako sis wala pa rin hehe but i dont dwell on it too much kasi pansin ko the more i desire to have a bf lalong hindi nagwowork and sa jerk ako lagi bumabagsak. So hinahayaan ko na lang kung may darating o wala bahala na si God dun

[diamondsinthesky]

I'm 23, and NBSB as well. Doesn't really bother me. I've always believed that everything will eventually fall into place and things will happen in God's perfect time. Besides, as old as I may seem, I still don't think I'm ready to get into a relationship. I think that I still have a lot to work on before I can commit to another person.

[beachpatrol]

26 and NBSB. No drama, ang saya maging free though ang kulit ng nanay ko. Eh ayoko magmadali. Kung darating, fine. Kung hindi, ok lang.

[cute_pompom]

26 and NBSB. No drama, ang saya maging free though ang kulit ng nanay ko. Eh ayoko magmadali. Kung darating, fine. Kung hindi, ok lang.

Yeah, but try dating as well.

[beachpatrol]

^yup, dating din naman ako

[cute_pompom]

^yup, dating din naman ako

So how was it? Wala pa din magustuhan?

[@JLO]

-- mga sis, just want to share this words from my cell leader, yep i am Christian:

Here it goes:

- Did Adam asked for Eve?
  Nope, Adam never asked for Eve, he was too busy in the paradise taking care off His creature, but  then again, He see Adam and thought Adam needs someone, so He created Eve.
  *He sees our needs. Surely pag nakita nya na na ready tayo at need na natin yun, He would give it to us.

- Ezekiel 16:8 (KJ21)

8 “‘Now when I passed by thee and looked upon thee, behold, thy time was the time of love.

[KittiEKittiE]

^ Nice one sis, thanks for sharing it

Have faith lang mga sis. For the meantime, let's focus muna sa sarili natin In God's perfect time darating din ang right guy for us

[oshiawase]

hay nako. nakakainis lang. I like this guy pero I know na hindi naman niya ako magugustuhan. lagi na lang bang unrequited ang drama ng buhay ko?



sorry sa rant! hahahahah!

[inluvewithmikewesten]

I feel you sis! Ganyan din ang peg ko for years. Kaya ngayon fictional characters muna ang crushes ko hehe!

[angelzero]

i have a friend who's NBSB. reason for it is she being too choosy. i have ran out of advice to give her still, ang taas taas pa rin ng standards nya. mostly it's about looks. i told her since marrying age na kami (late 20's), she shouldn't be too caught up on looks and go for the important qualities instead like stable sa career, someone she can easily get along with etc etc... i told her to go out w/ friends more to meet new people, ayaw naman nya. i want to set her up with someone, ayaw din. i'm not losing hope on her. i just want to her to wake up to reality. gusto na nya magka bf pero lahat na yata ng advice ko inignore nya. 

[snix]

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[cute_pompom]

i have a friend who's NBSB. reason for it is she being too choosy. i have ran out of advice to give her still, ang taas taas pa rin ng standards nya. mostly it's about looks. i told her since marrying age na kami (late 20's), she shouldn't be too caught up on looks and go for the important qualities instead like stable sa career, someone she can easily get along with etc etc... i told her to go out w/ friends more to meet new people, ayaw naman nya. i want to set her up with someone, ayaw din. i'm not losing hope on her. i just want to her to wake up to reality. gusto na nya magka bf pero lahat na yata ng advice ko inignore nya. 

Your friend should agree with your plan to set her up. Nothing to lose naman on her end. How can she have a boyfriend if she's not willing to meet guys. Being a kind person and having a good career are more important than good looks. As long as the guy looks decent then I don't see anything wrong if he's not that good-looking.

[angelzero]

@cute_pompom
thanks!
i've tried anecdotes. i've tried tough love. i've tried humor. still, di sya nakikinig. i also keep on telling her to ease up on the koreanovelas cuz her "ideal" guy has become chinito, maputi and matangkad (all 3 qualities must be present, mind you). good luck naman diba. but i'm not losing hope on her just yet. when she turns 30 this year maybe she'll re-think her unattainable standards.

[cute_pompom]

@cute_pompom
thanks!
i've tried anecdotes. i've tried tough love. i've tried humor. still, di sya nakikinig. i also keep on telling her to ease up on the koreanovelas cuz her "ideal" guy has become chinito, maputi and matangkad (all 3 qualities must be present, mind you). good luck naman diba. but i'm not losing hope on her just yet. when she turns 30 this year maybe she'll re-think her unattainable standards.

Yeah I guess she's hoping to meet her ideal guy one day. She doesn't want to be set up because maybe she feels that it's a desperate move. Or maybe she thinks that guys who want to be set up are not romantic? What's her reason why she doesn't want to? So she always stay at home during rest days from work? How did you know that she already wants to have a bf? Sometimes, you fall in love with the person who doesn't have all the ideal qualities you want.

[angelzero]

@cute_pompom
She tells me gusto na nya magka bf. Pero yun nga her weekends are mostly spent with her family. I have nothing against it but how on earth is she gonna find a bf if her family is always on her tail? Na sa kanya pa rin kasi yung high school-y idea of romance na dapat crush nyo muna isa't isa before you become bf gf. Kaya sarado rin sya sa idea na irereto ko sya kasi feeling nya whoever i set her up with won't be good enough.

[cute_pompom]

@cute_pompom
She tells me gusto na nya magka bf. Pero yun nga her weekends are mostly spent with her family. I have nothing against it but how on earth is she gonna find a bf if her family is always on her tail? Na sa kanya pa rin kasi yung high school-y idea of romance na dapat crush nyo muna isa't isa before you become bf gf. Kaya sarado rin sya sa idea na irereto ko sya kasi feeling nya whoever i set her up with won't be good enough.

Labo din ng friend mo. It's kind of hard for someone to have a crush on her when in fact she doesn't mingle or go out. So how can she meet someone if she doesn't want to be introduced to guys. That's the only way for her to meet possible suitors. It doesn't mean na just because nireto lang that it's not possible for feelings to grow. It all starts naman in introduction then if there's spark or attraction then it can be the start of courtship stage.

[sakura_hina]

I'm 26 and NBSB... napepressure na nga ako..
Nung college kasi school tapos bahay lang.
Nung nagkawork, work tapos bahay lang din.

Yun lang ang routine ko everyday.

If lumalabas naman mga kapatid ang kasama ko.

[WildShy]

@sis Berynice

Im working as a nurse sa isang hmo sa isang malaking hospital. nbsb din ( or shall I say Walang Matinong Jowa since Birth?? ;-)) anyway, sa line of work ko I get to meet a lot of people who are suffering from different kinds of illness/disease which affects their physical appearance, but mind you.. kasama nila mga jowa nila pag nagpupunta sa clinic at nagpapacheck up, and some of them are really good catch! ( mga gwapo pa! ;-)) some of them, on a scrutinizing eyes, masasabing hindi maganda, morbidly obese, maitim pa pero sa labas ng clinic ka holding hands ang bf.

what Im trying to point out is that, ang guy pag nagustuhan ka siguro talaga nila, wala na silang pakialam sa itsura mo. as long as they are happy with you, they'll be contented. no more questions ask. ;-) lets stay positive sis!! ;-) im kind of chubby din kasi and hindi ganoon kaganda, kaya pag nakakakita ako ng mga ganitong couple, somehow naiinspire ako and happy ako sa girl. She's lucky to find someone who's proud of her and holds her hand and shows how he adores her in public. ;-)