NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[llemija]

sis wishing you luck!  how is it so far?

hanap karin ng ibang crush para di 100% attention mo eh sa kanya.

naku sis, since mtgal na yung post ko eh. walang nangyari. siguro nga we're not meant to be talaga. pero there this new guy ngayon sis, he's 2 years younger than me. we went out na a couple of times na. we talked every night over the phone. tapos he went out of town (sa hometown niya) for a week tapos pag balik na dito eh nag usap naman kami and went out. 2 days after, since nung last time kami lumabas hanggang sa tinatype ko ito eh i never heard anything from him, no calls nor text. i'm trying to call him but he didn't answer. di ko alam sis kung ginagawa lang nya ito kasi nagpapa-miss or kabaligtaran. nga pla, we held hands na. so medyo complicated.

[@JLO]

so typical with boys... why then suddenly disappear >.<

[broken_heart]

NBSB ako till I turned 26 years old (im 28 na). I'm not pretty, guys don't ask me out, and those who did hindi rin kagwapuhan (as in walang itsura) so di ko rin type (may taste pa rin naman ako). 

I WAITED A LONG TIME...then...

I met my bf at work, hindi expected, and now were engaged to be married and couldn't be any happier

So ladies, wag nyo madaliin, it will happen. BE PATIENT and hustle while you wait

[@JLO]

like yung nasa taas

[chinxys4]

I'm 26. Nbsb din ako pero may mga nanliligaw naman sakin kaso pihikan kasi ako and meron na akong muntik magka bf kaso eventually ndi din natuloy kasi ngkaron siya ng ibang gf. So nagcontribute yung situation na yun na mahirap ipagkatiwala ang puso kasi masakit  masaktan.. Kaya ngayon dating lang.. Pero nakakapressure kasi mga kinakasal na mga barkada ko,

gusto ko din naman magkaron ng speacial someone. Sana makilala ko na siya.. Hehe

[gwenniedale]

@JLO

^Last time I check, hindi pag-kain ang mga babae, hindi bagay. If a guy really wants the girl, he should have the guts to pursue her.

^Yung mga lalaking ganyan, gusto lang ng easy to get. Yung girl na madali makuha dahil alam na nya kung pano kunin. Tamad mangligaw. Gusto instant relationship na. Yung mga taong ganyan, hindi pangmatagalan.

Your right sis... It happened to me many times..
Tpos ssbhin png Hindi kasi cla mrunong Mnligaw..

Gusto [textspeak!] [textspeak!] ng girls n mprmdam s Kanila Kung gaano sila kamahal,

[KittiEKittiE]

It's nice to know na hindi ako nagiisa, NBSB here as well

I'm 26 now, yet happy to be single. Of course, may mga times na gusto ko rin maramdaman how it feels like to be in a relationship pero kasi mahirap na makatagpo ngayon ng seseryosohin ka. I've had suitors naman, choosy lang talaga ako hehe and yung mga nagustuhan ko before its either may gf na or gusto lang makipaglaro and I don't have time for that. Masaya naman ako, and lagi naman ako sinasabihan na i-enjoy ko lang daw kasi iba na pag may karelasyon ka or yung may asawa na. May times na nabored ako kaya natry ko na rin ang online dating. Not really to have a bf (possibility siguro) but meeting new friends, someone to hang out with. Ok naman experience ko sa ganun, but I realize masaya pa ko na single ako

[oshiawase]

Count me in! No suitor since birth din ako and its by choice and I'm 26 na. Meron nagkakagusto sa akin pero di naman nila tinutuloy. Ewan ko kung bakit. Baka takot sila sa akin kasi mukha daw akong suplada. Ayoko din yung sasabihan ka palagi na darating din yan kasi by choice nga eh so kahit dumating pa yan eh keber ko. I'm happy being single and I choose to stay single forever.

Pareho tayo. NBSB din ako. May "nagpaparamdam" na asaran lang pero hindi naman natutuloy sa formal na ligawan. Well, hindi din naman ako maganda at hindi din naman ako umeeffort mag ayos at lumandi kaya siguro ganun. Tsaka medyo acads and focus ko all this time. Introvert din so first impression ng iba suplada ako.

Pero napapaisip ako kung yan lang ba ang mga dahilan kung bakit walang formal na nanliligaw?

haaayyy... ayokong tumandang dalaga

I'm 20 btw.

[oshiawase]

may nagsabi sa kin dati that my prince is on his way na, baka naligaw lang and maybe he's just too stubborn to ask for directions

Cute naman nito. Pero ako minsan tinatanong ko if in the first place nasa lifetime ko ba siya? hahahah!

[oshiawase]

ang pagakakaintindi ko kasi dun is that... like eating out,,, when u know someone had ate there already at masarap daw... u would give it a try else pag wala pa sa barkada mo naka try nun... clueless ka and you wont waste time... to go there and check it out.... so ang babaeng single .. is like ayaw ng guy na sya ang mag try kung pano ligawan tong babaeng to... else aantay sya ng iba to do that and if that works.. nasa queue na nya yun haha

Hindi ba ang lungkot nyan? so pano tayo na nbsb at yung mga nssb meaning wala ng pag-asa?

May maglalakas loob ba na lalaki?

Nalulungkot tuloy ako pag kasama ko mga friends ko na may bf...lagi na lang mag tumatawag sakinila after class na bf nila asking them if they're okay and stuff like that. eh ako kahit magulang ko hindi ganun (not that I want them to constantly check on me) hahaha!

NAKAKA FRUSTRATE!

[@JLO]

Hindi ba ang lungkot nyan? so pano tayo na nbsb at yung mga nssb meaning wala ng pag-asa?

May maglalakas loob ba na lalaki?

Nalulungkot tuloy ako pag kasama ko mga friends ko na may bf...lagi na lang mag tumatawag sakinila after class na bf nila asking them if they're okay and stuff like that. eh ako kahit magulang ko hindi ganun (not that I want them to constantly check on me) hahaha!

NAKAKA FRUSTRATE!

ei... please dont be.. though ako ay ganyan na din pero... no wag kasi nega yan ehhh....


#1: Magpaganda ka. If you feel na di ka maganda then do,,, kasi the way you would look at urself would also change.. magpaganda para sa sarili... ako i make sure I look good everyday... siguro sa sobrang baba ng self esteem ko haha... nung natuto akong mag ayos ni araw araw ko na... Guys are 100% visual.. so ito talga yung una mapapansin...

#2: Be interesting... You have ur own set of gusto... wag typical girl... me mga bagay na pag nalaman ng guy sayo ay maaamazed sila... since surely they are not getting to any typical girl..
sample: youre into sports/books/volunteering act... or kaya you love cooking... you love radio. anything at all...

#3: Never say never. lol... Ako I have faith darating yan iyun na lang imindset natin... basta habang wala pa sya... I would be my best so when he comes... it would be happiness at di kami mamomoblema, na I was this, I was like that.. kasi nabuo mo na sarili mo when he comes...
Youre happiness would be for the two of you, and not for him to fill the loneliness in you... I dont know if I am making sense >.<. Do not go in to relationship dahil gusto mo lang mapasaya ka nya... If youre not happy being single then theres no way you would be happy being in a relationship,, so while hes not yet coming... lets make the best of us .

#4: Maging frendly, smile always... wag maging allergic/awkward towards boys... this would shoo/choo??? them away...

#5: It all boils down to standard... if you want to be happy... then lower ur standards and expectation.. just make sure youre getting what you deserve... its how you would make it that would make it special.. do not point out what the other person lacks, but what the person has to offer...

ahmm... be happy... life is so special... but of course it maybe be a lot happier if we share it to someone...

di na nga pala ko nbsb... pero im single anyway

[@JLO]

hello sprinkledust,

#you know what, this somewhat bothers me. you, constantly reaching out to help a friend out...
i read it somewhere when, someone said na ikaw daw to... na me situation na to...


#wth → she doesn't deserve to feel pretty and look good. !!!
--- everybody deserves this!,
--- everybody can...

#hmmm... i really cant help. i can said a lot, even copy paste all the things i saw in the net... on the book i read.. pero nasa sayo yan.. if you dont believe, then theres nothing we can do for her...

#puro doesnt lang ang nabasa ko sa post... wala man lang she can...

#there are things in life that would really make you feel down, that you in your own self would create/make ways to revert that or do anything that would make you feel good, just to lessen the sadness you feel... like if after a break up, you go shopping.. you do something that would make you happy once again... maybe shes not truely lonely, cause if she was... gumawa na sya ng paraan para man lang sumaya sya..

#honestly.. does she even try putting make up on? if she has a budget.. surely we can help her out.. in outside beauty alone...

[wanderinglass]

Me. I'm 20. Mix din e. Busy din kasi sa school pero there are times na nalulungkot din ako. Gusto ko din namn ng by the end of the day, may nasasabhan ng problems at ng kasiyahan. Laging malamig ang christmas ko. Nakaka-bitter din pag valentines kasi walang partner.

Medyo mataas din kasi standards ko. And choosy. Hindi rin ako magaling in dealing with guys.

[izzybaby]

i'm 28. there were moments in the past that i felt frustrated. but now, i'm happy to be alone. ayoko ng bato na ipupukol ko sa ulo ko. singlehood is happiness. i can embrace my freedom completely.

[Chinito]

i'm 28. there were moments in the past that i felt frustrated. but now, i'm happy to be alone. ayoko ng bato na ipupukol ko sa ulo ko. singlehood is happiness. i can embrace my freedom completely.

Hahah, kapatid bakit naman bato ang turing mo sa pakikipag relasyon? wala bang good side ang pagkakaroon ng partner?   sa totoo lang ako single din, i would say that im happy being single. i can do whatever i want. no emotional commitment, focus sa work, less responsibility, less gastos , walang nakiki elam, walang susuyuin etc etc.
 pero at the end of the day it's just me and the 4 corners of my room. i felt something is still missing.

[lady_liberty]

i just turned 29 and still nbsb, and honestly it makes me feel sad.
before it was by choice, i wasn't emotionally ready. immature pa and ayaw ko ng may nanliligaw, gusto ko friends lang palagi..
then i had this wonderful guy who i was also in love with pero i had to choose between school or him (i was taking up law then)
and i chose my studies/career kasi i needed to focus
and dapat no distractions..
so i had to let him go, and i've regretted that decision ever since.

ngayon, i have all the time in the world pero parang wala nang dumadating...
i miss the feeling of being in love and i want to have that again
pero i don't know if dadating pa 

[KittiEKittiE]

^^ I totally agree. Kahit single and happy, there are times pa rin na maiisip mo how it feels like to have someone special. Can't help minsan isipin na baka napagiiwanan na ko. Pero madami pa rin naman ako kilalang single gaya ko so I'm not in a rush. Pero sana before 30 maexperience ko naman magka bf

[oshiawase]

Me. I'm 20. Mix din e. Busy din kasi sa school pero there are times na nalulungkot din ako. Gusto ko din namn ng by the end of the day, may nasasabhan ng problems at ng kasiyahan. Laging malamig ang christmas ko. Nakaka-bitter din pag valentines kasi walang partner.

Medyo mataas din kasi standards ko. And choosy. Hindi rin ako magaling in dealing with guys.

OMG PAREHAS TAYO. While reading your post, I had to check who posted it kasi akala ko ako!!!

super same sentiments, and 20 yo din ako.

IM SUPER HOPELESS NA.

[@JLO]

20 and hopeless... ano beh.... c'mon me mga ate pa kayo dito na same situation...

[mynameisjuaiy]

20 pa lang nab-bother na...don't be...hay nako the last time na nag post ako sa thread na to 2010 pa. until now nbsb pa rin...kakalungkot pero ganun talaga.minsan life is not so fair. anyhow, "we're rare species" i was told by a guy pa ha...again, gooduck to us! cheers!