NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[llemija]

I was 28 when i had my very first boyfriend as in NBSB talaga ko and walang ka romance romance ang life ko maski lapit walang makalapit sa kin.... palaki kase ako ng lola na super conservative and i felt masyado akong naprotektahan from the big bad world... when my lola died dun palang ako natuto maging independent and madami akong natutunan sa sarili ko... masaya naman ako sa love na nakukuha ko sa family ko but then parang palaging may kulang... then just one day I got hired sa isang malaking company and dun ko nakilala yung taong magiging special part pala ng life ko... ay nako mga sis... lahat na yata ng love and heart break naranasan ko sa taong to and masyado talagang mahirap nung umpisa to think na wala naman akong experience pa sa relationship... pero this year nag 3 years na kami and nag propose na din sya sa akin and a few months from now we're getting married na.... worth it din naman yung paghihintay ko...

kaya advice ko sa mga singles pa din dito... yung love dumadating din yan... basta form lang kayo ng friendship with people, maki mingle kayo, smile always and be nice to people kase who knows nandyan lang pala sa tabi tabi yung taong makakasama nyo for life.... cheesy but true 

wow naman sis! grabe it happens pala in real life! i thought sa movies lang yang love story na yan! i do agree! darating din yan. sabi nga "you can't hurry love you just have to wait!" thanks for inspiring me!

[@JLO]

Pustahan tayo single pa rin ito hanggang ngayon.

Pano mo nasabi...

[sakura_bloom]

Pano mo nasabi...

Mr punch, paki clarify lang kung tama ang pagkaintindi ko kung bakit sa palagay mo single pa rin to.
Dahil ata sobrang desperada, na ang mga lalaki ang lumalayo sa kanya. Malay mo Mr. Punch hindi na siya NBSB.. baka may mas desperate pa na guy na nanligaw pa sa kanya? At gulat din ako, ang tagal na nito ah.. 2010 pa at 2012 na ngayon? Bakit mo naman bigla naisip mr punch? Bakit biglang blast from the past?

[toypoodledog123]

basta ang masasabi ko lang talaga sa lahat ay wag mag papapressure.. minsan kasi we end up deciding for other people not for ourselves -- just to prove na maganda, loveable or normal tayo. haha. at 20's medyo mahirap na talagang makatagpo ng true love dahil ibang klase na ang mga guys ngayon.. eh para sakin ideal lang talaga yung magstart kayo as friends - walang malisya. keribells lang sa mga sis na NBSB. pag masyado nagpa-pressure tayo sa iba, sila ba masasaktan bandang huli? diba tayo din.. hehe

[@JLO]

I do belong to this group at obviously lapit na feb 14... op ness na naman sa day na yun hehe

[janix athena]

Mga sis meron pong related thread dito

"No boyfriend since birth at 29 - advice?"

I've posted replies there which I think will help our sisses here.

Mr punch, paki clarify lang kung tama ang pagkaintindi ko kung bakit sa palagay mo single pa rin to.
Dahil ata sobrang desperada, na ang mga lalaki ang lumalayo sa kanya. Malay mo Mr. Punch hindi na siya NBSB.. baka may mas desperate pa na guy na nanligaw pa sa kanya? At gulat din ako, ang tagal na nito ah.. 2010 pa at 2012 na ngayon? Bakit mo naman bigla naisip mr punch? Bakit biglang blast from the past?

I think Mr. Punch means that sis zushi18 seems to be immature (tama lang naman kasi 18 yrs old pa lang sya at the time) and she seemed a bit unstable from her post (kasi nga naman heartbroken sya) . Also kasi andami nyang textspeak so parang hindi sya composed enough to edit yung mga sinulat nya. To summarize: unstable, immature, and hysterical = turn off.

Sorry mga sis I don't want to offend anyone here. Guys are more straightforward in their opinions,  Mr. Punch didn't elaborate but that's what he means. If you want to verify sa thread na "What makes guys leave their girlfriends/wives", our guytalkers said the number one reason is because of mental instability. I hope sis zushi18 is doing ok now.

[@JLO]

Mental instability... wow first encounter ko ng term na to... hehe

ill look for that thread sound interesting

[janix athena]

Helpful din po ang thread na ito.

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,256612.0.html

"DISKARTE sa paghahanap ng pag-ibig" ang title. Hope it helps. 

[poetrytoprose]

you'll find someone to love eventually, sisses. keep the hopes up!

[chinyen]

count me in! hehe , uunga sis poetrytoprose, kusa lang siya dumarating na hindi naten namamalayan :]

[dumpee.o13]

^ just droppin' by, i was caught by the subject kase although di naman ako NBSB pero i have this college barkada na ganyan. until now she's 24, wala pa rin syang bf. pinipilit na nga namen, sabe nya wala daw talagang nagkakamaling manligaw sakanya. di naman sya panget, sakto lang. before, i remember na meron kameng friend pero lesbian na nafall talaga sya kaso di naman sya gusto at hanggang special friend lang ang tingen sakanya. ang ending cryola ang lola nyo, buti medyo nakamove on na sya. as of the moment, wala pa den syang jowa. sabe nga nya, di na daw sya umaasa. eto lang lage ko sinasabe sakanya, "There are billions of people all over the world and there's one heart only meant for you." =)

[Anne101]

Just wanna ask po, ano tingin niyo sa NBSB na 30yrs old, di pangit, matalino, friendly pero malakas ang dating na girl? may pag.asa pa kaya? hehe

[janix athena]

^Habang may buhay may pag-asa. But first the girl has to be open-mined and ask "What can I do differently?" Ang sabi nga, INSANITY is defined as doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.

So sis I recommend reading the book "How to Find a Date Worth Keeping" by Dr Henry Cloud. If not for that book siguro NBSB pa rin ako till now. And don't be like my tita na old-maid. I let her borrow my copy and after 1 year binalik sakin yung book, na di man lang nya binuklat! Ang sabi pa: "Eh hindi naman kasi talaga ako flirt." Duh! I'm not saying na maging flirt sya. I'm just saying, have an open mind. Anyway, we can't always force people to accept our view, pero sana wag muna i-reject, kasi wala naman mawawala if we give it a try. Hope this helps.

[abuanddiego]

^masama ba talagang maging old maid? madami akong kilalang ganyan, at parang yan nga ang pangarap ko sa buhay haha!

[Anne101]

janix athena, wow sis like your points of view. will check that book sa bookstore parang interesting siya. Actually i have group of friends as in single pa rin til now for some reasons and to think na malapit na silang lumampas ng kalendaryo. Some are by choice, busy sa work at siguro yung iba are really meant to be single for life...

[janix athena]

^Thanks sis, yeah meron pang subtitle yung book na "Be dating in six months or your money back" Haha. Funny lang.

@sis abuanddiego: Wala naman masama sa pagiging old maid kung yun talaga ang gusto mong mangyari. Pero if you're miserable being alone, and you ask, "Bakit kaya? Maganda naman ako, matalino, etc" Then something needs to be done. Masaklap naman na magpaka-old maid just because tinamad lang, tinamad na magbago, to go out of her comfort zone, to meet people.

So for people who choose to remain single, and people ask why, dapat wala nang embarassment on your part when you give your reply. Because you know in your heart, you could have had a lovelife, Pinili nyo lang talaga ang single-blessedness. Nothing wrong with that.

[ayanlanz]

hehe...dapat pala magpa-enlist ako dito.

i just turned 30 last last week and still NBSB

bakit nga ba?
i'm not sure if this is destiny or choice.

Basta ang mahalaga lang sa akin is I'm happy and contented on what and where am I right now.

[Anne101]

ayanlanz, wag kang mag.alala sis hindi ka nag.iisa. marami akong kilala yung iba pa nga more than 30 na. uso na ata yan ngayon lalo na kung workaholic.

janix athena, sis bought the book last night. di masyadong excited noh? interesting nga siya, thank you!

[janix athena]

^Wow I'm happy that you gave the book a try sis. Happy reading!

[imyourangel]

Proud to be NBSB
I do have standards na hindi naman impossible, but quite high.
I think it's better to wait than to settle for anything less than God's best. I'm a fan of Joshua Harris' books. If you're familiar with his principles then no need to explain further