NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[toypoodledog123]

Kai personally okay lang na single ako, pero naiiyak ako pag may nagtatanong kasi ang hirap mag-explain. And believe me ang hirap pala pag inaasar ka na NBSB!

Super late reply sis. Sorry naman. Hehe pero agree sayo. Kakainis kasi. Rude kaya tanungin ka kung bakit wala ka pang boyfriend. I believe hindi mo ma-eexplain yun. Yung ibang excuse like busy sa studies or high standards, medyo hindi ako convinced. Kasi kapag na-inlove ka na talaga at time mo naman talaga para ma-inlove, yun na yun.. Wala nang makakapigil sa'yo! hehe. Unless you overuse your mind like me. And may guy pa na makakapaghintay kung kailan ka ready. Most of the guys nowadays are so impatient na kasi. Bakit ganon?! hehe..

[boynextnextdoor]

bakit wala ka pang boyfriend toypoodle?

hehe joke lang 

dalawa lang naman ang reason bakit NBSB
1. Girl is not into Guys na humahabol sa kanya
2. Walang humahabol na Guy sa girl

if you answer 1, may be hindi pa talaga ready, or masyadong kang choosy, kung choosy ka naman dont be just a sitting duck. if you like someone you give him signs. (please note marami paring torpe guys ngayon). minsan sila pa yung good catch.

if 2, may be you need some change(wala na yung he should love me for who I am mentality)
go to the salon, work on your diet and exercise.

just always keep in mind that life is too short to enjoy yet too precious to waste

[toypoodledog123]

bakit wala ka pang boyfriend toypoodle?

hehe joke lang 

Thank you ha! hehe joke lang boynextnextdoor. combined number 1 and 2 ako. before, ako si 1, ngaun ako na si combined 1 and 2. ewan ko boynextnext door. siguro pride din talaga. sayang naman kasi, dinelay delay ko pa ng 22 yrs ang pagbboyfriend then i'll end up with a trash? I mean, pride din kasi maybe most of us still believe na the guy should always do the first move. kita mo, mas malaki ang percentage nang naririnig kong NBSB girls kaysa sa no girlfriend since birth na guys. Why? Because guys have the right to choose. Nasa inyo padin ang unang halakhak. haha kami, medyo awkward na kami ang magsasabi n we like someone. Tska mahirap tanggapin na sabihin ako ang nanligaw sa guy. hehe gnun kasi ang lalabas pag ako yung gumawa ng unang move. pride pride. hehe Basta basta.. hehe ang hirap talaga pag nakabuo ka ng standards mo and then you'll live with it. and there are lots of independent women nowadays. yung enjoy ng walang nangingialam and nasanay na nagrerely lang s friends, family and kay God syempre. I don't know. Pero aside from the two reasons you've mentioned above, madami pang factors. Thanks for speaking in behalf of the gents. 

[boynextnextdoor]

You are right just take it slow... mahirap din yung committed ka na then may dadating na mas gusto mo pala. my advise to you just enjoy on dating para makilala mo mga iba ibang tipo ng guys.

mahirap kasi isort out kung ano talaga ang gusto mo if you haven't tried it out.

[femmea]

I am one of NBSB ladies, I'm 30 years old.
I have been a meantime girl of a guy for almost 9 months. I have dated many guys but all they want is sex. They don't want to court a girl for so long (2 months for me, weekly dates). When I gave in, said "I love you", next thing they want is sex. Darn, I thought they are looking for long-term relationships.

So here I am, still haven't been in a serious relationship.

[toypoodledog123]

^nku sis, sana hindi mo binibigay. sayang naman.. wag ka nalang magpa-pressure. okay na yung na-experience mo once. pero sa panahon ngayon, mukhang most of the guys are like that na nga. all they want is sex. or if not, someone na maipagmamayabang. that's why andami natin diba? pero girl power. pairalin mo rin ang pride. haha kung sex lang ang hanap nila, then wag mo ng pansinin ever. aba, at least 1 yr in a relationship muna or dapat nga kasal muna bago yun..

[toypoodledog123]

You are right just take it slow... mahirap din yung committed ka na then may dadating na mas gusto mo pala. my advise to you just enjoy on dating para makilala mo mga iba ibang tipo ng guys.

mahirap kasi isort out kung ano talaga ang gusto mo if you haven't tried it out.

hay nako, sa kakadate ko nga, lalo yata akong nawalan ng pag-asa. kasi lahat sila ayaw pumunta dito sa house. haha and halos lahat ng klase yata naka-date ko na. wala pa nga talagang serious enought to do that. Nakaka-frustrate lang minsan. And kakainggit, mahilig pa naman ako sa romantic movies. hehe.. Pero keri lang, more on happy ako for being single than sad about it.  thanks ulit boynextnextdoor.. 

[boynextnextdoor]

hay nako, sa kakadate ko nga, lalo yata akong nawalan ng pag-asa. kasi lahat sila ayaw pumunta dito sa house. haha and halos lahat ng klase yata naka-date ko na. wala pa nga talagang serious enought to do that. Nakaka-frustrate lang minsan. And kakainggit, mahilig pa naman ako sa romantic movies. hehe.. Pero keri lang, more on happy ako for being single than sad about it.  thanks ulit boynextnextdoor.. 

ngek san ba house niyo baka naman sobrang layo? kahit naman ako wala ako plans mg hatid agad on the first date. 

26 here. NBSB. but i have a girlfriend. Never ko talaga na experience to be with a guy.
I want to try pero i really love my gf eh' im girly naman' and shes the boyish one. Hays how it feels like kaya to be with a guy lols, just curious....

I have nothing against same sex relationship, pero nakaka panghinayang minsan pag maganda ang kasama ni butch    or kapag si butch ang maganda    how does it feel? hmmm mas masarap parin mag mahal ang lalaki siyempre hehe.

[toypoodledog123]

ngek san ba house niyo baka naman sobrang layo? kahit naman ako wala ako plans mg hatid agad on the first date. 

hmm. merong nagtry pala. two guys. haay pero hindi sila nakapasok ng house dahil late na yun  hindi na sila nagpaparamdam. hehe! wala naman sa kabihasnan ang bahay namin. city pa din. hehe hmp, basta bahala na sila. 

[Mr.Punch]

Funny   Someone claimed to be NBSB "by choice", then in the next sentence she said she never had any suitors.

How can it be your choice if you never had the opportunity to accept or reject a man?     

[m_lim]

i have a friend na NBSB.

maganda naman, maganda rin trabaho. observation ko lang, ayaw kasi niya expand circle of friends niya kaya wala ng makilalang bagong tao.

[boynextnextdoor]

hmm. merong nagtry pala. two guys. haay pero hindi sila nakapasok ng house dahil late na yun  hindi na sila nagpaparamdam. hehe! wala naman sa kabihasnan ang bahay namin. city pa din. hehe hmp, basta bahala na sila. 

hindi kaya pulis or military yung dad mo kaya di sila nka pasok hahaha 

Funny   Someone claimed to be NBSB "by choice", then in the next sentence she said she never had any suitors.

How can it be your choice if you never had the opportunity to accept or reject a man?     

hehe baka "by chance"

i have a friend na NBSB.

maganda naman, maganda rin trabaho. observation ko lang, ayaw kasi niya expand circle of friends niya kaya wala ng makilalang bagong tao.

can I befriend your friend?   

[toypoodledog123]

hindi kaya pulis or military yung dad mo kaya di sila nka pasok LOL 

haha kinda. pero hindi na ngayon, hehe puro ka kalokohan boy nextnext door! 

[toypoodledog123]

Funny   Someone claimed to be NBSB "by choice", then in the next sentence she said she never had any suitors.

How can it be your choice if you never had the opportunity to accept or reject a man?     

By choice siguro niya kasi siya ang nagfifirst move pero baka hindi na-realize nyang ayaw naman pala niyang mainvolve sa serious relationship kaya by choice. ehe. Wag ka, maraming ganyang girls ngayon. Walang nanliligaw so sila ang naliligaw. And wala naman masama dun. Kanya kanyang paniniwala lang yun. 

[fernn88]

dalawa lang naman ang reason bakit NBSB
1. Girl is not into Guys na humahabol sa kanya
2. Walang humahabol na Guy sa girl

This is exacltly what i tell those who are asking me bakit ako NBSB... 

E ano kung nbsb? I'd rather be nbsb kesa naman i settle for second-rate guys just for the sake of having a boyfriend..

@boynextnext door     oo nga, bakit ba yung mga good catch ang totorpe?




meron ako dating gusto sa school na ka college ko, kaso niligawan sya nung girl bestfriend kong aggressive dahil sa napakagandang kadahilanang kamuka daw sya nung favorite niang *korean actor.. haha

ayun.. tapos nung naging sila na nung bestfriend ko, nalaman ko gusto din pala ako dati nung bf nia..

Ang weird lang kasi wala na akong pag-asa, ex na sya ng bestfriend ko.. offlimits na!
sayang GREAT catch pa naman yun..

[boynextnextdoor]

@boynextnext door     oo nga, bakit ba yung mga good catch ang totorpe?

hmmm bakit nga ba...
possible reasons are:
he's not just in to you 
he's ma pride 
he's intimated 
he's already taken 
he's just really shy 
he's gay?
... and more

but what does your instinct tells you?

[sashikibuta]

i'm in my late 30's and still single. never been in love. di naman ako bato 

[AILM]

I was, 19 years ago. haha

[llemija]

i'm 23 y.o. and nbsb.. minsan nkaka out of place pag kwentuhang love tapos tahimik ka lang. pero ok lang kasi alam kong parating na siya. and one more thing, sa office, alam ng mga kasama ko na nbsb ako then they gave me a deadline... i should have a bf on or before dec. 31, 2011 or else, i'll treat them to a fine dine restaurant!!! funny eh?!

[pixiedust]

me! but i don't mind it. hindi naman ako nahahanap though. mas bothered pa yun ibang tao about it than me. which puzzles me kasi i don't understand why they think that i need to be in a relationship. para bang there's something wrong with it.